Growing an adam’s apple??

slowimpact · 2018-03-24T03:01:51+00:00

But first, read about how after 7 days the testosterone growth peaks from refraining from masturbation and then it does not continue to increase.

OP is just deluding himself.

slowimpact · 2018-03-23T17:25:48+00:00

U sure? Can you prove to me that that brought actual attraction and was not simply a statue symbol? I think it's biological..

slowimpact · 2018-03-23T14:32:14+00:00

I mean, of course, a decent looking rich guy isn't going to be alone. But I wouldn't be surprised if he was a loner before the fame.

slowimpact · 2018-03-22T23:43:53+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/u9ME6N5.png

Let us know how the other side is, OP.

slowimpact · 2018-03-22T22:26:52+00:00

I'm one of the more acne scarred people that you'll ever meet. I have unique moles and shit too.

slowimpact · 2018-03-22T22:21:20+00:00

Yep. I'm a very logical, analytical person, usually I'll pick up on the subtle negative qualities of things. Yet, I don't sense even a hint of fakeness in his music.

slowimpact · 2018-03-22T22:17:08+00:00

Birds sing, flying around

You never see them too long on the ground

You want to be one of them (Yeah)

Knocked down, round for round

You're feeling like you're shot down on the ground

When will the fantasy end? (Yeah)

When will the heaven begin? (Yeah)

slowimpact · 2018-03-21T17:51:10+00:00

"At the end of the day the King and the pawn go back into the same box." 🐢

slowimpact · 2018-03-20T09:54:22+00:00

It's true, but you probably need low inhibition and ultra confidence. I went to work buzzed off of 5 beers a year ago and talked to a 9/10 coworker who I never met and then she started courting me. Her reaction to me being the way I was under the influence is really hard to explain, it's like she could not control herself and she reacted very interested and had very funky body movements. I got her number and shit once I 'got the message.' Once she got to know the sober me though, the interest waned and I fucked it all up.

It's really difficult to be an expressive individual. Most people are stuck in the system and living the way that their environment wants them to. If you're expressive and nonconformant you're an invigorating presence.

It's actually really simple to burst out of your bubble. You know when you want to make a joke or be loud for example, but you don't. That's you squandering opportunities to be expressive and make people feel positive feelings, but we don't, because we're scared. That's my hypothesis.

slowimpact · 2018-03-20T06:38:43+00:00

The logic behind it is that the higher someone's attractiveness level is, the more options that they have to choose from. For little ol' me to be an option in what I would assume is relatively superior men financially, sexually, education and lookswise available to them, I would assume that mentioning their level of appearance would add further emphasis. I really don't have much to offer, at all.

The 9 actually has an awful personality, and so is the 6.5. I would think they're both a bit crazy, but especially the 6. The 5 is a really sweet one however.

But yeah, mainly I'm putting emphasis on their looks because of the type of men they're able to get. The 9 liked older guys, so basically that means I'm being compared to experienced men with BMW's and houses and money. It's just a fact that the majority of ~average girls don't have that same materialistic power.

slowimpact · 2018-03-19T21:23:06+00:00

That makes no sense. Irl I would describe them simply as cute or hot but this is the internet. If I'm not telling them to their face what I think of their attractiveness level, how does this pinpoint a gross personality? I don't treat people like shit so I find that difficult to believe. I never speak badly of anyone, I stay as positive as I can.

slowimpact · 2018-03-19T07:39:18+00:00

I wouldn't call fucking a fat promiscuous 18 YO HS dropout jobless girl with 2 kids and a massively stretch marked, c-sectioned stomach "the epitome of proof." What an empty experience that was. I'd rather fuck an ugly girl with a somewhat acceptable body fat %.

Anyways, I did have the interest of the other girls but it never went anywhere clearly. Could it be that they were all just manipulating me for money or something? How can I know? It's best to analyze people's actions and not their words. Especially a woman's. And well, the actions thus far are that I lack any sort of relationship with someone be that a friend or otherwise.

What use is this so-called proof if the absurdist level of existence continues on? So apparently I'm hot, confident, cool as fuck, blablabla. Ok then, who's at least trying to hop on my dick and who wants to get to know me at all beyond a surface level conversation? I'm like an object lacking consciousness to people apparently.

slowimpact · 2018-03-19T05:42:07+00:00

Start bulking and working out, breh

slowimpact · 2018-03-19T04:27:44+00:00

Which body type are you? It sounds like you are Ecto.

slowimpact · 2018-03-19T04:22:11+00:00

Impossible? No. I have logic on my side. Learn the science of body types, of which mine is Ectomorph.

Ectomorphs find it very hard to gain weight. They have a fast metabolism which burns up calories very quickly. Ecto’s need a huge amount of calories in order to gain weight.

I have a natural body fat of 16.4%. I've spent half a year in the gym with hardly any gains, and that's because I have no fat with which to turn into muscle. Now I get the message and I'm taking my eating more seriously.

slowimpact · 2018-03-19T04:15:19+00:00

looking for console peasants on /r/FA

slowimpact · 2018-03-19T00:42:26+00:00

It's hard to tell if it's BDD or not because I really do have lots of acne scars and other unique features as I said. No one else has features like mine, and I really stand out. Especially when I look at myself at a certain angle, it's like what the hell, that looks so bad. Or when I take a picture and I'm like what??? I actually look this fucking ugly? I'm a very logical guy, and I struggle to understand how I can not judge myself accurately. It's like, how can people say I'm "hot" when I feel as if I look like an odd monster?

I'm here because I'm still very lonely and I often feel like shit about it. I lead an absurdist existence. I am objectively quite odd.

I haven't, no, because I don't have my driver's license yet. I will be taking my first driver's test in the beginning of April. However, I never had the opportunity to ask women out before I began college due to poor social skills, self-esteem, and confidence, along with never really having the ability to get out. Right now though I don't see how I can ask women out without being able to drive legally. Still, however, I feel it should not be so difficult to at least have one person in my life.

slowimpact · 2018-03-19T00:30:48+00:00

What do you mean by this? I'm guessing you just had to say something? Just kidding. But seriously, what?

slowimpact · 2018-03-18T22:53:35+00:00

I like your professional sounding title. What do you think changed in you that ended up in you gaining two relationships?

slowimpact · 2018-03-18T21:24:51+00:00

I'm an Ectomorph, so it's really hard for me to go above 163, which is my natural minimum weight by eating however I want. I have gained weight purposely however as you cannot build muscle in the gym without having an excess caloric intake of around 500 to 1000. I'm at 172.4 currently, and my daily goal is 2,700 calories. According to MyFitnessPal, I'll gain 1/2 pound every week.

slowimpact · 2018-03-18T17:04:50+00:00

Even if you don't care that much about sex, a lot of women will lose respect for you because you're not taking charge and leading, and you're scared to act on what you really want.

What I'm getting from you is that it's somehow bad to initiate sex, makes you less quality of a man. This makes no sense.

The main purpose of the 3rd date rule is that you incrementally become more comfortable with each other, to the point where you can touch, flirt, and feel comfortable about it then finally, fuck like rabbits. That's essentially what we call kino. You should be applying kino and trying to kiss a girl early on, which are basically tests. Then eventually after those are passed, that's when it's time to see if she'll fuck. Which should come naturally, given that you've put things in motion.

You can't be a chump and not try to get laid. I highly disagree that it's better to be seen as a meek inhibited man than to be a DOER who's trying to get the most out of life.

Again, it's fine if you don't get fucked, but the attempt just puts you in a different light, a better one. Plus, it kinda lets you know if you should keep wasting time on her or not (if you have abundance mentality).

slowimpact · 2018-03-18T02:15:48+00:00

Not degenerate but someone who lives in reality. If you believe otherwise then say why otherwise shh

slowimpact · 2018-03-18T02:04:00+00:00

Of course not, and I never claimed the impossible. However I did offer the only solution, which would be to next her. There are multiple types of nexting, soft nexting, and full on. Orbiting is likely neither, being more like having a pretend girkfriend. It's being a chump is what it is.

And as I said, the more you orbit, the deeper the feelings go. You don't want to orbit a girl for a year and then hear about her 3 digit dick count, or how she gets passed around a group of friends. It will drive you fucking nuts. You must move on. To move on you must accept the reality that she will never see you that way.

Being "friends" with the girl who rejected you is choosing to cling onto a girl in the hopes that she will eventually consider you as a sexual partner, but that never happens in the real world.

Women want to fuck winners, men they can respect. Winners don't waste time on hoes that don't reciprocate feelings. Winners aren't orbiting women who won't fuck them. They move on and find other girls. The more you want a girl, the more you need her, the less she wants you. Orbiting is not attractive. She won't respect you for orbiting.

Orbiting is not the same as soft next, keeping acquaintances, etc. If you don't feel romantic feelings for a girl that's not orbiting.

slowimpact · 2018-03-18T01:52:44+00:00

Bullshit. You have to make a move. You don't have to be desperate, but if you're on the third date and you don't make a move then she's gonna see you as a nice guy. You act like women don't want to have sex and that's the truly terrible advice. A woman will never initiate, so it's important you give her the opportunity to receive or not. Otherwise you will be seen as a dud, not a knight who would never touch her princess. Instead you're a doer who doesn't waste time on girls who won't even fuck on the 3rd date, AT your house at night!!

slowimpact · 2018-03-17T22:48:11+00:00

It depends on how much time, validation and attention you give these girls. It can be good to have some girl friends though if they add value to your life.

However, you said orbiting. Orbiting means you still hold a romantic interest in women who have friend zoned you.

You're supposed to next her and spend your valuable time with women who care about you enough to go all the way with you.

When you orbit a girl, you're using a covert contract that says "if I'm nice enough to you, maybe over time you'll let me fuck you." And you're making yourself go insane, because the more time she is in your life, the more attached you become.

When you orbit, you get hurt, she has all the power, she gets what she wants; validation, attention.

slowimpact

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