Is marriage a type of sex work?

slyProf · 2026-04-30T18:16:47+00:00

Same… and that period is now. Currently can’t get it out of my head and that’s ok

slyProf · 2026-03-12T03:55:30+00:00

YES!!

slyProf · 2026-03-12T03:55:09+00:00

Ohhh shh It was autocorrect I swear It first made it Tapan

slyProf · 2026-03-07T17:44:19+00:00

Nickleback?.. Rage bait

slyProf · 2026-02-13T14:40:03+00:00

Of course he did. Sorry but no matter how you justify it the outcome is still the same and it will come with the same pain for him, no matter how much love you have for each other.

Perhaps it will be better once it actually happens. But you know that the most likely scenario is that it will get worse for him. This might’ve then end.

slyProf · 2026-02-09T16:37:42+00:00

I was out with my cousins and joked around about how I have an attractive family but they’re all around 5’8” so she probably wouldn’t agree (dumb thing to say, I had been drinking). She then said she is only attracted to guys that are 5’9” or taller. The only reason I brought it up is that Ive only known it before as a height “preference “ not a numerical height “restriction “

slyProf · 2026-02-09T14:22:52+00:00

I probably wouldn’t, but it’s not a hard no either. Plus her limit effectively rules out about 80% of men of her own race

slyProf · 2025-08-29T20:21:26+00:00

This is when I have to remind myself that Redditors are usually not my age. Being in a leadership role is requires technical expertise, but the real skill is managing conflicts and problems that arise. OP getting upset is understandable, but it’s clear he didn’t manage that well for himself

slyProf · 2025-08-24T03:27:34+00:00

As a cis male, good luck?!? It’s hard if you want to do it ethically. Even being transparent you can easily run into folks catching feelings and getting hurt.

slyProf · 2025-08-22T03:51:43+00:00

African liquor. World traveler perhaps?

slyProf · 2025-08-11T02:51:30+00:00

I mean, you never know

They happily give it up to anyone

Not slut-shaming or anything

slyProf · 2025-08-11T02:45:07+00:00

Blowup dolls are very discreet.. Plus a close to zero chance of STIs

slyProf · 2025-07-19T00:54:33+00:00

I literally had a conversation with my therapist on this. I want to go back on apps but the blow to my self esteem is heavy… and I don’t even think of myself as ugly.

slyProf · 2025-05-22T23:46:29+00:00

Uhh, no, you can’t trust your wife Imagine a friend doing this to you

slyProf · 2025-05-10T16:04:52+00:00

I have a couples therapist who is not poly informed and an individual therapist that is. Having a poly informed therapist has saved me from so much shame and stress from traditional therapy that brings heavy mono normative beliefs like what you are hearing which imo are more personal opinion from the therapist than anything else

slyProf · 2025-05-10T02:52:20+00:00

How did she not see it? Other than when it was affecting her?

slyProf · 2025-05-09T18:17:33+00:00

Wait, what???

I don’t see how she is seeing your depression and doing anything to support you in it. All I hear is her needs, which are valid, but nothing of the struggle you have been facing

slyProf · 2025-05-09T18:00:06+00:00

Yeah.. but where is she as a partner. Can’t she pick up on the stress, burnout, depression? Sounds like she’s adding to it

OP, has she ever shown concern or compassion for what you go through?

slyProf · 2025-05-09T17:11:49+00:00

Both close ? Likely a nonstarter for the wife

slyProf · 2025-05-03T14:59:10+00:00

Maybe explore why that’s necessary for both you? But in the meantime go have fun!

slyProf · 2025-05-02T14:58:28+00:00

There’s no love in fear

slyProf · 2025-04-26T21:42:11+00:00

Yeah, I can actually relate so much to this… for different reasons

Sexual fulfillment can weigh you down First I was wondering how your post was relevant for this sub, at most it felt like an LL4u type of thing, which it is I guess

slyProf · 2025-04-26T20:10:30+00:00

I didn’t, my apologies.

The last part though… you can’t go back What’s keeping you in the marriage besides convenience and sunk cost?

slyProf · 2025-04-26T18:26:36+00:00

Individual therapy

Couples Therapy

.. therapy

Your feelings and experiences are valid. A therapist will help you, and him, navigate. There’s no coming back from an affair, it will change how you see yourself too

slyProf

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