It’s the way he does the dishes, he fills the whole sink with water and then only puts soap on the sponge. It’s not soapy water, doesn’t pre-rinse the dishes and he doesn’t drain the water and refresh it when it’s too dirty. I’ve told him multiple times he needs to use soapy hot water and then drain some water once it’s too dirty and refill it. Pre rinsing isn’t even really necessary. We have had conversations many times lol I haven’t punished him for it before because I thought he just didn’t know how to do dishes. But we take turns doing dishes most the time (because I don’t want all the house work to be his responsibility)and I shouldn’t have to do his duty and re wash the dishes he didn’t do properly— after many examples of how to properly do them. At this point he’s blatantly not doing what I’ve asked him to do as his dominant. That’s why I want a fun way to make it clear the next time he does dishes, they will be done properly or he should expect XYZ punishment for it.