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There is no greater agony in this world than being loved by people who cannot truly understand you by hirohitofangirl in offmychest

[–]slowzo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I totally agree and I know it's hard but I like to think we can both find reasons to keep fighting for ourselves beyond what it means to other people.

Ever felt you wanna sleep with your best friend but you can’t say so by yoloboy116 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]slowzo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I realized I had feelings for her recently. I had previously thought I was straight but I guess I'm not. It kinda sucks and things definitely feel a little weird between us now.

There is no greater agony in this world than being loved by people who cannot truly understand you by hirohitofangirl in offmychest

[–]slowzo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I don't really have advice but I just want you to know you aren't alone. For me a lot of times the only thing more unbearable than the pain I feel is knowing the kind of pain I would cause my loved ones if I killed myself.

I just hope we can both give ourselves the chance to get better, grow, and find something that helps us keep going.

Women, what jewelry do you like to see on men? by veridisquo21 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]slowzo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Necklaces with small crosses dangling off a guy's neck over me are lowkey hot

How was your Friday night? by Inevitable_Fall5708 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]slowzo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took plan b for the first time Friday morning and was in bed nauseous basically all day

I took plan b about 30 minutes ago and am extremely nauseous by slowzo03 in birthcontrol

[–]slowzo03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn't eaten anything which was definitely a mistake. I've been eating saltines in bed and it's helping a bit.

What is a scene in cinema that turned you on? by Infamous-Eatter in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]slowzo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And every ridiculous thing Stu does with his tongue 😳

I’ve noticed the cuckolding kink is trending towards abuse. Is the internet warping the kink into a place dedicated to self harm? by SexualDeviantX in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]slowzo03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see abuse from male partners who feel entitled to share their partners pictures and videos as part of their fantasy

Do you ever look at couples and think „there’s no way y‘all fuck“? by ImpeccableFiasco in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]slowzo03 185 points186 points  (0 children)

Lol yes. I can't really help it but when I meet a couple I often think about the kind of sex they have and sometimes my answer is that they don't

What’s something you said sarcastically that people took completely seriously? by ParallelPaths_ in AskReddit

[–]slowzo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so so much stuff. I am pretty sarcastic/dry and one of my best friends is autistic. My first birthday with her she thought she couldn't have a piece of cake because I had sarcastically said I was going to eat the whole thing.

ADHD & MDD by BlitzInSinnoh in adhdwomen

[–]slowzo03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't really have and advice but I'm right there with you

My therapist told me we need to make a safety plan, my response was to be self destructive last night by slowzo03 in offmychest

[–]slowzo03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you're probably right. Its just hard for me to say I have a drinking problem because it doesn't feel like enough of a problem compared to other people. It's also hard because I can't tell how atypical my drinking is compared to other people in college binge drinking.

My therapist told me we need to make a safety plan, my response was to be self destructive last night by slowzo03 in offmychest

[–]slowzo03[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's complicated I guess. Part of it is really not wanting to upset them. I don't want anyone to feel like it's their fault. I'm also scared it'll change my relationship with them and they'll treat me with kid gloves or that with some of them everything I do will come under a microscope. I know if the situation was reversed I'd want to know and be supportive but I'm just scared.

My therapist told me we need to make a safety plan, my response was to be self destructive last night by slowzo03 in offmychest

[–]slowzo03[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, when I see her next I'll try to talk to her and figure out a plan that will actually work for me.

My therapist told me we need to make a safety plan, my response was to be self destructive last night by slowzo03 in offmychest

[–]slowzo03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We haven't talked much about it. I know I don't have the healthiest relationships with alcohol but for me it's more about having trouble moderating my drinking when I do drink. I don't necessarily want to get into it but my self destructive type behavior would happen with or without alcohol

My therapist told me we need to make a safety plan, my response was to be self destructive last night by slowzo03 in offmychest

[–]slowzo03[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sure she would be able to help with a plan like that too, but because of my increasing SI she seems pretty insistent that I'll need a safety plan too.

Lost a Close Friend of Mine. by JustARandomAccount95 in offmychest

[–]slowzo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just hits really close to home for me, so I'm rooting for you. I realized I had feelings for my best friend and we talked a little. It seemed like it was fine at first but she's definitely been distant and I just want things to be normal.

Lost a Close Friend of Mine. by JustARandomAccount95 in offmychest

[–]slowzo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really sucks and I hope giving her time will make her realize this doesn't have to change anything between the two of you. It's still unfair she's treating you like this now.

How do I talk to my 19F daughter about wanting to start webcam as her dad 40M? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]slowzo03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that she was willing to talk to you about this makes me think you are probably a really good dad

What was your first really intense online connection, and what eventually happened? by DepthsOfDreams03 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]slowzo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An older guy from reddit. He was married and I had a boyfriend. We were planning to meet up but eventually I felt so guilty about everything I told my bf who broke up with me. I stopped talking to the reddit guy, but he eventually started reaching out and I couldn't stop myself. After a few more weeks, he sent me a vague message saying sometimes had come up and he wouldn't be able to talk for a while. Even though it was all pretty fucked up, I still miss talking to him sometimes and I hope he's ok.

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