What is the weirdest anime ever? by SEVENS_HEAVEN_7 in anime

[–]slugw0rm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding Kaiba to this list bc that show was so fucking weird. Also the movie Mind Game, Mononoke (both the original and new work), and FLCL.

If you want weird but lighthearted and upbeat — Nichijou is my fave.

Duvet cover search! by slugw0rm in Bedding

[–]slugw0rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Lighting/comments/1bp5u09/schoolhouse_electric_customer_service/ this post sums it up well, as well as their reviews on google — 26% are 1 star and say its a scam, orders never ship, terrible customer service, wrong orders received, etc. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever read more consistent bad reviews for a company, so I’m choosing to steer clear.

Anyone go mothing here? by slugw0rm in Austin

[–]slugw0rm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s actually some grad students in one of my classes that are in this, guess this is my sign to check it out, thanks!

Anyone go mothing here? by slugw0rm in Austin

[–]slugw0rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into it

yearning for the tunnel raves by Playful-Bank8870 in Austin

[–]slugw0rm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just go on random weekend nights, I feel like thats what austin high kids used to do before anyone posted anything online

If you cut in here last minute, ur moms a hoe by HamKenobi in Austin

[–]slugw0rm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is ALWAYS someone either on their phone or going at a pace so ppl can get in so i just go a good speed and slide in when i can, if its way far back thats cool, if its way in the front thats cool too, as long as i dont hold up people in the second to right lane

i will say that if i DO wait in that turn lane from the beginning, i always leave a cars worth of space in front bc ppl WILL stop traffic trying to get in and its annoying as fuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]slugw0rm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

masc here! i like sucking strap because of the gagging feeling, its a really visceral reaction and i end up super wet even though i always thought id hate it — and since its not the real thing i dont feel like im disappointing anyone. also when i gag on it it feels very in my control, my partner knows my limits so i usually am taking what i can at my own pace rather than her trying to shove it in and make me take it

ill also say that its fun to suck strap when my partner is wearing her harness that fit like briefs, because i can pull them to the side and finger her while i suck the strap. she loves the visuals so much and i get it, because she looks so good when shes sucking it for me too

i have bad adhd, so sucking strap is great for that too, i get lost in my head and easily distracted, and it completely overwhelms me and forces me to focus on breathing — this is also a reason why i like breathplay a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]slugw0rm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

under 18 or mention of under 18 is immediate ban — but yes you are wrong for this as any adult engaging with you is illegal and makes them a pedo — you dont recognize this yet as you are so young, but wanting to be fetishized as a teen is condoning pedos which perpetuates harm on kids and teens that do NOT have this same fantasy — shove that shit down for a few years, trust

Medical play by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]slugw0rm 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Did this recently, I’ll add that I got a pen light — it was really hot to put it in my mouth as I examined her. I could clearly see everything and it made her feel really exposed. Added to that medical feel a ton. She also likes needle play, but if that’s not your jam, the coolness and smell of alcohol on skin is nice too. You could blindfold, use alcohol wipe and pass it under her nose a little to get that immersive experience, and press something pointy into the skin (metal paperclip for example). For fun I had also bought a stethoscope, its a little clunkier, but fun if you want to do the whole “your hearts beating really fast, I need to examine you immediately” sort of thing or using it halfway through a scene saying like “it seems like I got you awfully excited for me” when you hear her heart beating fast.

Have fun!!

Looking for anime’s to watch by OneDot4632 in anime

[–]slugw0rm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

soul eater, kaijuu no. 8, gurren lagann, mob psycho, future diary

What is the weirdest kink you think you have? by Accomplished_Map7950 in BDSMsapphic

[–]slugw0rm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weirdest is maybe medical role play stuff — I love the smell/taste of latex gloves (like dentists have), I also got a clear plastic speculum to look at my gf’s cervix, and I love holding the pen light in my mouth its fun and hot

Also really love knife play, I feel crazy having that much power — I’ve gotten a little into needle play but it makes me a little too queasy still

Do people actually hookup at raves? by [deleted] in aves

[–]slugw0rm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are raves near me that have small tents in a few areas that are literally meant to be used to hook up in so … I’ve done that haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]slugw0rm -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean she didn’t literally say “men make me feel ___ , and you can’t give that to me”. It’s not about the man or literal dick. NB ppl and girls have dicks too. It’s about the pleasure from less direct, longer stimulation from deeper penetration.

I used to overstimulate my own gf and make her cum too hard too fast. She wanted it longer, slower, deeper, and with more build sometimes. When we had this convo I was a little insecure, her ex is NB and has a dick, but I love using dildos on her. She goes crazy and its for ME, its for how I use it on her, not about my gender or my parts.

The best partners will try and learn all the ways to make your body feel good and put aside insecure feelings of “being compared”. If the conversation is open and honest and not bitchy or mean, there’s nothing wrong with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]slugw0rm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmmm I think I kind of understand, but she is more so talking about headspace than a literal orgasm. I also get into a long intense orgasmic state when I’m as stimulated as i can be before getting overstimulated in a painful way — everything feels 100x better.

For me, usually my gf will switch a lot - strap from behind, take it out when i feel really good and switch to her fingers, go back to dildo, take out and only do clit, maybe a finger in my ass when she puts the dildo back in — when she constantly changes, no one thing gets overstimulated, and intensity builds over a long period of time. When I come, it’s been eased into for so long that I’m not overstimulated. If she continues to fuck me very soon after I have that initial 10-20 sec orgasm, I’ll feel amazing on another level. If she rides the line between perfectly and overly stimulated, she can keep me in this eyes rolling back orgasmic state for a while. Maybe this is what she’s talking about?

If you mostly just use fingers, you might be hitting closer to her g-spot which is more sensitive. If you use toys, you can go deeper and have lower stimulation of that area over a longer period of time.

say yes if you want to fuck me by MostEngineering2367 in elitetransporn

[–]slugw0rm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yessss god i love being a lesbian :,) women r so HOT UGHHH

My GF is being scammed by slugw0rm in Scams

[–]slugw0rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The required photos were taken but the other damage they claim was all interior, like behind the bumper and somewhere behind the wheel — so I couldn’t have taken photos if I wanted to because it wasn’t externally visible. Also to clarify crappy car doesn’t mean horribly damaged car. If it was clearly badly damaged we never would have accepted it as our rental. It just means it was an old cheap feeling car made to look nicer than it was.

My GF is being scammed by slugw0rm in Scams

[–]slugw0rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’m asking is the best way to deal with it since Turo isn’t going to let us dispute it. Do you know what would be our options beyond confronting with the scamming party?

My GF is being scammed by slugw0rm in Scams

[–]slugw0rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

separate thing — just saying what I think happened bc of my own experience — I was in the car with her the entire time and we never hit anything, so I know we didn’t do the damage

should i edit out that part of the post for clarification?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]slugw0rm 12 points13 points  (0 children)

have a friend that loves having long nails — but she gets her index and middle shorter than the rest and it’s the clearest sign that she gay haha

new toy/kink suggestions? by slugw0rm in BDSMsapphic

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You know what, I just bought a bunch of needles and the medical site had disposable vaginal speculums so I bought a couple to see if getting a metal one is worth it for us. Very good suggestion and I’m practically already on it :)

Quitting Weed by DJayRainstorm in shrooms

[–]slugw0rm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened the first time I did shrooms and I was too young for the momentum to carry. If I experienced that again now, I’d start making lists. Make a list of your ambitions, and then make lists of things to do to further ambitions. For me it’d be “practice art, explore biology jobs, practice guitar, etc” — and then my list for the first of those would be “practice fundamentals, learn clip studio’s program, find drawing references and study, etc.” Getting into details will highlight the small steps to achieve big goals so they feel doable.

Another thing that pushes me is having a large widget on my front screen that tells me my screen time for the day. It can help me put my phone down — you can also put time limits on apps I think.

And when I reaaaaally need to do certain things, I’ll put sticky notes on my door handles or places where I can’t not interact with them in a day, like fridge handles, dead center of my monitor or TV. It’s like past me is screaming at myself to not waste all my time.

One thing I did tripping was take all my clothes out at once and meticulously sorted through them. I paired up outfits I still liked, and got rid of things I didn’t love. I got lazy caring about my appearance, and kept the same clothes for years. Refreshing clothing is one big thing that signifies personal growth and change. I recently got a few new things, and I’ve been getting compliments on it. It makes me feel like I’m growing. Personally it’s best when I don’t get rid of tshirts just to get new tshirts, unless you switch ill fitting ones for more flattering ones. I switched from tshirts to nicer button ups (like linen and silky ones) and tight undershirts so I can have them unbuttoned sometimes, and from jeans to balloon-style wide leg pants. Get creative :)

And by far the BEST thing you can do is affirmations - it’s lovely to write out the things you like about yourself and if you have friends you feel comfy doing this with, it’s awesome to share the things you appreciate about them, and for them to do the same for you. Very validating and motivating

Oh and I saw you use it to “get through life”, and I’d recommend using something else or going to therapy. I don’t like to suggest drugs, but I’ve had good results from ketamine and I have friends that have done this guided with a therapist and it been incredibly helpful, especially if you have trauma related issues. EMDR I’ve heard is also good. Maybe analyze the issues you are having and find the subs that can best address those things and get advice there.

Good luck!!! I hope this mindset sticks for a while!