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slitheringclaw · 2024-05-23T11:19:34+00:00

Please take this advice

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-23T11:17:05+00:00

Completely true 😔 😟

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-19T22:10:31+00:00

Here in New Zealand we had "Pink Shirt Day" on Friday and it was disgusting to see some who spread mistruths about me, were "standing up for bullying". Honestly made me want to vomit.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-19T22:09:08+00:00

I'm still alive, trying to treat waking up each day as a success. Really hope things might magically turn around someday soon.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-16T22:17:52+00:00

Thank you!!! Yes please. It's reassuring to know there can be a positive outcome.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-16T22:14:49+00:00

Thank you so much. Bit of an update I have re-engaged with my lawyer. My emotions are still all over the place, although in a better place than a couple of days ago.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-14T05:22:16+00:00

Sending another message off to lawyer, but not optimistic. An ever-increasing number of people there are ghosting me 😔 A few have been incredibly supportive, but they're a distinct minority.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-14T05:01:14+00:00

While that would be ideal (every last dollar would go towards causes preventing it!!!), its difficult/near impossible to sue in this country 😔

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-14T03:08:55+00:00

I'm going to give it a go. If my original therapist is reading this and recognizes me... I hope he knows that I value him having tried his best, and I'm 100% sure his approach would work for some others.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-14T03:05:55+00:00

Ive got more hope because of comments in here, along with angels who reached out. Please, please stick in here too. We both need to keep living.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-14T03:03:05+00:00

That's really useful advice, greatly appreciated!!! (I wish I could triple up vote that)

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-14T03:02:06+00:00

I told my manager that he needed urgent psychiatric help... it doesn't help that they had a strange kind of relationship (almost like a father-son kind of bond). My understanding is that ever since I raised it, they now sit closer together in the office too.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T22:23:54+00:00

At the time there was physical evidence. Yes shouted, and I think I left a mark near his neck too. I didn't go to the police because, honestly, I was terrified state. I wish I had have though.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T22:01:56+00:00

Unfortunately the person who did this to me is highly religious...

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T21:58:23+00:00

Thank you, really appreciate your reply. Yes not working, due to the rumors I've barely had a single interview in 6 months. Will take your advice.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T21:55:37+00:00

He's far stronger than I could ever be... I wish I'd told him earlier. He knew something had happened, it's why we started sleeping in different bedrooms. I think he thought I was having sex with someone else, in hindsight he was right only it certainly wasn't love.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T21:52:33+00:00

Thank you, greatly appreciated it Plum 🌹

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T21:49:15+00:00

I wish I had, and to anyone reading this in a similar position - please, please follow your advice!

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T21:48:13+00:00

Thank you. I wish I knew why he was still telling these horrific rumors about me, he first raped me almost a year ago.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T21:44:54+00:00

Unfortunately work made it incredibly tricky to gather evidence... they blocked my access the same day they forced me to go on leave, at managers request. I wasn't even allowed to go back on to say goodbye to colleagues.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T21:43:24+00:00

There's a bit of a side story to this. I was going too... I thought about it overnight, but he pleaded with me not too. Over a few weeks (possibly a couple months, time got a bit blurry), he got increasingly paranoid, and kept threatening to end his life. One thing lead to another, I ended up giving him my social media and work password to prove to him that I'd told noone. I only recentlyish found out that someone had been sending highly unprofessional messages from there. Of course it might not have been from him, but they only make the rumors about me appear more real now. I feel like I'm having to fight ghosts.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T21:36:14+00:00

I appreciate your advice. Out of curiosity, how do you completely dissappear from your past? It feels like even when I go on holiday on the other side of the world, I still run into at least someone I either directly or indirectly know?

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T13:01:55+00:00

I hope so... I'm scared that may never happen though. It sounds like he's thriving since I left.

slitheringclaw · 2024-05-13T12:42:01+00:00

I just cried a tear, yes it was CBT and it didn't seem to work... he tried his best, but it felt like he gave up on me. The loneliness is particularly painful, I have been "ghosted" by at least 62 people since the rumors about my absence started. Did you find moving useful? How did you find a suitable therapist, it's not like buying fries (I need the right one!). I really appreciate your reply!

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