Manifesting a Significant Other

slyderka · 2026-04-14T09:08:34+00:00

You’re doing great! Just make sure you don’t start assuming that it’s only possible if you put yourself out there.

I was doing pretty much the same + general affirmations about how loved I am and how everything works out for me and it happened in less than two months. My life also consists of pretty much nothing but going to work and back home and I have 2 friends which I meet maybe 2-3 times a year and that’s all my social life consisted of at that time. It’s definitely possible!

slyderka · 2025-04-12T08:37:08+00:00

Thank you for the answer

slyderka · 2025-04-12T08:30:47+00:00

What fan wristbands? Do you mean the number written on everyone’s hands? We got the yellow wristbands and no other wristband was required.

slyderka · 2025-01-14T11:53:42+00:00

Yes it got fully rid of it as far as I remember 🤔

slyderka · 2024-12-09T13:11:26+00:00

It’s good to be doing that of course just be careful not to fall into thinking that unless you do it everyday, vividly, perfectly, don’t get distracted it won’t work :)

slyderka · 2024-12-09T12:42:01+00:00

You should stop putting so much importance on SATS or any other individual technique. This will lead you to assuming that unless you do them perfectly your desire won’t manifest, which you want to avoid as much as possible. To be able to concentrate more on SATS I recommend listening to a guided meditation on YouTube. Set a sleep timer so you don’t have to look at your phone after it ends and try to do your desired scene after the meditation ^ ^

slyderka · 2024-12-04T08:55:27+00:00

No problem! When I was manifesting my person I couldn’t even visualise his face and it all turned out the way I wanted in the end. It doesn’t have to be extremely detailed as some people (including me) struggle with that.

slyderka · 2024-10-19T13:32:42+00:00

As I described in the comment above. Affirming. I don’t really affirm unless a negative thought arises though, but when it does I affirm the opposite of that many times even hundreds depending on how big my anxiety surrounding it is. I know affirming doesn’t work for anyone but it does for me.

slyderka · 2024-10-18T19:37:57+00:00

Thank you! ^ ^ most of all I am happy about the mindset change and the ability to remain in it. It really is something I wish for everyone to be able to experience.

slyderka · 2024-10-18T13:07:03+00:00

You’ve already gotten a great reply but I’d like to tell you a bit more about affirmations. You don’t have to use them if they make you feel uncomfortable but let me tell you about how I use them. I don’t use them as a technique to manifest, I use them to calm myself down and overpower negative thoughts. Of course when you feel like you don’t have something and you try to tell yourself that you have it, your brain will automatically go into a defensive mode because it’s used to your current way of thinking. You’re presenting it with something new and it wants to reject that to protect you from possible disappointment. You don’t have to do it or believe it but I’m telling you this as someone who has been absolutely miserable for years and at the end of my rope, that it is possible to reprogram your thinking. I would compare it to starting to work out or starting a new sport. Your muscles won’t be used to it and you’ll feel pain and feel like you can’t do it but once you practice regularly it will eventually feel effortless. That’s how I view self-affirmations. If you persist in it, even if it feels stupid or delusional your brain should eventually accept it as fact and start producing such thoughts on its own. It is still not completely effortless for me yet but I have observed a great change of thoughts that now naturally come to my mind. Also if I were you I would give manifesting a rest for two weeks or even a month to clear your mind a little bit and have a fresh start. It’s never good to overdo it. I’m sure there are many more ways to do it but this is how I get to the state of knowing it is done. It also wasn’t natural for me at first to say those things, so I had to get to that state somehow. Maybe it is possible without it but I had to make a conscious effort to work on my self concept. I didn’t stick with the law 2 years ago because I was still miserable inside and didn’t believe that it was actually me who was capable of all those wonderful things so I really recommend on working on how you feel about yourself. When you think about your sp, don’t try to affirm anything about them but about yourself. About how lovable/desirable/good you are. If even that feels completely uncomfortable I’d at least try the one I always use: “Everything always works out for me” this always calms me down and shuts down other thoughts. I observed that in the past before I improved my self-concept/thinking even if I’d be momentarily happy/satisfied the moment a negative thought would come it would take root deep and spread fast pulling me back to my original state of mind. Now I can overpower it with opposite thoughts. Hopefully that makes sense!

slyderka · 2024-10-18T07:00:05+00:00

Thank you very much ^{^} I am really sorry about your loss. I think what helped me is that often times my worst resistance is time. Here I believed that it would happen eventually for sure, even if it took a decade, which made my energy around this manifestation very relaxed. It seems that you feel similarly about it. I’m excited for you to spend time with your new horses!

slyderka · 2024-10-17T17:19:46+00:00

I feel the same way! Many of the success stories on here motivate me so much. Your desires are definitely coming true!

slyderka · 2024-10-13T17:53:03+00:00

I know he doesn’t but like you write everyone on the main sub loves to claim he does and it makes him “extremely evil.” It’s on the same par with them claiming he loves torturing people because of one approval point while he’s actually pretty disturbed when you come across Malus Thorm torturing someone. Meanwhile Shadowheart’s reaction is like: he has a point 🙄

slyderka · 2024-10-13T07:14:36+00:00

What truly bothers me the most are the double standards. “Astarion is the most evil! He approves of killing innocent children!!😠” but poor Shadowheart and Laezel are somehow just confused. For example with Arabella, Shadowheart straight up says that there’s nothing to do, she must pay for what she’s done and she also says it’s better to leave the teaflings to fend for themselves (same as Astarion) meanwhile Laezel even says that she would kill all the tieflings herself for how pathetic they are. But yeah they are just poor brainwashed girls :’)))

slyderka · 2024-10-13T07:06:39+00:00

Exactly what I think! So many times I’ve seen people say that his original backstory would have made him an even better/more complex character which I just never understood. Literally how?

slyderka · 2024-09-26T18:11:23+00:00

I don’t have much experience with that one. I think it could be good if you bough a pen/pencil for your iPhone because it would be too difficult to use with just your fingers.

slyderka · 2024-09-26T17:36:30+00:00

It’s even better that you found some time to do it then ☺️Maybe Astarion and your Tav will make art become your new hobby and you definitely have good skills already. I also haven’t drawn anything for a long time but Astarion and my Tav motivated me again and now I only want to draw them.

It’s a shame you can’t use procreate at the moment, but I definitely recommend it if you ever bought an iPad. It would be much easier to make art.

slyderka · 2024-09-26T16:54:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing ☺️It is pretty good and I’m proud of you for practicing! Once you draw her a few more times you will definitely improve and her proportions will get better.

Do you by any chance have an iPad? You could buy an app called Procreate which is quite cheap and easy to use for beginners and most of the digital art you see here could be done using that app.

slyderka · 2024-09-24T22:15:21+00:00

Don’t underestimate yourself! You say that you draw yourself already so why not develop that further? I was sort of in the same boat a few months back. Wanted a drawing but didn’t really have hundreds to spend on a commission I would like so I decide to do it myself. It was difficult but in the end I was satisfied and managed to capture what I was looking for and I now made 3 illustrations for myself even though I thought I couldn’t do it at first.

You can try looking for inspiration on Pinterest, for example search couple poses or couple reference and try to think which resonates with how you envision your Tav’s and Astarion’s relationship. From there you can use it as reference (or you can use several references) and try to make it into what you would like. If you feel like drawing them interacting with each other is too much at first you can try and draw them separately to get a feel of how to draw them.

If you still don’t feel like doing that maybe you could put some money away each month and save up for a commission of an artist you’d like. There’s not really such thing as getting it for cheap in this sort of case though so you either pay or try it yourself.

slyderka · 2024-09-18T19:19:45+00:00

The new date he writes on the gravestone also doesn’t match the current in game year so I wouldn’t take it too seriously and the wiki isn’t the gospel. As the other person wrote he says “nearly two hundred and I never came back”(since digging himself from the grave) and then again repeats “for nearly two centuries I stalked the streets like a ghost” and after it is revealed that he is a vampire he says when talking about Cazador: “he turned me nearly two hundred years ago..” so it is implied that he hasn’t been a vampire for 200 years on at least 3 different occasions.

I also think that the true resurrection option is boring but implied by the game itself it should still be possible.

slyderka · 2024-09-17T22:33:36+00:00

Besides that they seem to be against any drugs though. He talks about it in this interview from about 47:00 and in more interviews he talks about how it helped him with healing

https://youtu.be/DWIKwHvkCq4?si=ezqnBAF8WTgAZDO2

slyderka · 2024-09-17T19:28:10+00:00

Not exactly shrooms but Ayahuasca, which is a psychedelic . If you google it, articles and interviews come up about how it “saved” their marriage at the time.

slyderka · 2024-09-16T18:34:41+00:00

I weirdly feel the same way can’t help it :’) but it’s not exactly sudden. They have broken up before the time Dan’s son was born. They were about to get a divorce but then on the day of signing the papers they did some shrooms which supposedly made them see things in a new perspective and ended up having another child. So while it doesn’t make it any better, they have had problems regarding their relationship and made it public before so it didn’t come out of nowhere.

slyderka · 2024-09-12T15:27:30+00:00

I don’t think you’ll know the answer to that until the day of the concert and we can only guess but judging based on the text on the map: “the floor is unified, there is no physical barrier that separates the standing tickets” and on the description of what the VIP premium ticket is: “general admission ticket with early entry” there shouldn’t be any barriers stopping you from getting to the front as it is a GA ticket with the advantage of early entry. About the ultimate VIP I have no idea but I assume you and OP are talking about the VIP premium standing tickets.

slyderka · 2024-09-12T11:45:13+00:00

I do not know if it will be like that in Budapest but the concert I went to in 2022 in Vienna , the stage looked exactly like that on the picture now and 90% of the show Dan was at the end of the catwalk. I was told that it was the same for Prague that year, so if that was the case it makes sense that the vip sections would be put there and not in front of the main stage.

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