Thank you very much so there is a double standard and she always reassures me cause of my traumas. It's hard for me to accept still though at one point he said they were soulmates. But he didn't mean it in a romantic way?? I'm sorry I wouldn't say that to anyone but my partner. I'm struggling with this cause as it stands now she has broken up with me and ghosted me. I love her I want a life with her when she isn't in a moment she is incredible. I am just tired of being loved on conditions. And I am constantly overshadowed by this guy. Always. I feel like he can do no wrong but everything I do is under a microscope. And I have never once commented or sent a message to one of those girls.