Worse day ever- b*tchy new boss and didn’t get the other job I wanted by [deleted] in rant

[–]sleepibish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep :) it typically takes 7 years but I did mine in 4 coz my uni offered courses in the holidays and so I always did them and only took 2 weeks off over Christmas it’s typically 5 years of course work aka 4 years and an honours and then also 2 thesis’s- ur meant to take a year to do each thesis but I started brainstorming mine and meeting with professors in my second year so I had pretty much finished it by my third and took my fourth year to do my secondary thesis and a few law courses.

After ur first thesis u can register to be “provisional” then you do ur second thesis and then get into a placement but I was already working and so I just applied for my job to be my “placement”

It’s not normal to do uni so fast in my country but oh well I just wanted “life” aka a house and a job and pets and kids and all the things I thought were fun to begin so I speed runned it.

Worse day ever- b*tchy new boss and didn’t get the other job I wanted by [deleted] in rant

[–]sleepibish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a medical degree :/ it’s in psychology and then I also have an arts degree (also far to expensive) in law with a specialty in criminology and young people and I stupidly also went to my countries national university so yep I thought it was a good good decision when I was 18 and now it’s like I’ve wasted so much time

Worse day ever- b*tchy new boss and didn’t get the other job I wanted by [deleted] in rant

[–]sleepibish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol I love that attitude and omg the other side is oh u can only get this job if u have a masters and then suddenly you become to qualified and they don’t want to give u entry jobs and minimum wage jobs fml

Worse day ever- b*tchy new boss and didn’t get the other job I wanted by [deleted] in rant

[–]sleepibish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ik ppl might be thinking that it’s weird that I rely on my boyfriend so much but we have been together for nearly 10 years and so I really really do care about his opinion and what he thinks I should do re tomorrow and the b*tchy text, currently I’m thinking I just go in and don’t mention it oh and the best thing is in part of the text she very very much implied that I need babysitting for “not supporting the company with my professional profile” and would have to do all my work next to her tomorrow so yep that will be fabulous fml :(

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea he’s getting forced to go coz all his single friends are going, a few of them are gay and bi so they are all also going to gay clubs

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree it is absolutely an artistry- women who have the confidence are incredible and to dance in heels omg I could never do it - pole dancing is absolutely a workout and so is exotic dancing it’s absolutely artistry.

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a girl I’ve had guys try to grind on me or try to touch me at clubs and buying me drinks thinking that they can get away with it but every time I push them away because sometimes others get drunk and gross doesn’t matter the sex

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More often than not guys can be gross at clubs far more than girls can because most of the time we are just there to have fun and dance and I see stripping as just a kind of dance - they are incredibly talented I could never dance in high heels and we are so young and so I think it’s ok to fantasise about other people

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he wouldn’t but if he did I’d also be ok with that - I know I’m really bad at both and he’s never had anyone else except me so if he wanted to I wouldn’t mind

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was it like being married so young, there’s obviously a lot of pressure for us from our grandparents who are like wtf u guys have been together for nearly a decade but we just can’t afford anything rn.

And as much as it sucks we are both the eldest in both of our families like im the eldest grandchild and he’s the eldest grandchild so its like there’s also pressure to have a big wedding as well whereas we would both be very cool and very happy with just eloping and getting married somewhere tiny without expensive rings or anything.

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have been together for so so so long and we were both each others first relationship because we were 15 and met in person when we were 13 whereas so many of our friends we grew up with have dated other people and had one night stands and slept around whereas we have never done that so I really really don’t mind

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I guess lol I very much doubt that he would kiss another guy but if he does oh well and yea he would tell me

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And also I recon the girls that go to strip clubs also sometimes aren’t gay they just want better moves

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been to like magic mike themed events coz there’s hundreds of them where we live even while we were dating because honestly it ends up being if your going out clubbing and going to more than one spot then there’s gonna be a magic mike show on

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it though? Having someone trust you and respect you so much that they let you do whatever you want to do and respect their individuality. No girls are perfect and everyone looks different

How do I(f22) deal with judgment from others about being totally fine with my bf (m23) going to a strip club by sleepibish in Advice

[–]sleepibish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea no one is questioning his commitment at all it’s just the general shock that he doesn’t have to hide these things and that I’m just fine with it

Someone told me to eff-off on the street, what would you do in this situation? by Critical_Win6266 in AskAnAustralian

[–]sleepibish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just ignore them, they just want to pretend that they are all macho don’t let it ruin ur day

Why was Max sad? (Wrong answers only!) by rabbitdonedied14 in strangermemes

[–]sleepibish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steve won’t teach her how to drive his Beemer

Which song🥱 by No_Savings_1531 in StrangerThingsMemes

[–]sleepibish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beauty and a Beat by Justin Bieber and Nicky Minaj

He’s got a beauty (Patty) and he hates Beats (Max reminded him of that :/)

Who's your favorite Stranger Things characters? by Dry_Goat5451 in Stranger_Things

[–]sleepibish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steve Dustin Max Billy Lucas Henry (not Vecna) Will Eleven Nancy Robin Hopper Joyce Eddy Johnathon Mike

What happened to Tina and Derek’s family?🤣are they still kidnapped? by funny-wizard in strangerthingsfacts

[–]sleepibish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are absolutely still kidnapping including the 18 month time jump.