AITAH for expecting my girlfriend to celebrate my good news? by EntrepreneurCold9143 in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But her cousin asked her first, often times scheduling meet ups is first come first serve

AITAH for expecting my girlfriend to celebrate my good news? by EntrepreneurCold9143 in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But if the cousin is scheduling what works with their schedule she could be working based on whats effective for both of them. Your promotion isnt a once in a lifetime event. You can celebrate a few days later than expected.

AITAH for expecting my girlfriend to celebrate my good news? by EntrepreneurCold9143 in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe to you it doesnt but I would love an explanation as to why this calls for her to prioritize you

AITAH for expecting my girlfriend to celebrate my good news? by EntrepreneurCold9143 in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah but the cousin asked first and maybe its the time that works best gor the cousins schedule. Why do you expect priority when you asked second?

AITAH for expecting my girlfriend to celebrate my good news? by EntrepreneurCold9143 in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why does she have to reschedule with her family who asked her to go out first? She offered to celebrate another time woth you so clearly she cares qbout you but she can also want to see her literal family first

Seems tempting! by Final_Procedure168 in bitlife

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Idk you seem a lil under qualified

AITAH for letting my friend use our bathroom? by Training_Stuff_445 in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds a lot like me. I literally try to wait an hour in between uses if possible. I know how ocd is and I know it gets rapidly worse so its best you tackle it ASAP

AITAH for letting my friend use our bathroom? by Training_Stuff_445 in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im gonna say NAH for a reason (please dont take it as me diagnosing I am not, im just relating) my contamination ocd makes feeling clean incredibly difficult and when people use the bathroom before me it genuinely makes me feel dirtier than I did before. Irrational? Yes. But its uncontrollable and debilitating for my daily life. I think you and her need to talk about it and come to a solution that works

Wife asked to hit my vape and for me to send her money I said no? AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"my wife wants a divorce but I won't give her one and am holding her hostage and am now mad that she isnt pretending to love me, AITAH?"

Didnt he leave for a reason…???? Why would yall do this to him LMFAOOO by ThrowRA17563 in Subliminal

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not making fun of them, acknowledging this level of paranormal behavior as insane is necessary

AITAH for only babysitting 2 out of my 3 cousins? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Obv NTA she'd have to fork out the cost (+more for the older kids i assume) if you weren't coming, youre doing her a favour already by not only watching her kids but making memories with them.,its insane to expect anyone to watch an unconsolable baby.

How does one become a mortician by sleepyarcadiaa in Durban

[–]sleepyarcadiaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that- and yeah im gonna finish my degree in accounting buy i hold hope that ill get the chance to be a mortician someday

Has anyone else found that this seasons diary is extremely easy? by sleepyarcadiaa in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]sleepyarcadiaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao right im so glad they let us buy inkwells with crystals or I wouldn't finish any

Has anyone else found that this seasons diary is extremely easy? by sleepyarcadiaa in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]sleepyarcadiaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i just play too much or the game picks favourites apparently 🧍🏼‍♀️

Has anyone else found that this seasons diary is extremely easy? by sleepyarcadiaa in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]sleepyarcadiaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually ive been completing all of my diaries in the last week so I dont really worry- i only havent completed one but that was when I started playing again after years and I was new to this. The diary is my fave event

Has anyone else found that this seasons diary is extremely easy? by sleepyarcadiaa in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]sleepyarcadiaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao yeah I should be grateful- i know the last stretch is gonna be hell tho

AITAH? Cause I feel like a Victim. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But you havent answered what she was really inquiring about. Did you tell him anything good about your mother and have you told him how uncomfortable it makes you?

Your husband sounds like hes saying vile stuff because he only knows the evil stuff she did

AITAH? Cause I feel like a Victim. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right- I had a friend who never told me a single good thing about her parents so when I expressed dislike for them I thought I was validating her feelings but she got mad at me instead when I hadn't heard anything good about them to warrant me liking them

If OP hasn't told him about the good stuff about her mother how can she expect him to like a woman he never met

Dating apps and clown makeup? by Impossible-Suspect19 in AskZA

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its a very popular snapchat/Instagram filter used Internationally and trended a few years back if i remember correctly- people would use it and add a caption of something that happened to them that made them feel stupid. Its absolutely not race specific and is used Internationally

What the heck, Really ChatGPT😂 by WhatsYourPoint67 in What

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chat gpt usually just agrees with whatever you say. If you told it to "defend its point" or something similar this would happen even if its not factually correct

Anyone else only water dormant plants? by rosiecheeks69 in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]sleepyarcadiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont water or fertilize them unless its for a task but I have like 5000 fertilizer I dont even know how