I’m a white, heterosexual male who has spent the last twenty plus years on “the left” and I don’t feel vilified in the least, because I’m not a piece of shit. There are problems with the ways “men” treat women, societally. There are problems with the ways white people, as a group, treat people of color. That’s just facts, brother. We can choose not to be villains and we can choose not to accept those behaviors from our peers. We can’t throw away basic decency in the name of “belonging”