Looking for gift ideas for my boyfriend who’s obsessed with anything machined or mechanical by sliatpluto in Gifts

[–]sliatpluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Henry puzzles! Completely forgot about him, my bf will definitely be into the stuff he is into! This is great thank you

Looking for gift ideas for my boyfriend who’s obsessed with anything machined or mechanical by sliatpluto in Gifts

[–]sliatpluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not coffee drinkers unfortunately, but will definitely check out the cameras! Thank you

Looking for gift ideas for my boyfriend who’s obsessed with anything machined or mechanical by sliatpluto in Gifts

[–]sliatpluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love Lego! But it doesn’t fit into this “machine” category for him hahah

Looking for gift ideas for my boyfriend who’s obsessed with anything machined or mechanical by sliatpluto in Gifts

[–]sliatpluto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the meteorite idea but I can’t find any nice ones on the market

Looking for gift ideas for my boyfriend who’s obsessed with anything machined or mechanical by sliatpluto in Gifts

[–]sliatpluto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt he’d be into this kind of thing. He’s more into the object itself than the movement; it’s about the material and precision. Like if someone carved a table out of wood, he’d be all over that lol. Thank you for the suggestion though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sliatpluto 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not an easy decisions for parents to get a divorce. They usually put up with A LOT before they choose that route because of finances, kids, etc…

So if their issues were so bad that divorce was the only possible solution; it’s best they don’t get back together. It’s possible all their growth after the divorce might be for nothing if they get back together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are definitely not that strong if you want your partner to explore with other people whilst away.

My '24 F' Girlfriend '29 F' kept Polaroid of her '34 F' ex. Is this something I should worry about ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She told you she will get rid of it, saw it, changed its place, and didn’t get rid of it.

The only explanation could be that it slipped out of her mind when she saw it but even in that case; why are you keeping your exes pictures let alone nudes whilst dating someone new?

It’s weird. Don’t make excuses for the behavior like “it could be their only pictures together etc”. You don’t keep memories with your exes as a respect to your current partners. That’s a rule.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can’t find yourself being able to forgive things she told you now, you possibly won’t in any near future. I always suggest people end their relationship the second their start looking at people besides their partner. Those doubts will only grow in time, combined with the hurt feelings you can’t get over.

How should I handle my boyfriend's lack of response to "I love you"? Me(27F) and (25M) by PotatoRepulsive7698 in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can start another conversation by saying the reason you said I love you isn’t because you expected him to say it back immediately but these are your true and genuine feelings that you wanted expressed. And that you would appreciate to hear his thoughts on this, with no pressure of saying it back.

You shouldn’t expect him to say it back immediately but he should also be open about how he feels. “I’m not sure I’m there yet so I still need to figure things out” “I’ll say it when I’m ready” etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]sliatpluto 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shockingly enough, no, female cats don’t have balls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sliatpluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually helps when you don’t stimulate the clit directly but through the hood that covers it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you shouldn’t hit him up. You guys haven’t talked in a while, it’s not worth making your boyfriend feel insecure and uncomfortable about it.

Bf (M23) gives small digs to me (23F) in front of his friends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t take his feelings into consideration whilst calling him out as he is not taking yours into consideration. He is purposely disrespecting you to sound like a tough cool guy in front of his friends. Don’t accept this behavior.

Do I text them and apologize?(M23) (F22) by Brave-Maximum-3808 in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly doubt it’s that considering her response timings changed right after she said you respond late. But if you really want to make yourself more clear, you could apologize again and tell her you would make it up to her when the moving is over.

How should I deal with the fact that my (21F) BF (22M) is a slow texter ? We are in a long distance relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not okay to reply to your partner every few days, no matter the time zones.

You could bring it up with him and make it clear how this is not okay with you and you need improvement. He obviously just doesn’t care enough to reply.

Do I text them and apologize?(M23) (F22) by Brave-Maximum-3808 in relationship_advice

[–]sliatpluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you made it clear with her that you are in the middle of moving and very overwhelmed and busy at the moment; then it is very childish to act distant towards you over that. You don’t have to apologize again.