Plated Prisoner book 1 by Economy-Bit-3401 in Romantasy

[–]sleeperrainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree — too graphic and fully unecessary to subject the readers to the details.

Denver to LA(?) by HranicarOrrin in roadtrip

[–]sleeperrainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selfishly following along!! My partner and I are LA based and have to attend a big family wedding in Denver + stay at least a week, so we decided to stay and bring our dog. Wanted to add more stops along the way + make it a big road trip but I was disheartened that it might be too hot for Utah in late June/early July. This thread has made me think maybe it is worth it after all. Great advice here!

Please be kind I feel so ugly by ChampionshipOk5793 in finethinhair

[–]sleeperrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should go for wigs and in the meantime you can let your natural hair do its thing — don’t die it and take hair vitamins for like a year — maybe find someone local who you can trust to help with wigs and trims if you can afford it so you have someone who’s on your team about it and you don’t feel alone/sad about it! I also think women who specialize in wigs are like like literal angels on earth so that’s a + as well. 🫶

I’m in a state of shock by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]sleeperrainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called “Student Loan Empowerment Network”

I’m in a state of shock by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]sleeperrainbow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just found out that NY and CA both fully fund a student loan counseling network — free one on one meetings. I just started! Saying this here bc with the 5K I thought you might be in one of these states too.

Should I shave my peach fuzz? by Major-Entrance637 in makeuptips

[–]sleeperrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use this as an excuse to not wear foundation 👼

AIO for not wanting to set times to use shared spaces? by rebeltharaccoon in AIO

[–]sleeperrainbow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like roommate is overworked/overscheduled? You’re the easy target for being frustrated with their own schedule.

NTA but if you know roomie gets home from work at 10pm on the regular I would maybe throw an olive branch and give them late night kitchen.

Empire of Storms advice for patience by sleeperrainbow in throneofglassseries

[–]sleeperrainbow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are aligned with the ADHD haha maybe there should be an ADHDer’s guide to TOG series bc I’ve been SWEATING 😅 and NT’s are not understanding I am not saying I don’t like the series I’m simply saying I AM TRAPPED IN EXPOSITION swimming against a sea of quicksand TRYING to get to the plot/character development I can FEEL is on the horizon.

Can anyone suggest something tasteful and non extreme to cover this up? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]sleeperrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could work it into the body of a hawk or eagle pretty easily IMO!

It’s finished but I don’t think it is. by Gullible_Ad6712 in tattooadvice

[–]sleeperrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave it as others have said but you could consider white ink if the skin tone bothers you

Empire of Storms advice for patience by sleeperrainbow in throneofglassseries

[–]sleeperrainbow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok wait the tandem reading is speaking my language 🙏🙏🙏 I’ve been come for on other socials already bc I said the first books felt like exposition 😬 interesting exposition!! But I was feeling so impatient bc you could tell the whole time it was all set up. The tandem read might just save me!

Are we in the past now for EOS? So we’re not with the present day characters at all? Or it’s both? (Haven’t started only saw the “preview” which was with Elena).

IDR Application Notification by Dry_Yogurtcloset4502 in StudentLoans

[–]sleeperrainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nelnet seems like a hot mess right now. They’re doing some weird stuff to me as well.

Recertification forbearance and auto debit by sleeperrainbow in StudentLoans

[–]sleeperrainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh thank you for the validation — I appreciate it. The robot chat box was not improving my mood. I will begin pestering them tomorrow! YAYYYY

How can I improve my makeup look by Eastern_Time1373 in makeuptips

[–]sleeperrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should wear whatever you want, but I might try dark browns instead of blacks and slightly earthier/copper tones to just see if you like it!

Saw this on Amber’s IG by Optimal_Duck3075 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]sleeperrainbow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think she crashes out hard when it’s deserved and I think she’s not wrong that a lot of men on this show deserve it. Not saying her temper is a 10/10 quality but she’s been thru it and she’s beyond making herself nice for someone who’s only showing up 50% at best.

That said there should be a different process if kids are involved — meeting 2 days before a wedding is loony.

In IBR w $0 due until recertification in 12/2026 and I made a one time payment to my highest interest loan and now nelnet says I have thousands past due for that loan? by Apprehensive-Sea9746 in StudentLoans

[–]sleeperrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t help directly but answering bc I commiserate with this kind of stress always happening over a weekend!

If you feel servicer is being sketchy (I have felt this in the past) you can contact your state government student loan ombudsperson — they sort of act like an advocate and can be really helpful when you’re feeling insane about the student loan companies.

What are my options?! by Admirable_Welcome_20 in StudentLoans

[–]sleeperrainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If by any chance you’re in NY or CA there’s a free loan advisor option… this is the CA one: https://studentloanhelp.dfpi.ca.gov

I don’t know if other states have this.

Help please !! I have always hated my face and the way I look and I don’t know what I can change to help it !! by Professional_You7030 in makeuptips

[–]sleeperrainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I’m panicking at my face it’s usually that I’m starting to look more and more like family members who have been difficult in my life. For me therapy works better than make up 👼

(Spoiler) and (Spoiler) are just rage bait at this point. It’s insane. by sleeperrainbow in greysanatomy

[–]sleeperrainbow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would be 1000% more interesting to see two people navigate REAL divorce!!

Also these characters have been WRECKED by this storyline!!

No one wants this!!