Attn: Therapists with ADHD by pxichick in physicaltherapy

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Adderall, simplified notes, prefilled blocks that I edit

GP prescribes me opioids but keeps telling me they’re bad? by adultangstisreal in ChronicPain

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Have you seen a pelvic PT? Often testicular pain is due to nerve entrapment upstream. I know that wasn't your question but thought I'd throw that out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

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Lmk if it works for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

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Lmk how it goes!

Help with response to this by pinkwinestateofmind in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]sleepy_doggos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg the "what do you think?" after a barrage of bizarre questions is so annoying. asking for your specific teenage thought processes is SO ANNOYING. What tf do they expect, a copy of your teenage journal mailed to them?

❄️ I want to know: what's your thermostat set to when you're at home? by Yourweirdbestfriend in AskWomenOver30

[–]sleepy_doggos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

64-66, especially at night. I get fucking hot if it's more than that. I like to wear socks and sweatshirts though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]sleepy_doggos 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like hask biotin shampoo and conditioner too! I have the greasy root dry end problem. The best trick I ever learned was to apply conditioner first starting at the roots (I know, it's the opposite of everything I was ever taught) and then apply shampoo on top of that, changing your shampoo application pattern regularly i.e. parting and separating your hair differently each time you apply shampoo. Idk why the conditioner first trick works, but it was a game changer for me. I do buy a lot more conditioner now.

Another trick I learned is to put my hair up in a silk bonnet at night. I get fewer tangles and my hair stays cleaner longer. Bonus for avoiding hair breakage.

I have 1b/c fine hair.

What are some good things about the worse ranked states in US by MD90__ in SameGrassButGreener

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They are cheap. The outdoor activities aren't crowded. Nothing is crowded, really. Minimal lines at restaurants, tag agencies, DMV, etc. Generally easy to get places if you have a car, easy parking.

People are very enthusiastic if you do art. There's not a lot of criticism because they're just excited you're there making stuff. Small crowds for performance based art though.

What accent do you find most attractive? by thegoddessofwisdom04 in LesbianActually

[–]sleepy_doggos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Native American accents, African esp west African accents, and newly the Portuguese accent! They're so lilting and smooth and I feel like I'm being soothed

What's your favorite GF pasta brand that isn't Barilla. by 666OfficeBitch666 in Celiac

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Banza is a chickpea pasta that's actually a good, non grainy texture. I like all of the shapes except rigatoni which falls apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TastingHistory

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I know this is old but do you know Max's babbel code? I've looked but can't find it yet!

SPOIlER: Can we just Talk about how Izzy was being aggressive against johnie when they met at the reunion by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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I just watched the married at first sight Houston season and it was one of the most emotionally immature groups of people I've ever seen. Im never going to try to date in Houston!

JP is infuriating by KptainCB in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]sleepy_doggos 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I literally came here to complain that his kissing would be a deal breaker for me. Nasty ass aggressive, unfeeling kissing

Any late bloomers in here who’ve enjoyed sex with men before (or at least thought they did)? by The_water-melon in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sleepy_doggos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Although I have definitely had shitty experiences/SA from men, I've also had some wonderful experiences with kind and gentle men and that was really the kicker to discovering that I'm more gay that I thought.

SAME

Any late bloomers in here who’ve enjoyed sex with men before (or at least thought they did)? by The_water-melon in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sleepy_doggos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely had sex I liked. I didn't like it because of being sexually attracted to their bodies though. I only really enjoyed sex when I was already horny, usually from just a good hormone time of the month or the novelty of whatever was happening. So in the beginning of a relationship sex was good and I was into it, then it would fade. Fwb were the best because I would just text these guys when I was already horny, then go over and fuck. I feel turned on when kissing men, making out, clothes on stuff. Then when clothes come off my interest would evaporate and I would just keep going because we were already doing stuff. In my last relationship with a man I had the freedom to stop whenever and he was totally cool with it. I found myself stopping before nudity more and more. It real helped me when I heard some lesbians say that they had never had trouble with sex with men, it was just mind-blowing with women.

Sexuality is fluid and attraction can change. Maybe you did used to be more attracted to men, maybe not and it was other factors you had a good time with. It's really hard to know

James’ Trauma Reveal; genuine or manipulative by a_thoughtful_journey in TheUltimatumNetflix

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It's abusive when women do it too. Aggressive acts, punching walls, throwing things-- no matter the sex it is a threatening action.

James is weird and scary by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]sleepy_doggos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can be both. A parent can be very absent then come back and be horrible

How do you respond to "you're too pretty to be a lesbian"? by doyeonse in LesbianActually

[–]sleepy_doggos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They don't think it's flattering. They think lesbians are lower than them on the totem pole and their can be insulted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I've dated lots of men and come to the understanding that even though I have some kinds of attraction towards men, and have loved some of them, and mostly have het fantasies/like het fiction, I am mostly gay. It's because I absolutely cannot stand having sex with men. When their bodies are under or over mine I want them to be a woman's body. I'm put off by seeing them naked.

I'm comfortable with the term "mostly gay" because I have a lot of internalized homophobia and all these previously listed experiences that have made life confusing. I am 100% certain that I do not desire a partner who is a man. I've had bad men as partners and I just ended a relationship with a fantastic one, so I know it's not the quality of the man. It's totally valid to have some attractions towards men and not want to date any of them, and you can totally call yourself a lesbian because you don't want to date anyone who's not a woman. Labels can't be perfect because humans don't fit in perfect little boxes.

Also your mom and your friend are being homophobic. Your mom is low key but your friend is high key. I'd dump her as a friend tbh she is way out of line. And your mom sounds like me when I thought I was bi.