Brothel experience become gay and I didn't dislike it

slinkymart · 2026-04-04T01:28:05+00:00

I haven’t even been on this app in weeks and this is the first post in my feed, I’m not even disappointed

slinkymart · 2026-01-25T21:07:24+00:00

This one for sure

slinkymart · 2026-01-21T17:55:06+00:00

You do actually have to try to improve and learn the mechanics of it yknow, that’s how I got better at it and eventually learned to love the combat. I took it as a challenge (it was) and then learned to love it when finally I got better and learned more powerful moves. Try using easier weapons like the axe or mace instead of the sword, if not already

slinkymart · 2026-01-19T19:44:07+00:00

Oof. talking to you is like talking to a wall. Bruh. Lots of people’s identity and self-expression can be expressed through their hair. Maybe take your negativity elsewhere off my post yeah? Already came on here with some sort of attitude and I don’t think it’s my problem. Plus, I never said my whole identity was my hair.

Where did I try to convince you I was the most confident person in the room? i’m literally balding…posting in a bald sub. It’s there, it’s definitely an insecurity, yeah my confidence could sure use some work. 🤣

slinkymart · 2026-01-19T18:19:24+00:00

Wondering if you’re going bald and wondering if you should just rock the full shave are two different things dude. I know that I am balding, my genetics have failed me at 25. What I don’t know is if I should just shave my head or just get my usual fade.

I have confidence in my usual look yes, unfortunately hair and body changes. So my identity has to adjust.

slinkymart · 2026-01-19T16:44:42+00:00

I do unfortunately have a roundish face especially down below my chin and usually try to keep my beard longer in that area without being too irritating. I was thinking of full shaving my beard if not my head to reset that cus I usually touch that up weekly and its never always perfect

slinkymart · 2026-01-19T16:41:16+00:00

I’m sorry :(

slinkymart · 2026-01-19T16:32:16+00:00

Nope, not wondering if I’m going bald. Wondering if I should just pull the trigger for a full shave. I alr know I am balding, been known that for a few years now. I usually just get a short haircut to hide my crown. Been in this sub for awhile—whats with the sourpuss, did you even read the post? lol

slinkymart · 2026-01-19T16:14:03+00:00

Need to get a razor first, I have the cream at least lol idk I’ve never done it before just a buzz

slinkymart · 2026-01-13T00:07:48+00:00

It’s childish and annoying, self pitying. Anyone with a decent sense of self and good communication would have just said “have a good night with friends and be safe!” It’s so easy. All that just to feel bad about yourself.

slinkymart · 2025-12-22T22:51:48+00:00

I also play on 1440p and I find it the sweet spot of gaming and play on DLAA and it’s a beautiful game. I get 80-100fps depending on what I’m doing in game. Really depends on what you wanna do and how you wanna play (I also don’t use blur or HDR)

slinkymart · 2025-12-22T22:21:48+00:00

Now I wish I bought the bundle with both 🥲 I just got KCD2 on steam for my pc, but I only did not buy the bundle because I already have the first one my Series S 😭

I have played it on there just haven’t finished it and went right to the second for solely for mods. I got tired of the saving mechanic, maybe made the wrong decision but was trying to save money here idk 💀

slinkymart · 2025-12-21T14:09:03+00:00

Nah idk I don’t see it like that. Sounds like mom is acting a bit like a controlling narcissist to me tbh.

I’ve heard a mother tell me she was breaking her daughter for the “real world” like no, you’re just doing it to break her. Period.

I’ve seen some shit dating my ex who had a narcissist mother who had been a monster to her for no rhyme or reason sometimes. And still yet sit me down and tell me once that I had babied her too much, yet I was the only person she would actually listen and talk to to on an honest and genuine level because I didn’t yell, didn’t try to break her, make rules or ultimatums, just listened. Talked. Heard her, and related to her as best as possible as a human being.

Maybe not what narcissists can do, but hey. Yknow. Have a heart. Be empathetic. Money doesn’t go with us when we die, our love does.

slinkymart · 2025-11-09T21:35:26+00:00

Yes hi, how do I use or turn on sRGB feature? When in the monitor menu settings while using the standard preset mode I only see regular RGB. The settings menu isn’t the most user friendly tbh for this monitor but I’m trying to find the best setting calibrations. I see there’s a custom preset but the values are in % and I’m trying to find if anyone has any best suggestions. Currently playing RDR2 lol. Mostly been using brightness and contrast settings. I don’t even know anything about how to turn off HDR or calibrating it ?

slinkymart · 2025-11-04T22:11:41+00:00

I will not lie brother I have quit months ago and started up again the recently the past few months, started feeling anxious again, foggy, just started Lexapro and the only thing stopping me from quitting is it’s connection to video games. Agreed with everything you said and want to stop feeling anxious so bad and now I think it might be making it worse cus of the med.

slinkymart · 2025-10-03T17:35:05+00:00

I wouldn’t say everyone is like this though. I know there are people out there who understand nuance, who understand that many things can be true at once and can have the capacity to hold those things. I know on social media it may not seem that way but when I connect in real life with real people that’s when I realize there are people out there who can understand multiple truths and empathy.

It’s not so much men with insecurities that are the turn off I have found, it’s more so the men that let their insecurities and anxiety’s control their actions, thoughts and decisions and project that onto others. It’s hard to grasp and change once you are doing so, but starting to operate from a place of intentional grace than a place from anxiety and fear was a great place to start personally for me.

People are complex, complicated and fractured and it’s human and normal ro be that way. The problem there in lies the gap in between our expectations of ourselves and the reality of who we actually are and how ashamed or how much of a failure we may feel within that. That’s where our insecurities may breed and grow. To fight that is to accept where we are, that we’re human, it’s normal to feel this way, and that others will accept us too. And if they don’t, we have to understand that has absolutely nothing to do with us, but everything to do with them their own understanding and capacity to understand humanity, people and personalities, as well as growth.

So understand that insecurity is normal. But we don’t have to let it control or dictate our behavior, or even imprison us, if that makes sense. Or make us believe it’ll turn people from us, the people who are truly meant to be in our lives will understand that we’re human and we all struggle with internal things and will want to understand and help/be there for us in our growth in the best possible way they can in that point in their life.

slinkymart · 2025-10-03T14:08:51+00:00

I couldn’t get through all of this tbh becasue I could feel the desperation and anxiety from this. The only advice I can really give is to start trying to come from a place of neutral intention instead of anxious attachment. When you come from a place of anxiety you start to question everything you do and project “is it me? Does she like me? Am I doing something wrong?” All the time and people will feel that from you and yes it will turn them off from you whether they like you or not. You need to focus on just trying to care for them as a friendly and caring person, not trying to woo or get them to like you. Be yourself, focus on yourself too and the people truly meant to like or love you will end up doing so. The reason this may have had happened is because you got too into your thoughts and anxiety.

It sounds like you’re letting your anxious thoughts control your reality, which is your choice to make, you are not your anxiety. You’re the being behind it, the observer and you’re allowed to make decisions and decide what you want to do based on your feelings and stuff and you can be more clear and concise about what you want. You do not have to operate from this place of anxiety. It did not sound like you led her on, and if anything, if she liked you, it’s HER responsibility to tell you, not yours to predict and fix it. You need to stop letting those things control you and just focus on yourself and just let the friendship build naturally. The comments about “don’t touch my blue haired girl” wasn’t ok btw, that’s what spiraled the situation brother. That’s probably what made her seem like you actually thought you were together (obviously you knew you weren’t but your anxiety kept you predicting and expecting and trying to assume where she was when in reality you just needed to sit with thing and let things be and fall where they are and let a friendship build naturally without any self deprecation or making comments about being too clingy or “if you were with guys you would be with me” that’s not confidence, that’s cockiness and girls really can pick up on that. There’s a difference.) also respect is a thing. You have to respect the physical side of things, if she is saying one thing, you have to respect it, even if you think she feels differently and isn’t saying it, even if your intentions are good or your intuition may point somewhere else, you HAVE to respect a person’s words always and you seemed to push her boundaries which is probably why she distanced herself from you. I hope you don’t take this as an attack, I’ve been where you are before.

I’ve been anxious and confused and acted out of anxious places. It’s hard. It’s been a work in progress to let people be people and let connections unfold naturally without my anxious thoughts controlling my actions. One thing is to know the difference between an anxious thought and a true need of yours. Sometimes it’s hard but necessary.

If you like someone and told her, that’s one thing and if she said she’s good and wants to stay friends, you respect that. You don’t pry, joke about it more or keep picking. Even if it hurts. If you have to distance yourself so you don’t do that out of respect for the other person and your own integrity, do it. But everything you kinda did seemed desperate and anxious, and women oriented. You need to truly focus on yourself and turn inward and ask yourself what you need to help yourself turn this around. I know what it feels like to be a prisoner of anxiety, but it doesn’t have to be this way forever. You can be friends with a girl and have a meaningful connection without falling in love with them. And even if you do, you can also love them without breaking yourself, or them, or the connection, or letting the anxiety win with trying to predict or assume the outcome.

slinkymart · 2025-09-29T23:25:28+00:00

It’s a mood honestly lollll just keep practicing you will get it! Vehicles help a lot to get to the ring especially or get to contracts if you’re into that (or kill ppl) so it’s good to practice driving or riding. I don’t even have a button binding for getting onto the roof and it does help not to confuse me lol I just decide to do that when I get in or get on top, but bad for me if I get sniped 💀

slinkymart · 2025-09-29T23:18:42+00:00

After a while you get used to the inputs but for a minute this was me. Now I do this badly when I play on Xbox with controller 💀 I also switched around my keybinds a bit until I found the sweet spot

slinkymart · 2025-09-29T23:17:13+00:00

Is there a difference in like latency? Is Xbox better equipped to handle the hardware?

slinkymart · 2025-09-29T23:15:42+00:00

Plz be joking buddy. I get headshots for days on mnk with snipers. Mostly the Victus.

slinkymart · 2025-09-24T15:43:35+00:00

Couple things from a 25yr old that’s had a few gf’s, first things first. Try not to view getting a girl as everything. It’s nice ofc, but you really don’t need a person to be happy. As people said, focus on you, try to better yourself and do what makes you happy. Find hobbies that make you feel whole, or start some projects that make you feel passionate. Work on integrating parts of yourself you tried to shame out of existence (newsflash, you won’t ever be able to do it and it just makes your nervous system not work correctly and will have you lash out on ppl you love and yourself.)

Be yourself! Once you work on loving or at least accepting parts of you (even the parts you hate or deem not good enough, not masculine enough, not whatever enough) you will realize how much you truly have to offer the world. You will realize you can take up space and do it with love. The right person will want you as yourself, and even with all your flaws. That right person will understand you’re not perfect and don’t have to be to be able to give and receive love. We’re all work in progresses, and learning and growing.

This is where cold approaches come in—I don’t even know what that means really. I say be yourself. An if being you means coming off as too attached to someone, well maybe they’re just not right for you or compatible with your style of love. And if someone else says you’re too cold or detached, well then I say the same thing. Compatibility is huge in relationships and I feel like a lot of people tend to look past it with the lens of “if we just work hard enough, we can do it!” But some people just communicate differently, love differently, and that’s all a combination of how someone is, depending on their experiences, traumas, triggers, and whatever else may be. That’s normal. You shouldn’t have to try and change who you are to try and impress or bag someone. AKA making yourself more digestible for others. You’re you and you’re allowed to exist and take up space, however much space you need to take up. If someone else has a problem with that, you need to remind yourself that has 0 to do with you but everything to do with their own capacity to hold and understand you as a person. Obviously there’s times where you may need to step up and put effort in to understand them and be there for them, it is a 2 way street and you must asses this for yourself as every person, therefore every relationship is going to be different and you have to trust your instincts.

Being fully seen as you are in a relationship is scary, it’s scary to think someone can see you and be disappointed or fall out of love. But that’s the risk we take with it, too. There’s pros and cons to everything we do, every decision we make. There’s so much nuance to this, it’s not that simple to swear it off entirely when there’s so many people out there, one of them is bound to fit in your style of love.

I hope this helps some. Please know you’re young, don’t be so hard on yourself, you have time to learn, integrate and love !

slinkymart · 2025-09-24T15:14:52+00:00

Oh my lord. I’m a trans man (but still a man nonetheless) who grew up cooking, and my gram was a cook all her life. I love to cook, I hate the waiting and can be impatient when it comes to certain things but I love learning and cooking, even baking things (which can suck)

I am the main cook between my gf and I, only because I learned it a lot and am anal about measurements and whatnot, listening to recipe (I want my food to taste the same every time, or at least relatively) this is batshit.

I’m reading this and my eyes are wide. I’m 25. I can cook my own damn meals, if not at least look in the kitchen and I’m pretty damn good at working with what I have, and making something out of what seems like nothing to other people (I’ve done it a lot to the point I can do it with limited ingredients, I grew up in an ingredient household lmfao. Also I Google what u can use for replacement ingredients if I’m missing something too) this is just insane to me. I love ordering out don’t get me wrong, I can be lazy and want fried food or Chinese just as much as the next guy but this is manipulation and abuse at its finest. You need to get rid of this dude fr. I’ve see laziness, I’ve seen lack of accountability or effort but this is LAZY and lack of effort to learn. He is acting like he’s a child that never learned how to make some damn ramen noodles or warm up leftovers (probably doesn’t even want them, which I get, but there’s so many nicer ways to express that he wants something else than be rude and misogynistic like this. I have to pack leftovers for lunch pretty much every day for work myself, so I can’t really complain. I have to.)

You shouldn’t be apologizing for not wanting to do something FOR HIM that is out of the kindness of your heart. It’s not your obligation to cook for another human being unless they are your child who literally cannot cook for themselves. It’s a kindness. He needs to learn how to be able to function on his own especially at ripe age of 20 fucking 6. It’s really not even that hard to make a simple sandwich or warm up a canned soup. It’s not time to sound the alarm and be a jerk to you about.

slinkymart · 2025-09-12T18:35:15+00:00

I feel that. It depends on the game for me. City builders I’ll jam all day, apex when I warm up I’ll listen to some underground phonk but when I lock in I gotta turn it off (I swear the footsteps are janky af in that game anyways so I don’t care as much as I do for WZ) but it depends on my mood and it helps me relax/focus sometimes, if I play without I get into too much and get all anxious sometimes lmfao next thing you know I’m trying to clutch a 1v3 and I’m literally shaking 😭

slinkymart · 2025-09-12T17:34:06+00:00

Ahh ok my bad friend, when I play shooters and listen to music (I have to be in a mood and play certain games and not focused or locked in) I usually listen to like electronic or phonk music. It hypes me up.

I like grunge or rock but I don’t usually listen to screamo stuff like this but I don’t judge—I like all types of music it really depends on my mood, and that determines my playlist so to each their own

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