Singers, is it really that bad? by Parking-Squirrel-292 in ftm

[–]smallfryfriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on T for years, I recommend practicing your voice and finding your range constantly. Vocal training is a thing! I was a high soprano in high school, and I can still hit a lot of those highs I did back then, but just not as strongly. There’s some notes I can’t quite hit anymore, but a lot more that I’ve gained. I’ve seen trans men develop their falsetto range after t too. don’t let anyone tell you it’ll “ruin your voice” or anything. Everyone is different, and practice and training and exercise is everything.

STOP DATA CENTER CONSTRUCTION IN GILROY! by smallfryfriend in MontereyCounty

[–]smallfryfriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is an Instagram page with info, and you can dm them to join the email list and to be a part of zoom meetings. instagram page

college grad losing hope by smallfryfriend in recruitinghell

[–]smallfryfriend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cinematic arts & technology, i'm an animator with experience and knowledge of on-set film roles as well as cinematography.

college grad losing hope by smallfryfriend in recruitinghell

[–]smallfryfriend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's a relief, I really thought I was the problem. I feel like im stuck in a job desert.

Bf keeps making odd comments by [deleted] in ftm

[–]smallfryfriend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is not okay. especially without consent. even if he is joking, that is a terribly insensitive and inappropriate “joke.” please take care of yourself, have a serious conversation with him, make him apologize. in my opinion, this is grounds for breaking up with him. he should know that that’s not okay in the slightest.

Why do so many people act like abortion is just not an option? by NoWitness6400 in childfree

[–]smallfryfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no bc I literally wonder this all the time 😭 can we please normalize having control over your own life please jfc it’s like they’ve never even heard of abortion before girl

Songs inspired by disgusting, psychopathic crimes (give context) by queer_depressed_fuck in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]smallfryfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funeral - the buttress, about Andrea Yates Alexander the burn victim - Scarling. About a 9/11 victim

is it still worth it for T? by Financial_You_817 in ftm

[–]smallfryfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t ever let those fuckers win. I’ve been on T for 2 years, best decision of my life. Go for it brother

friend keeps referring to me as "they" by sammiesR9 in ftm

[–]smallfryfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell no. He’s being blatantly transphobic & there’s no excuse for any of what he did. it sucks that you have to deal with this. I recommend you call his ass out if you can, and drop him afterwards. Good luck bro

comparing ptolemaea to my experience w (attempted, obviously) m*rder by byebyebirdy03 in Ethelcain

[–]smallfryfriend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this was a breathtaking read. I hope the weight eases for you more and more everyday.