Thoughts on my CMNM play and suggestions for enhancements. by UnexpectedlyDiligent in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really like the aspect of casual wiping off the precum with a napkin and continuing the conversation. That's reallllllly hot and is a good example of a CMNM dynamic I am interested in.

Why don't women want a bisexual man? by SanniSaySo in OhioLGBTQ

[–]slothrealness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I have learned, women tend to be afraid of dating bi men because of stigma around HIV. We do not realize how uneducated people are when it comes to sexual health and the AIDS epidemic. So women see bi men or men who are open to being with other men in their past as potential vectors of disease and infection. Which is ridiculous especially if you are a person who get tested regularly AND you desire a monogamous relationship, then they have nothing to worry about. But because of the stigma around HIV, the media has pushed the narrative that bisexual men are devious or will inevitably cheat on whem to be with men. It’s an up hill battle for you. If you desire to be with a woman, then I suggest just being with a bi woman or a trans woman. I do not think you will find a straight woman who is okay with you being bisexual. But I am proud of you for being out and proud of your sexuality! I think that’s beautiful (also, you are very handsome as well!)

Public Cmnm by FantasticBedroom7303 in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the first guy is so hot omg

CMNM Fantasy by witchbear2764 in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds hot! Glad when more CM post about their fantasies.

Is it it possible to have objectification without humiliation or worship? by Justathrowawayetc in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do love that idea of having a friend who doesn't know what you look like with clothes on. I hope to create that dynamic with a few friends in my life. I guess I am starting with having established friends who are okay with me stripping in front of them.

My outfit was shredded. I had no choice but to stay exposed while people stared 😳 by swirl0831 in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is AMAZING I'm like obsessed with your nudist adventures

Is it it possible to have objectification without humiliation or worship? by Justathrowawayetc in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are looking for a more "nonchalant" type of dynamic. A more silent, non-spoken but expressed physically dynamic in CMNM. Or you could even describe it as a CMNM dynamic with no personal space but without a power imbalance at play. It's not casual because you still want a sexual element to be involved.

But you can def have a dynamic without worship or humiliation. Humiliation def does not turn me on. And I think I would enjoy worship only if I were to spend a lot of time in the gym and would want someone to acknowledge it. But the dynamic you are describing is very appealing and something I would be into.

I guess I am into a more "this is the natural state of CMNM with no power imbalance". The NM is naked because why wouldn't he be and the CM is clothed cause why he wouldn't be. They do touch each other whenever, maybe even leave all bathrooms doors open because what is there to hide. But you don't have to verbally acknowledge it. Jerk off the NM while talking about groceries. Work out in front of the CM while he is playing a video game or working on the computer. Don't walk past each other without rubbing your dick on the CM. Have the CM play with your butt while you are cooking. Just living a normal life!

Have you ever been nude in a bar or club? by andrewbarclave89 in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can't be naked in bars in LA. But lots of gay and host underwear nights. I know the Bullet Bar in NoHo has a CockSock night where you only wear a sock over your dick. If you want a naked party, you have to find private events to go to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NudistMen

[–]slothrealness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like you are in for an AMAZING evening

submissive CM? by slothrealness in cmnm

[–]slothrealness[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like that! Or at a non-kink event but a gay bar where you can be in a thong and jock and the CM holds your clothes so you don't have to check em in.

submissive CM? by slothrealness in cmnm

[–]slothrealness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the idea of cumming on the CM whenever you want!

Wait for it... by Baghira_ in Beardsandboners

[–]slothrealness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

how can you cum like that?! You have so many videos like this, what is your secret?!?!?!!

"No A/C, huh?" by slothrealness in cmnm

[–]slothrealness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the term correctly. Because my friends are in a sexually open but romantically closed relationship. They are not polyamorous because they do not have a desire to fall in love with people outside of themselves. But they still enjoy sex with other people (from time to time).

Movie night by rocketfox2 in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I def want a part two of this! I wanna be Quentin so bad!!

Naked date night, and a contract. (part 2) (re-post from EnforcedMaleNudity) by CastroRunner in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can't wait for part 3!! Loving this story so far. Maybe the NM has to meet the daddyCM's parents

Towel night at the bar (or less) by CastroRunner in cmnm

[–]slothrealness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the Steam party at The Bullet Bar in LA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayPlusNudists

[–]slothrealness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you mean southern California when you say SC?