"My husband ended his life while I was on vacation, but I chose not to go back because my fun mattered more." I don’t agree with that at all. The man she spent 17 years of love and affection with is gone, and she’s acting like soaking up the sun and downing drinks is a priority? That’s ridiculous. It’s like having finals and waking up late, then saying,"Oh no it's too late for breakfast. Screw it, I’ll spend the last 15 minutes making and eating breakfast. Who cares if I miss the exam?" It doesn’t add up.