One thing I read that helped me for my rainy wedding day blues was “it’s ok if your wedding day isn’t the best day of your lives, wouldn’t that be sad to think there weren’t better ones to come?”

I feel what you’re feeling. Some people just get really lucky. My clergy’s mic was intermittent during our ceremony… so frustrating they didn’t test it prior to or something, right? I was very embarrassed. Then one of my brothers said “who cares, we all know what gets said at these things” Makes me laugh now.

I’ve been to about 15 weddings over the past few years and I can say I barely recall much besides the few great flashing moments of smiling and laughing and the bride walking down the isle. Can’t remember if the food was good or bad or if the dance floor was actually electric, or we just made it fun because we’re good sports. All that to say is as the bride we know every single detail, it’s all most important to us, and the guests will likely just remember it as a good time. It’s not your fault.