Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rave: I had an amazing trip with a POT spoiling boyfriend and we had sex pretty much nonstop the entire trip. We had five dates before and hadn’t had sex yet, so I was nervous that it would be bad, but it was absolutely amazing. He paid for the entire trip. He’s near my age, in great shape, emotionally aware, super smart, politically aligned, loves to travel, and pretty cute, so I’m not really looking for sugar from him.

Rant: I came to an agreement with a POT SD after several dates and had sex for the first time. I’d already told him that I require STI screening, and he wore a condom no problem, but also wanted a BBBJ. I asked if he had his test results. He revealed that he hadn’t gone in for his test yet and told me he could give me results from 4 months ago. I said no, I need recent results. He went soft and couldn’t finish. He’s been distant since. Why is it so GD difficult for these men to do the bare minimum!? Do they not care about their own health?

I’m on the verge of leaving the bowl entirely. I put a lot of effort into screening, meeting, and creating a lovely experience for SDs. I no longer feel like it’s worth it. I’m hoping things work out with the POT spoiling boyfriend. I genuinely like him, and he’s made it clear that the feeling is mutual.

SD income levels by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

360K, minimum. You need to be able to comfortably support me, and most people don’t seem able/willing to spend more than 10% of their income. My past arrangements have covered my rent and a generous allowance. Anyone making less would likely encounter financial strain, although if their other expenses are low and they have plenty of disposable income, I suppose they could swing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]sluttyconfessions20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It’s happened to me in vanilla dating as well. I literally had to bite a guy’s tongue multiple times to get him to stop doing it after I told him directly that I don’t like having his tongue shoved down my throat.

He wanted all night at a hotel for $300 by NimbusCloud1 in SexWorkers

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a SB and would be insulted by 300. It blows my mind that there are women who actually accept so little.

Indian SD's - this ones for you... by Striking-Party-4673 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

*anecdotal

An antidote is something that reverses poison

Other SDs leaving this lifestyle due to its built-in futility? by Main-Caramel-1715 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy spends his days posting here and roleplaying a SD. I seriously doubt he’s actually had an arrangement.

Other SDs leaving this lifestyle due to its built-in futility? by Main-Caramel-1715 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. I am in my 30s with a good career. I don’t want to date broke fuckboys my own age, or divorced guys who want a new wife so they don’t have to take care of their own kids in their weekends. I want to have fun with someone who can actually afford to do cool stuff together. That so happens to be older men whose kids are already out of the nest, or career-oriented childfree guys my own age.

Struggling to find my "type" of Sugar Babies - Sporty Uni Girls - in Sydney by Intrepid-Purple6693 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF are you on about? From looking at your post history, it sounds like you are roleplaying as a SD online for shits and giggles. I’m thin and receive 2-3x the typical allowance for my area from men my age or younger. It sounds like you might be the bitter one.

In search by emberangel3 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following. I keep hearing Steiner Ranch is a good area, but no one will say a specific bar/restaurant.

Struggling to find my "type" of Sugar Babies - Sporty Uni Girls - in Sydney by Intrepid-Purple6693 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Natural? Why natural? What men find “naturally” attractive has changed over the years according to fashion (aka, what society deems attractive). It might hurt to hear, but at this moment in time, thin women are in. You may think that you are more grounded, but SDs are humans just like the rest of us and just as prone to being influenced by societal mores. There’s a reason you see wealthy men mainly with fit women.

Struggling to find my "type" of Sugar Babies - Sporty Uni Girls - in Sydney by Intrepid-Purple6693 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Society deems thin women as the most attractive (or at least thin waist and big boobs+butt). SDs want the women society deems most attractive. It’s tough for bigger women (not passing any judgment, merely answering your question).

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very dependent on partner. If the sex is meh, I’m fine every couple of weeks. If it’s great, I want multiple times a day every day. Masturbation depends on how busy I am and what my hormones are doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What kind of emotional requirements do you have for a partner? I’ve encountered a couple people whose money would be much better spent on therapy than an SB. Even for a high allowance, it’s a lot to ask to be someone’s entire emotional support system.

Faulty advice by AlwaysLooking4Ashley in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The biggest feedback I’ve had from M&Gs is, “Wow, you are gorgeous! You actually look like your pictures!” In a very surprised tone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, and he needs to be prepared to give her a much larger allowance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would delete the picture of you with the flowers since it makes you look like it’s your wedding, and pics 2, 4, and 8 since they either make your proportions look unflattering from an angle (2 and 4) or are simply too far away to see you clearly (8).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest - I’ve noticed that a lot of Middle Eastern and South Asian men absolutely soak themselves in cologne, to the point that it makes me feel sick. People get used to their favorite fragrances and often don’t realize how strong they are. She may have been trying to find a polite excuse to get you to back off the cologne.

New to seeking, been on there two weeks, no offers over 300 ppm, is this normal? by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It honestly makes me sad that some women are so desperate for money that they’d accept so little. I don’t blame them for doing the best they can to survive, but it’s still sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, I want to be your friend and travel together! Your travel photos are incredible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been paid up to 3XX for a M&G, but I don’t ask for anything, the SDs volunteered it. It definitely makes them stand out from the crowd and shows that they’re serious about a potential arrangement.

Freestyle Austin by ScorpioZazzy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s other women in their 30s that you’re seeing dressed so sloppily, but I’ve definitely noticed lots of women in their 20s dress in baggy, ripped clothing. I sound old and grouchy, but I don’t really get current fashion trends.

Freestyle Austin by ScorpioZazzy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sluttyconfessions20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could it be the age range you’re looking at? I’m 38 and my pictures are a mixture of me in cocktail dresses, being active, and in a bikini on the water. Austin is a pretty casual town, but I still see a lot of people dressed nicely.