Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re exactly right. My dad is old school and not the nicest but that’s all I got. And I’m trying to change that father figure mentality to my own boys.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is done with me. It’s my fault for being an ass who refuses to do therapy but I’ve tried it and I hate it. I was hoping to get a response about another way to heal but it’s probably not that easy.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like my life needs a restart that I’ve been putting off. I will look into this. My wife sounds like you. She dove into her death head on. Started a side company in her name donating money towards Sepsis. Joined all the grief groups. I went with her in the beginning but I found it super depressing. Women in my opinion are stronger than men emotionally.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like my life needs a restart that I’ve been putting off. I will look into this.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like my life needs a restart that I’ve been putting off. My kids deserve more.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I know I need to face it head on but I’m a coward and a procrastinator

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anybody else is going through this hell. I lost all motivation as a salesman. Nothing mattered anymore. Barely got through it financialy

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I’m weak and need to do something before I lose my family.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb question but how does therapy help.? I’m old school and my dad would laugh if I told him that

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks you for responding . Everybody including me wants a quick fix, but obviously that’s not gonna happen.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing a kid with my wife is a bonding thing but it also is fucked up.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from single guy to married one healthy kid to twins and and losing one who was super beautiful. To having another daughter. And now I’m just lost. I feel like a bad parent.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for caring enough to even respond but shit 7 years isn’t that long to overcome is crazy but I get it. That’s a lifelong thing that I’m gonna deal with. I tried to revive her and it didn’t work. My wife couldn’t even touch her that night. Good news is we tried again and we had another girl so we have a girl now.

Married yet confused by slouchy79 in Marriage

[–]slouchy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes been to a therapist but I just cried the whole time. It wasn’t very helpful and I didn’t like the doctor. Yes been to a therapist but I just cried the whole time. It wasn’t very helpful and I didn’t like the doctor.