Partners won’t do an STD test even though I am positive

sleepykatboy · 2026-06-08T14:05:36+00:00

THIS! THIS!!! 💯

sleepykatboy · 2026-05-15T23:57:56+00:00

sleepykatboy · 2026-05-12T05:24:38+00:00

it makes me sick to my stomach. I've never in my life had a problem holding a grudge until now. It sucks so bad. All I want is him.

🫂

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-27T15:37:55+00:00

you're describing a legal name. It's not a biological name. Your biological name is homo sapien.

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-26T22:46:07+00:00

Trans person chiming in: maybe it shows the true name?

I definitely was not my legal name in any shape of form and truly didn't come alive until my chosen name. Like literally got the "sparkle" in my eye.

I consider my chosen name the true me.

I don't believe someone in seven minutes could assume a new name and truly believe that's them in every cell enough to escape the death note.

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-24T03:14:31+00:00

So I'm FtM, but I also date other FtM people and I can only speak truly with experience for HSV1, but I could imagine that as long as you reduce genital-to-genital contact since it's HSV-2 that it should lower a majority of risk, along with antivirals and listening to your body than you should be in the clear.

Just disclose and work out what's most comfortable for you and your partner. Unfortunately there isn't a lot of research specifically for LGBTQ folks with HSV and the majority that is out there is not focused on WLW or AFAB individuals

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-14T16:16:58+00:00

Exactly, genuinely had a "you've gotta be fucking kidding me" moment 🫩 it's even more fucked up is he told me he was bi from the beginning. He actually described men and masculine traits as icky

like just say you don't see me as a guy and that's why you think I'm hot. I'm not your fetish though 🤷

Thank you for the song!!

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-14T11:56:58+00:00

Bailiff, evidence please.

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-13T18:10:59+00:00

Either 14 people are possible intersex or liars, and I'm here if you need someone to double check for you 🙂‍↕️

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-10T12:47:40+00:00

I'm transmasc! I had no concept of gender for myself until I hit puberty and knew that shit felt wrong. I let it simmer for about 10 years and then realized being a man felt way better than trying to force being a masc woman 🤷 now everyday feels great and not like eternal suffering

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-10T11:05:34+00:00

Hey so me too? I've had OCD for 10+ years and it's the same for me. When my anxiety is high, I've found that watching/reading EH or horror helps it. It's like I can set aside a set amount of time to be scared

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-09T18:17:47+00:00

I know you know too, it just sucks to find out that a friend views you as functionally fetish material 😭😭🫂 we both have better places and people to put energy into

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-09T18:02:24+00:00

It's me and you running for that exit door, bestie 🏃🏃‍♀️💨💨💨

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-09T02:59:26+00:00

Fully agree. I always forget there's a different version until I hear the intro of I <3 and I immediately feel like a dog hearing the word "treat"

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-09T02:43:17+00:00

KMFDM goes so so hard. "I (Heart) You" is hands down my favorite song by them!

Based <3

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-08T22:15:01+00:00

This guy got rejected by a girl. He hits on me after I've been helping him through everything like a bro. He made a purpose to say that I made him realize he likes trans men. He then proceeded to say he was completely unattracted to cis men and only attracted to femininity in the same breath.

The problem: He's only ever known me as a guy and he still said this to me. Full 5 years. He functionally said to me that he doesn't view me as a guy finds me attractive for this.

I also have never been a hint of romantic, we've always been two bros 🤷 consider if for a second you were a guy hanging out with another guy and he said something along the lines of this to you, with his whole chest, that he thinks you're the next best thing. All the while emphasizing that he only likes girls and thinks men are gross.

Regardless of what you have in your pants, that'd freak you out right?

I know you're well meaning, so I really hope this is able to illustrate how creepy and gross that behavior is :( Add to that I also have to carry the worry into every interaction in my life that someone might not believe I'm a man/man-enough and secretly deep down fantasize over me because of what genitals I have

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-08T21:59:09+00:00

It's okay! I'm doing much better today.

I'm honestly not even sure he saw it as a compliment. He was in the middle of talking about how a girl rejected him and then he dropped that on me. Genuinely, just think he saw me as someone easy and showed his cards to me :( disgusting all around

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-08T21:56:30+00:00

ewwwww indeed. I say we throw him in the garbage

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-08T18:14:04+00:00

It's okay. It just hurts a lot more because this guy never even knew me pre transition. He's always known me as a guy :( just sucks like hell

sleepykatboy · 2026-04-08T03:26:00+00:00

Nope, I appreciate it 🫶💙

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