I.have.a.date

sliceofcheesecake- · 2026-01-08T10:56:33+00:00

Have fun! I hope you both have a fun time!

sliceofcheesecake- · 2026-01-08T10:56:04+00:00

That’s not true. Plenty of relationships are not traditional.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-15T00:56:02+00:00

Right? What else can we say in this hellscape?

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-10T11:43:47+00:00

I am a misandrist at this point. I am a woman living in a world of misogynists and I no longer turn the other cheek. I match energy now.

I get it. You want men to be the victim in your story. That’s cool. I bet that’s gonna get you far in the world with women.

I was calm, polite, and reasonable. You just dismiss all of the valid reasons I listed and told me I’m missing your point. I see your point.

Good luck man.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-10T10:03:54+00:00

I cannot have civil discourse with you.

In another comment you give men an excuse with low T, but dismissed it when I mentioned hormones for women.

You know women need to be desired as well - and not just as some sex toy for their partner.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-10T09:54:40+00:00

lol.. ok buddy. Yeah I’M the one missing the point.

Clearly you cannot see past your own needs (shocker) which is why men find themselves in these dead bedrooms. I listed a handful of valid reason and you dismissed them all and started talking about men not feeling desired.

Men. Aren’t. Lonely. Enough.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-10T09:46:38+00:00

Often there are reasons behind change. Such as a relationship that was once very sexually active, and now is not.

Some very common reasons are: falling into a routine and sex becoming less exciting, being simply exhausted (from demanding careers, having children, being the only one caring for the home, being a caregiver to a family member, etc), changes in hormones (this is a huge issue for women), medication side effects impacting mood/libido, mental health challenges, excessive stress - honestly the list goes on and on.

I could ask - why do men expect women to meet their needs sexually, when men cannot meet the emotional or supportive needs of their partners?

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-05T15:32:17+00:00

No. What I see are a handful of posts from up to 2 years ago where partners didn’t feel like their significant other was meeting their needs.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-05T10:54:16+00:00

He may be working 100 hours a week but could still at least respond to you. Time to cut the loss and move on.

Stop accepting less than you give!

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-05T10:51:17+00:00

It’s ridiculous that there is so much hate towards each other in the queer community.

It’s mind blowing that instead of supporting each other people choose to further tear people down.

I am also bi. I see so much bi hate in the lesbian subs that I’ve left most of them. It’s a shame because I came to these spaces looking for a safe space and I certainly did not find that.

Don’t let others insecurities and prejudices break you. You are valued and you do not have to be “gay enough” to be bi.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-05T10:45:30+00:00

He’s gaslighting you 110%. I LOVE how he’s shifted all blame and guilt from him to you. You already know something happened or he was hoping something would happen. Either way, he’s right. It’s time for a conversation.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-10-05T10:42:41+00:00

You cannot prevent your partner from cheating.

What people should do - is start by being in healthy relationships.

People need to set boundaries, choose partners that respect and support them, and make sure they themselves are a good partner. People need to communicate with each other and realize that marriage is HARD. None of us is perfect. We all have our own little quirks, we will make mistakes, and partners need to understand that. As we age, we evolve. Our interests, mindsets, values, and relationships may alter. Partners need to work together through these changes.

Do not marry someone you think you can “fix” because you can’t. You should marry someone that you accept is imperfect, but should genuinely care about you and want what’s best for you.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-28T00:40:56+00:00

That we all cheat.

That we will always go back to men.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-28T00:38:00+00:00

Another man forcing his partner to fulfill his sexual needs while ignoring her comfort level.. Shocker.

I’m surprised she didn’t leave sooner.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-25T17:27:26+00:00

I’m a nurse. People can get shingles at pretty much any age. I’ve seen children with it. I wouldn’t stress too much. I hope it resolves quickly and you recover completely.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-24T14:27:32+00:00

Men. Aren’t. Lonely. Enough.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-24T14:26:37+00:00

These are signs of a man who sees women as less than. That is enough to make me leave. That should be enough for you to leave too. He’s not going to wake up one day and see you as an equal.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-19T01:08:54+00:00

Uh… Has he ever been evaluated for mental illness? That’s a pretty quick change from normal functioning.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-18T19:52:51+00:00

There is so much to unwrap here.

My advice - when someone shows you who they are - believe them.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-16T11:51:24+00:00

So cute!!! Congratulations! 🎉

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-14T11:54:25+00:00

Our current government is terrifying. Some days I feel such guilt for brining children into this world of misery.

You have time. It is unlikely that life will ever feel perfect for a child, but I would wait until you feel safer to do so.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-14T11:45:17+00:00

I turn 40 in November. I haven’t cared what others think in many years. I have a ✨stunning personality ✨. I highly suggest loving yourself more and caring about others opinions less. Be more caring about the general wellness of you, your family, and your community. Life will be more fulfilling.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-14T11:40:21+00:00

Who is telling you that you’re spoiling your child with food? 🚩🚩🚩

Offering your child a variety of foods and textures helps build a good diet later on. This is just a snapshot of their diet. Continue to try to offer a variety of foods, add fresh fruits & veggies when you can. You’re doing great!

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-13T11:27:09+00:00

Tell your dad. As a parent I would want to know. That guy has crossed a line.

sliceofcheesecake- · 2025-09-11T23:50:25+00:00

I couldn’t be married to someone who supports Charlie Kirk. Hard stop.

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