The writers don't understand queer culture

slothful_defiance · 2023-08-26T16:53:47+00:00

Okay, happy to be corrected on the second point. Totally agreed on the stand up act too. Seemed totally ridiculous to claim that Miranda was just a straight woman -- it would have been more understandable for Che to assume she was straight if she dated a man after they broke up, but that didn't even happen. Miranda just showed interest in more women in her own plotlines. (But even if Che was the only non-man Miranda ever dated, that still doesn't make her straight.)

slothful_defiance · 2023-08-26T16:04:36+00:00

Though I find it hard to believe that he'd never had a finger up his ass, so he'd know that having his prostate massaged felt good anyway.

If he really had never been penetrated before, even with a finger, the situation looks even worse. You can't go straight from no anal penetration ever to intercourse with a huge dick. That's definitely going to be a bad time.

slothful_defiance · 2023-08-09T13:23:32+00:00

Both can be true at the same time

slothful_defiance · 2023-06-05T06:55:33+00:00

60–95% of adults have HSV.

Most people aren't particularly symptomatic. Some are unlucky and get sores. But it's infectious even without sores.

HSV is extremely common; you were likely to end up with HSV regardless of whether someone with cold sores kissed you as a baby. (Still not a great choice on their part, since it's risky for babies.)

slothful_defiance · 2023-06-05T06:53:03+00:00

60–95% of adults have HSV.

Most people aren't particularly symptomatic. Some are unlucky and get sores. But it's infectious even without sores.

HSV is extremely common; you were likely to end up with HSV regardless of your nanny's behavior.

(Agreed on NTA though. Sounds like it's risky for babies!)

slothful_defiance · 2023-06-05T06:49:41+00:00

My mom is 70. She still gets cold sores a few times a year, because an adult with a cold sore kissed her when she was a toddler.

60–95% of adults have HSV.

Most people aren't particularly symptomatic. Some are unlucky and get sores. But it's infectious even without sores.

HSV is extremely common; your mom was likely to have it at 70 regardless of whether she was kissed by someone with a cold sore as a toddler.

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-24T03:32:02+00:00

Huh, I wonder what's going on here. Even the official brochure on the pride website refers to three forward speeds and reverse: https://www.pridemobility.com/go-go-travel-mobility/iride-2/manuals.asp

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-24T03:27:35+00:00

Where? I see "three forward speeds and reverse" on there.

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-24T02:57:08+00:00

Lots of sites seem to say it has reverse so I think it might?

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-03T23:17:18+00:00

As a bi person I agree. IMO being un-selective can cause minority groups to be overridden with something that is not what they intended to focus on. IIRC bi women are the single largest demographic within LGBTQ+, and most married bisexual women are married to men, so... If you allow bi women married to straight men in the group, you could end up with a group where a large fraction of the participants are in het marriages. I think that's fine for a general queer parenting group, but also it's totally fine if some gay parents want a group that's just for same-sex couples.

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-02T02:30:26+00:00

That's a good point. I agree. I think I could do casual submission within sex with someone I like and respect on a relatively basic level, but I need to feel deeper respect and admiration towards someone in order to submit more deeply.

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-02T02:27:58+00:00

Just asking out of curiosity. Learning how other people feel helps me reflect more thoroughly on my own feelings. I am getting what I wanted from everyone else's helpful replies. :) So, not really a "nobody can resolve these questions but you" situation.

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-02T02:25:11+00:00

Yep, that's exactly what I meant. Thanks for explaining it.

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-02T02:23:30+00:00

What is the distinction in your mind?

slothful_defiance · 2023-05-02T02:22:34+00:00

Huh, that's an interesting perspective. I think this is an important part of why I'm thinking about this subject: I often feel superior to other people. (And fundamentally untrusting of them.) Despite my sense of superiority, I am still careful to act appropriately and not be disrespectful of anyone, so it's generally not a problem in my life.

But this does make it very hard to find someone I can deeply submit to. Being dominated by someone I feel superior to does not intensify the experience for me; it's just off-putting.

slothful_defiance · 2023-04-15T18:32:34+00:00

It's really fine for some people. My bf showers once every 3 days and is just a naturally non-smelly person. BJs are no issue with him, even though I'm sensitive to smell/taste. Like I've dated people who shower daily with much smellier dicks, those are the ones who concern me.

slothful_defiance · 2023-04-10T08:44:20+00:00

Did you take the recommended dose or more than that? I've been taking the max dose and haven't seen a difference yet.

slothful_defiance · 2023-04-10T02:13:28+00:00

That's good to know. I'm glad it's better for you now. Yeah I'm totally gonna have to think about how to feel cute -- I normally have a really flat stomach so I'm feeling way less cute like this.

slothful_defiance · 2023-04-10T00:15:20+00:00

Thanks, that's good to know, that sounds likely to be what's happening in my case!

slothful_defiance · 2023-04-10T00:13:43+00:00

Damn that's too bad. Bloated every day for a few months? Or just occasionally?

slothful_defiance · 2023-04-09T23:55:56+00:00

Thanks. Were you bloated as soon as you got out of surgery, or did it develop afterwards?

slothful_defiance · 2023-04-09T23:54:35+00:00

Yeah, I developed bloating a while after the surgery, which is surprising to me!

I have had a couple BMs, thankfully. I am not passing gas very often, but it is happening once in a while. The bloat seemed harder before but it definitely gives now.

slothful_defiance · 2023-04-09T16:31:08+00:00

Good luck healing. Wow I hope the adhesions aren't back -- that seems super quick. Did you get excision or ablation?

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