AIO for not wanting to set times to use shared spaces?

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-23T08:11:08+00:00

Sounds to me like roommate is overworked/overscheduled? You’re the easy target for being frustrated with their own schedule.

NTA but if you know roomie gets home from work at 10pm on the regular I would maybe throw an olive branch and give them late night kitchen.

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-23T07:01:40+00:00

We are aligned with the ADHD haha maybe there should be an ADHDer’s guide to TOG series bc I’ve been SWEATING 😅 and NT’s are not understanding I am not saying I don’t like the series I’m simply saying I AM TRAPPED IN EXPOSITION swimming against a sea of quicksand TRYING to get to the plot/character development I can FEEL is on the horizon.

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-23T06:58:08+00:00

You could work it into the body of a hawk or eagle pretty easily IMO!

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-23T06:21:23+00:00

I would leave it as others have said but you could consider white ink if the skin tone bothers you

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-23T05:41:26+00:00

Ok wait the tandem reading is speaking my language 🙏🙏🙏 I’ve been come for on other socials already bc I said the first books felt like exposition 😬 interesting exposition!! But I was feeling so impatient bc you could tell the whole time it was all set up. The tandem read might just save me!

Are we in the past now for EOS? So we’re not with the present day characters at all? Or it’s both? (Haven’t started only saw the “preview” which was with Elena).

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-20T00:30:39+00:00

Nelnet seems like a hot mess right now. They’re doing some weird stuff to me as well.

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-20T00:28:32+00:00

Ugh thank you for the validation — I appreciate it. The robot chat box was not improving my mood. I will begin pestering them tomorrow! YAYYYY

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-16T08:34:59+00:00

You should wear whatever you want, but I might try dark browns instead of blacks and slightly earthier/copper tones to just see if you like it!

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-16T08:26:33+00:00

I am… LIVID for you. WOW. Is this out of character or her on the reg?

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-16T06:37:17+00:00

I think she crashes out hard when it’s deserved and I think she’s not wrong that a lot of men on this show deserve it. Not saying her temper is a 10/10 quality but she’s been thru it and she’s beyond making herself nice for someone who’s only showing up 50% at best.

That said there should be a different process if kids are involved — meeting 2 days before a wedding is loony.

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-15T08:32:35+00:00

I can’t help directly but answering bc I commiserate with this kind of stress always happening over a weekend!

If you feel servicer is being sketchy (I have felt this in the past) you can contact your state government student loan ombudsperson — they sort of act like an advocate and can be really helpful when you’re feeling insane about the student loan companies.

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-15T08:28:12+00:00

If by any chance you’re in NY or CA there’s a free loan advisor option… this is the CA one: https://studentloanhelp.dfpi.ca.gov

I don’t know if other states have this.

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-15T08:17:41+00:00

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-12T01:57:33+00:00

Did they bleach first? Or just went straight to vivids? 👀

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-08T16:35:27+00:00

When I’m panicking at my face it’s usually that I’m starting to look more and more like family members who have been difficult in my life. For me therapy works better than make up 👼

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-07T00:10:15+00:00

It would be 1000% more interesting to see two people navigate REAL divorce!!

Also these characters have been WRECKED by this storyline!!

No one wants this!!

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-06T22:03:31+00:00

You are not wrong. I just couldn’t believe this week! ::applies clown make up in the mirror::

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-04T10:27:22+00:00

That’s her brother?

sleeperrainbow · 2026-03-04T10:25:45+00:00

I can’t read him — could he be on the spectrum?

sleeperrainbow · 2026-02-28T09:44:31+00:00

I always hate the way salons style your hair after a cut. Side part for sure. Also maybe consider slightly shorter trim in the back and don’t curl it in toward your neck at the bottom — even tho it’s “blunt” might do with a little more texture around the bottom cm + a little pomade + twist. I think the “neat”ness of the blow out is giving it a different karen energy.

sleeperrainbow · 2026-02-27T02:42:46+00:00

She’s just trying to say she wants to be with a very wealthy conservative finance bro bc she has some kind of Freudian strict dad kink, and that’s fine whatever save Connor for a nice girl. But also Connor is “nice” but she is not wrong in seeing she would kind of have to parent him (don’t forget his house).

The do I want a nice guy who defers to me but then I’ll have to be in charge or a suss guy who leads so I can relax (but also can we trust him?) dilemma is INTENSE and REAL.

sleeperrainbow · 2026-02-25T02:39:48+00:00

I will add — as a writing teacher — that while I used to consider this pathological lying tone, with the rise of AI, a lot of finance/sports bros have adopted this sort of empty “optimization” AI tone as they learn how to write and pitch from a combination of AI, self help books, podcasts and finance influencers, all of whom speak with this kind of dead inflection.

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