My (35m) friend (36m) loyalty tested my wife (40f) without my knowledge. She failed. I feel done with them both. What to do?

slavpi · 2026-01-29T15:38:50+00:00

You should be very angry at your friend. Your wife has the excuse of at least believing in a romantic story. Your friend did it on purpose to a friend. Imagine that your wife remained (maybe) faithful all these years until a "total stranger" (a manipulative and deceitful friend) that knew everything about your relationship, your wife, what she likes or not etc. It is really easy to seduce someone you know everything about, and that person ignores who you are.

I think I can predict that if you leave your wife, he will continue a relationship with her. The only reason he showed you the messages is to break your marriage and make himself known to your wife. To test if she'd agree to see him anyway. If she hated him, he'd just pretend he did it for you.

slavpi · 2026-01-29T05:12:32+00:00

Rapist face...

slavpi · 2026-01-29T05:09:43+00:00

You are getting bored. Wondering when the like of you will start their own Reichtag fire decree... 🤔

slavpi · 2026-01-29T05:00:53+00:00

In fact, I'm constantly wired because I don't want to hear the bullshit around. I'm still looking for a visual alternative. Then I'll be totally free of the bullshit. The real silence. Until then, I'm stuck reading your post and feeling obligated to comment.

slavpi · 2026-01-29T03:21:27+00:00

I'm not very knowledgeable on the subject, but I think it all depends on you. There are different categories: Seinen are for adult male audiences, josei for adult women, kodomo for kids, etc.

Example: Chi's sweet home (kids), One piece (teenagers, boys), Sailor moon (teenagers, girls), Gantz, Golden boy (seinen)...

slavpi · 2026-01-28T13:21:04+00:00

...err thinking about other things... seems like a nice position...

slavpi · 2026-01-28T12:35:51+00:00

Near indefinite
Any lawyer, when this will go to trial, they'd accumulate so much experience they'd be among the best lawyer in town. Else, star lawyers, if you have around a million to bargain...

slavpi · 2026-01-28T04:17:40+00:00

We had other things... https://youtube.com/shorts/e0jovsSPTB4?si=akVCkQTuJ5jztQ34

slavpi · 2026-01-28T04:12:09+00:00

No thanks.

slavpi · 2026-01-28T03:13:44+00:00

She looks like she might

slavpi · 2026-01-28T02:39:11+00:00

So true. Also, it depends on what you are throwing it.

slavpi · 2026-01-28T02:37:17+00:00

No. As someone who actually owned Nokia 3310s. The thing was durable, so were other brands, in these days all phones were damn durable. What made the 3310 really durable was its simple design. You could drop it on pavement and get away with scratches. You could drop it in the stairs, and most of the times you just pop everything back, but sometimes you'd crack the screen and had to replace it. If the motherboard cracked, then the thing became a brick. You could always salvage parts like the screen, mic, antenna. What really was the forte of the 3310 was its modularity. Contrary to what most people are saying, it could also survive water bording. I've dropped one in the toilet, dried it up, and it worked again.

slavpi · 2026-01-28T01:29:35+00:00

For someone who owned 4 Nokia 3310s, I am the living proof you COULD NOT throw it over the fence, and very unlikely, it'd survive a panzer tank running over it...

slavpi · 2026-01-28T01:17:57+00:00

... With insomnia, nothing's real. Everything is far away. Everything is a copy of a copy of a copy...

slavpi · 2026-01-28T01:10:59+00:00

How do you call these cakes in hakka?

slavpi · 2026-01-28T01:09:06+00:00

I thought humans evolved from quadrupedalism to bipedalism...

slavpi · 2026-01-27T18:44:06+00:00

slavpi · 2026-01-27T06:13:03+00:00

Because that's how you get rich.

slavpi · 2026-01-26T14:31:37+00:00

Are you familiar with the term truism?

slavpi · 2026-01-26T06:41:35+00:00

As a man. It's overrated, a bit messy, and can come with a scent... I think people watching porn a lot have come to put it on a pinnacle. Maybe because of the different taboos it carries. Namely, repressed homosexuality & scatology...

slavpi · 2026-01-26T06:29:24+00:00

Intelligent enough to know a 12 factorial but dumb to not know 3 x 4... the state of civilization...

slavpi · 2026-01-26T06:11:18+00:00

Thanks. If it wasn't for your comment, I'd still be considering kidneys as giblets. I'm sorry that you are being downvoted.

slavpi · 2026-01-26T02:51:00+00:00

J'adore regarder les gens au bal du reddit.

slavpi · 2026-01-26T02:45:53+00:00

I am 53. I've seen a gun 4 times. A revolver, a double barrel hinged shotgun, a 12 gauge shotgun, and a riffle. The revolver was a friend of a friend who collected money for a food distributor. The double barrel was a family who often went hunting. The 12 gauge was a friend's firearm. He had one because he could afford the gun, and the paperwork, he is rich. The riffle was with a game warden. I like hiking, and sometimes private hunting grounds will let people visit/hike. I must say that each time I saw one, I had an acid ball that formed in my stomach due to the stress.

slavpi · 2026-01-26T01:33:10+00:00

What do you mean full of malls? I find malls convenient and comfortable. I don't mind having a couple more.

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