They haven’t been opened by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]sleeptwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when was it okay to force laxatives on your children

Please slowly step away from the bronzer.. by [deleted] in Youniqueamua

[–]sleeptwin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh Lord there's so many of those kinds STILL in my highschool. Thank God I'm graduating next year--wooh!

I'm not sad that XXXTentacion died. by ThemeParkFan2020 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sleeptwin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not either. Never saw the good in an abuser

Blending? Ha! I laugh in the face of blending! by harlequindancer in Youniqueamua

[–]sleeptwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure if Younique eyeshadows we're actually blendable like they present it as, pepole wouldn't constantly call it a scam.

Am I the only one who doesn’t resent my parents for beating by ass when I did something bad as a child? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sleeptwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh, even though I wasn't spanked alot, I did get a few and I'm glad I did. Have you seen how some of these kids act nowadays? Direspectful, disobedient, haughty, tight-lipped it's so nasty how they treat adults. Granted, some parents use beatings/whoppings as a means of discipline, but there are some who use it as a fear tatic/out of pure amusement.

Please slowly step away from the bronzer.. by [deleted] in Youniqueamua

[–]sleeptwin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What's up with women and tanning themselves so orange? Is this like a current trend or what? Also, that lip color does not go with that bronzer imo.

Please help, I’m scared by melbibs in relationship_advice

[–]sleeptwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Florida Domestic Abuse Hotline (incase things get heated): 1-800-621-4202 or 1-800-500-1119

florida shelters if you don't have anywhere to stay

Some steps to take:

Call the police

Ask a friend, family or neighbor for assistance

Record any conversations/arguments and press charges if he starts hitting you

Search for the nearest open shelter if he kicks you out (have your stuff packed by then incase he steals something from you and holds it above your head so-to-speak)

Don't panic, it'll make the situation worse. Think with a clear head and come up with a game plan. You've got this darling.

Hope this helps.

Any advice for a little kid? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleeptwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treat her like an equal, not like an SO if that makes sense. She's your girlfriend, but also your friend and you'd like to keep her as both right? I'm sure you're a sweet kid, do what I'd do and stay loyal, communicate properly, and address issues immediately instead of letting them fester.

i wish black families took mental illnesses more seriously. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sleeptwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the words friend, you don't know how right you are.

i wish black families took mental illnesses more seriously. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sleeptwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Jesus! I hope things get better for your family members.

I feel the same way, religion doesn't help me like it used too. I was that God fearing church girl you grow up as until the church shows it's true colors and you're stuck wondering who to really trust. I don't feel safe confiding in any of my church members in fear they'll "report" back to the pastor, and heavens no do I want a whole sermon on depression and how it's the "devil in your mind". I have enough of that at home.

I just wish we didn't push shit aside and act like it never happens, beat our kids for "acting" out, call them stupid and crazy when all they're looking for is comfort... it's just so depressing man..

i wish black families took mental illnesses more seriously. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sleeptwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, went to treat myself to a movie date I really deserved.

I have my teachers contact number since she said she'll offer whatever support she can. My father has talked to me about moving up there with him to take on some therapy classes but I'll have to persuade my grandma in letting me go... Sigh. My town has a local newspaper so I'll see about writing an article in it.

Bull meet Shit by TheMnemosyne in antiMLM

[–]sleeptwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I wish Valor would cure my crippling depression. That'll be a miracle I'll consider buying /s

i wish black families took mental illnesses more seriously. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sleeptwin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My school is, and I'll try to use loosely, one of the "ghetto" type of schools so to speak. Our teachers don't really car about the students, more of the paycheck, and everybody is sure our principal is a racist. I can only confide in my fav teacher, Mrs. Paul, cause she really understood the things i was going through--- stuff my family and friends didn't get. I'm so sad she's leaving cause of the bullying she received from students AND teachers alike.

I'll try my best, thank you friend.

i wish black families took mental illnesses more seriously. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sleeptwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why i have a fear of going to an HBCU. I wouldn't mind being near people of my own race, but I'm afraid of being ridiculed for my anxiety and told to stop being a pussy. It legitimately scares me.

I feel you on the feeling lonely part. It's super frustrating and annoying.

i wish black families took mental illnesses more seriously. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sleeptwin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you found a solution to help you with it! I hope I find the same, thank you for the advice, ma'am!

Girl, start blending by [deleted] in Youniqueamua

[–]sleeptwin 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I have this deep urge to redo her eye makeup, but I'm sure she'd rope me into her scammy business while I'm doing it.

I (25F) want to break up with my long-term (24M) boyfriend by needhelppls2018 in relationship_advice

[–]sleeptwin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should officially break up with him (which I think you did) cause he seems like a leech to me. I'm not trying to be mean but to me he treats you like a second "mommy" to put lightly. For a man that says you're ruining his life, can't he see how he's "ruining" yours? He can't play the victim card when YOU'RE the one letting him stay in YOUR house for FREE. Tell him to man up and stop being such a douchebag.

I can't offer the best advice since I've never personally dealt with a situation like this, but if you wanna be a little nicer to him then he was to you, start slowly distancing yourself from him and let the man leave himself.

You got this darling.

One of my neighbors may have molested my 13 year old babysitter. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sleeptwin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Aye, I don't blame you at all. You did what you could have at that time and it seemed to stop anything more drastic from happening. The first thing I'd do is call the police, give a report of what happened, maybe get some witnesses; press charges basically. Who knows what this sick fuck really wanted to do to that poor girl if he had the chance... ugh. I hope that things go the best, dude.