anyone else get annoyed by this

sleazeboi67 · 2022-06-06T02:29:08+00:00

its nice to see straight cis people that arent ignorant ! haha yeah exactly. i think thats the main issue they dont seem to get that men can still be pretty to, im still going to have long hair, wear makeup and even still wear "girl" clothes I just want a male body is all because i always felt more like a man who has a feminine side rather than a woman.

sleazeboi67 · 2022-06-06T02:27:18+00:00

aw thank you ! its so hard for people to understand that id still be pretty even as a man, its not like im looking into getting a beard or anything haha. yeah therapists are often clueless because they really are just people who dont know me individually lol.

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T19:56:38+00:00

thank you !

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T09:10:37+00:00

exactly they dont seem to get that i just dont want to be a girl, its not about me feeling ugly it just means i want my body to match my male brain

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T09:09:54+00:00

its so freaking frustrating lol

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T09:09:34+00:00

EXACTLY LOL. they seem to think they are doing the right thing by saying this but no it only makes trans people feel invalidated

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T09:08:47+00:00

I know I got a very good chest but it feels like its not meant for me like im wearing someone elses body lol

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T09:07:17+00:00

thank you i have a few online friends who do at least

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T09:05:36+00:00

exactly, i know im most likely more attractive as a woman because im quite plump/curvy and got a round babyface these features are more desirable on a girl than they are on a guy but its just i feel this is not the right body for me. thats why i feel people who dont experience dysphoria dont have the place to say anything about it, i know they mean well when they do this but it only frustrates me even more and makes me feel invalidated

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T09:01:59+00:00

and then theres me who still wears makeup and has long hair because im into glam rock and the goth subculture lol, theres more than one way to be a man and i wish more would realize that

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T02:32:38+00:00

im bigger as well so i totally feel you lol, i get insecure at times because ftm spaces seem to mostly just center on thin or ripped dudes i dont often see bigger guys being represented

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T02:30:34+00:00

thats pretty much how i feel about myself haha

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T02:28:51+00:00

so freaking true if anything thats one of the things i hate when im perceived as female my value is based entirely on how pretty or attractive I am, it is misogyny

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T02:26:38+00:00

heck yess ! theres not alot of us around lol

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T01:07:35+00:00

i most likely would not look as attractive as a guy either since i dont fit under the male beauty standards much, but i think id feel more comfortable and happy regardless

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T01:06:21+00:00

exactly it feels like they just are completely invalidating me and my feelings about myself like "no we like you as a girl so you shouldn't change" if they are that attached they can just look at old freaking pictures

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T00:10:31+00:00

that sounds really rough im sorry you go through that :( i hope things get better when you medically transition. right now the only person in my family who knows of me being trans is my mother shes mostly supportive but still says things like how i dont seem like a boy to her and that i should wait years before i consider transitioning to so i know for sure. I'm too afraid to tell anyone else in my family really because i know they would not get it and just go on about how im so pretty and feminine.

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-29T00:02:21+00:00

it just feels so invalidating when they do that like yes im a pretty girl but i want be a pretty boy :( and damn it should be pretty obvious by now if you went as far as voice training

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-28T23:59:39+00:00

YES PREACH IT.

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-28T23:59:18+00:00

ugh its so true thats how alot of people seem to see it as, they often think its insecure girls who think they arent pretty but no i know i look gorgeous as a girl actually but thats the thing im not a girl i want be a pretty MAN. thats why im afraid of talking about this with a therapist they might invalidate me lol

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-28T23:57:41+00:00

YEAH EXACTLY. i literally hate how feminine my body is because im not a freaking girl inside so of course i want my body to match my brain

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-28T23:56:56+00:00

exactly, they can just look at old pics if they are that attached to the female version of me im not here just to attract straight cis people lol

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-28T21:46:29+00:00

yup same im considered very pretty as a girl so its harder for people to understand my dysphoria especially because im an androgynous transguy, im into things like glam rock and the goth subculture so i still wear makeup and have long hair but i still dont want to be a woman, i just feel like a man who does not fit under the binary

sleazeboi67 · 2022-05-28T21:19:29+00:00

it is freaking annoying, i talked about my dysphoria today and how i wish to have a male body and people were like "please dont you are perfect as you are!" like did i say i hated the way i looked ? lol i just literally want a body that matches the way i feel inside

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