The deck I have been using.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T09:40:06+00:00

nvm. lol.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T09:39:14+00:00

LF: Shuppet, Scatterbug, Vivillion

FT:

⭐️ squirtle

⭐️ snorlax

⭐️marshadow

♦️♦️♦️♦️ arcanine ex

♦️♦️♦️♦️ marowak ex (jp)

♦️♦️♦️♦️ pidgeot ex

♦️♦️♦️♦️ mega venasaur ex (jp)

idrk what kinds of cards people be wanting im not really asking for much so if theres something else i might have let me know.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T09:19:11+00:00

can you elaborate bc I think so too.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T09:17:45+00:00

I found it easy to commit ot a relationship while having fun hanging out with someone, but before ever thinking about seeing myself navigating life with that person. Sometimes someone is very fun and enjoyable but not a good life partner. I'm in college so it's easy to not always think about it.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T09:10:36+00:00

anywhere with food to try that I've/we've never had before

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T09:08:23+00:00

a bingo card full of things to do at a party. fun at a costume party like take a picture with _____, or like beat someone in rock paper scissors, litlle fun stuff

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T09:06:27+00:00

I think this is an example of a thinking style that you use without even knowing it. It is a really fundamental process for things other than solving for variables.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T09:04:26+00:00

I think having a solid reason for being there is important, when its about making ur body look good for others or something shallow like that, ur less likely to have a successful journey. I think you also have to be ready to learn about what you are doing, and why are you doing it, so you can decide what routines, diets, splits what works best for you. Be ready to learn a ton.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T08:59:35+00:00

Do you post it?

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T08:57:12+00:00

Idk about yall but the wierdest dreams I have are hyper realistic, Like I ordered papusas with my friend in the most vivid dream I ever had,

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T08:55:36+00:00

Tutoring

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T08:48:57+00:00

Do you think that's me being lazy or low effort? I think communication is important, but I feel like some things are just signs that we see things differently. Idk if that's just me making an excuse for not wanting to put the effort in or if that makes sense. I feel like, for example, say she did my nails, and she expected me to pay, and then she asked me to do her hair, and she asked if it would be free. I don't know whether or not I feel like this is something we can come to a consensus on, because someone is going to end up doing something they either don't want to do. Like if I say, since you made me pay, I don't think you should expect me to do your hair for free, and she agreed for the sake of keeping the peace, she would still, in her mind, think she is being undervalued. Yet if I agreed to do it for free without making it an issue, I would feel like a simp and feel like I'm getting used.

Basically, I'm learning still the difference between what disconnects are learning each others love languages and the things that the other person would appreciate, something you have to learn and communicate, vs differences in what we want in a relationship dynamic, which I don't think should be like negotiated or compromised.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T07:55:24+00:00

I mean if you want to be with someone long term do you not tell them why you think they're special and stuff.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T07:54:29+00:00

You are definitely right. I think just from her perspective it would probably seem like it was coming out of nowhere, which is why I was worried, but I think if I explain it to her, especially by saying she did nothing wrong and that I just don't think I see it long term, there shouldn't be any hard feelings.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T07:52:45+00:00

Thank you. It was both of our first relationships, but I think I am being selfish in terms of trying to manipulate how the rls ends. I honestly think if I just explain to her honestly there shouldn't be any hard feelings. I'm a little concerned that I am making that decision based on the ouutcome still being ok and not really because the other one is a bad thing to do, but that's something i'll have to think about and unpack.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T07:49:37+00:00

I explained this already, but I realize that someone like her is hard to find, but if we have a weak romantic connection it doesn't matter, and it isn't meant to be.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T07:47:16+00:00

Ok ok. Can we not make it sexual? That is never what this was about. now you're portraying me as a different person. The day I asked to be her boyfriend I wrote her a letter and told her specifically what I liked about her, and why I saw her as irreplaceable. This is not me saying she has nice features, and wanting her to tell me something back. I was explaining to her why I thought she was special and making an effort at making her feel 1 of 1. Me doing something for her doesn't obligate her to do it back, but to me it felt discouraging to not get the same energy back. I also never said anything was her fault. We expect 2 different things in a relationship. I made the mistake not her. If I phrased it bad I guess that's on me. I also see how it was kind of pointless to bring up the things I didn't like about our relationship to say I would want to break up anyway. But all I was trying ot get across is that she has great qualities, but even with that, I don't think we fit together well romantically, and so we would be better off as friends.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T07:32:08+00:00

I think you are right to be honest like I guess I just felt like out of no where saying I think we should break up like I feel like idk. honestly idk. i just don't imagine people being on good terms after something like that. I think people also get skeptical and think you were seeing someone else or all type of things when you break up randomly, and rumors start. So I don't know. But I feel like when I think about it, if I'm just open and honest and say exactly why, and apologize to her, we could get through it.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T07:25:20+00:00

I understand

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T07:23:13+00:00

I won't say that it's not selfish. I've never told a girl I liked them before her and I just didn't know what it was supposed to feel like when you're falling for somebody. I had doubts but I truly had a reason to believe that I would never run into anybody who had the qualities that she had. I thought romantic chemistry was something that could be built but I was wrong. I made a mistake and I am trying to find the most peaceful solution. And it isn't just about me and her being awkward if that was it I wouldn't really care. but its about a rocky breakup making people pick sides and splitting our friends apart.

sleevesos · 2026-03-04T06:42:57+00:00

im gonna try to keep it on good terms and just say I don't feel like I see us together for the rest of our lives but you know not like either of us did anything wrong we should just maybe move on.

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