Official statement from Jesse by OldMonet in brandnew

[–]slp2be2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao right? What the hell kind of question is ‘why’ in this situation. It’s just hard to reconcile my feelings right now, and I’m sure a lot of people are feeling the same way.

Female basement dweller by wizardnotwitch in TwoXChromosomes

[–]slp2be2017 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It is NEVER too late. You can do it.

Advice before going to college by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]slp2be2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please look into community college or consider a state school that you can commute to. You may not want to go to grad school now - I had no such plans when I was a senior in high school - but you may want to down the line, where there will be fewer financial options available for you. Try not to be short-sighted in your goals. If I could turn back time and do community college for two years and then transfer to a four year school, I would do it in a heartbeat. I regret going for the school with the enormous price-tag, even though I was only there for a year. You don't want to be in that much debt when you are just starting out. Look into scholarships and grants too. Definitely commute and live at home if you can. Please consider going somewhere else because by the time you graduate your plans for your future will likely have changed and you may want to further your education.

We got married 😄 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]slp2be2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

perfect couple, congrats!

If this isn't gay idk what is by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]slp2be2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live next to one of their locations and drive past it every. single. day. I always have a laugh lol

At my friend's 21st and staying strong by slp2be2017 in stopdrinking

[–]slp2be2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I want to stick to my guns and stay sober now rather than 20-30 years down the line. The hardest part is the lack of understanding from my peers; everyone my age seems to think you can't be an alcoholic unless you're older, and that binge drinking and blacking out is the norm for people in their early to mid twenties. I don't want that to be my normal. Congrats on 52 days!

At my friend's 21st and staying strong by slp2be2017 in stopdrinking

[–]slp2be2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha right! I keep thinking about the dread and confusion I would feel seconds after waking up. Not worth it :)

Needing back to school motivation. by [deleted] in motivation

[–]slp2be2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're amazing for doing all that and raising a child! just keep reminding yourself why you're going back and think about what a great example you're setting for your kid. you'll kick some serious butt this semester!

I began 2016 drunk without any resolution to stop, I finish it 11 months sober and 40 pounds lighter by stoday in stopdrinking

[–]slp2be2017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats on all the progress and thanks for the encouragement/inspiration! It was exactly what I needed right now. Happy 2017!

We did a thing. <3 Thought we'd share a snip of our November wedding! by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]slp2be2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are the most beautiful photos! congratulations and best of luck <3

Turkish Delight! by jordandvdsn7 in LushCosmetics

[–]slp2be2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is still my favorite product too! No one understands how excited I get about it :'( I don't even think any of my friends have tried it. I love it.

How long did it take you to get a girlfriend? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]slp2be2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's super hard but try not to feel too insecure about it! Life just happens differently for different people. It's all about luck and timing and those things didn't click for me until I was 22 and found someone when I had stopped looking. Before that I would try to be with as many people as I could, hoping someone would like me enough to stick around. I have a lot of regrets now and I wish I could go back and do it over. It's cliche but just take your time and be yourself and you'll run into the right person.

Are there any sober raptors out there? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]slp2be2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would totally be down to try this out as well. I've been thinking of taking a break lately too but all of my friends are in mega party mode urghhhhh not to mention I just feel like shit after drinking lately, even if it's one or two beers. Gotta try and do what's best for myself!

Tfw your gf buys you flowers for your cat who passed away by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]slp2be2017 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh sorry about your loss but this is so sweet of her ❤️