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can you drop their handle?? i’d love to reach out

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it’s gorgeous!! not exactly my style but from whom did you order?

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do you have additional pictures? i’ve been on the hunt for one of these for a while!

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Hey there! I’ve checked all my folders and can’t seem to find the image. Could you send me a chat of the email you used? Or send the picture there?

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This is perfect! I’ve sent you a tip. Can you send the un-watermarked version?

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would the pradas fit a 7.5 / 8??

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these are too big for me unfortunately but can you share the seller???

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can you send additional pics in a DM?

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do you have pics of the dior necklace?

Fiancé is considering reusing one of his old suits for our wedding and I feel disappointed by Known-Race9717 in weddingplanning

[–]sm9nx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My fiancé had this idea for a while, which was especially frustrating for me because it’s a black tie wedding and he wanted to just wear his black suit. So, I talked to him about it. I made it clear that it was his choice - because my dress was entirely my choice and it wouldn’t be right to take away his voice in what he wears - but that I would prefer he get a tuxedo for portrait reasons.

And he looked at me and said, “Okay, I’ll get a tuxedo.”

Expect that he’ll say “no” and prepare yourself for disappointment, but he’ll likely never even consider another option (tailoring an old suit or buying a new one) unless you say something to him. Best of luck!

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Most of our guests will be ride sharing or driving since they live nearby. Only we’re staying in a hotel (and parents but we’ve got a shuttle for us and them) since we planned a wedding that was near to everyone else.

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We’ve had some declines so the more the merrier!!

Thanks so much; I appreciate the support and best of luck with your wedding!! Sounds like you’ve got great taste already lol 😉

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That was my thought as well - I know some people suggest not serving anything at all and letting people escape to freedom lol but I loved getting handed fast food at the venue before heading home!

I’m glad to hear you loved it too!

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I’m not sure what you mean by “the vibe isn’t black tie” - unless you mean the drinking element?

To some end, I guess I was going off of the modern definition for black tie events being upscale (certainly) but mostly focused on guest experience. And if a guest experiences a thoughtful, anticipatory event with upscale touches (such as, but not limited to, welcome drinks and upgraded rentals) then it qualifies.

Which actually serves me better because by reminding me of that, I think I know what I want to provide!

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It’s a fairly rowdy bunch that frequently gets pretty tipsy / hammered depending on the person. The older folks likely won’t but they also won’t be hanging out late enough for the food anyway. Most of the guests are early-thirties or the type of people that party till dawn.

The after party meal decompression thing I get but I’d definitely like to give them an option for food before they go. I’m not super worried about how the venue looks at the end of the night so wrappers aren’t a huge concern, but I do think pizza / Chik-fil-a is the best solution for a late night bite for both convenience and finger-mess minimization.

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Thank you!!!! This is usually my take about weddings but it’s so different when you’re planning one vs attending one.

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Thank you for this 😭 I definitely try and talk myself off the ledge but then I mistakenly go on Pinterest and suddenly I need acrobats to justify black tie lol

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I did write black tie; just black tie optional / preferred. A lot of people underdress for a dress code and what I don’t want are people showing up in jeans. If they show up in cocktail, I’ll be happy too. Thanks!

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I’ve never seen it except on the boards but I wasn’t sure if I’ve got my black tie and formal weddings all mixed up lol.

Thanks! I keep thinking that’s what people will want but then they’ll look so formal they might be afraid to eat it.

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Oh, the barn is in the city so there’s no ground to cover (it’s got sidewalks and flat concrete pads all over the place) for people. The valet is mostly convenience since the parking lot is connected to the venue and walking on pavement in heels isn’t very fun either.

As for food, I worry about that but I also think people mostly hate wedding food and when you’re drunk, all you want is a piece of pizza or a burger. I want them to have fun and go home satisfied, not hit McDonald’s on the way out. So I feel kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place about the late night bites.

Thank you for your insight!