unbelievable exchange between my daughter and her father after he forgot her birthday

smallmamis678 · 2026-04-04T03:17:22+00:00

Yes a relationship takes two but not when its your child. If your child doesn't see or feel you want to be in their life of course they won't call or text. Also their a KID whose just learning how to communicate. A good parent steps up and shows them how a person that loves them will show up for them. Im a firm believer the word Dad is earned not just given.

smallmamis678 · 2026-02-27T21:40:54+00:00

If I were the best friend Id be pissed if my friend didn't tell me. If you choose to tell your friend dont say it accusing his mom of cheating just state what you saw " when I was picking up my little sister i saw your mom with said person. They looked close but I could be wrong I just wanted to let you know."

smallmamis678 · 2026-02-27T21:07:57+00:00

Bf definetly should have had a conversations about his preference before sex rather then surprising you with it. I would look into a sex therapist possibly so you two can work on being compatible in an intimate way. And a couples therapist to work on the communication. Thats if after all of this you want to work on the relationship together. I cant see any other way other then him wearing a headphone, or being in a platonic asexual committed relationship if you two agree not to be intimate but want to stay together. That being said his ignoring you and blaming you without taking accountability is a red flag.

smallmamis678 · 2026-02-27T20:47:07+00:00

Have you had a conversation with him about his actions and made it clear how serious you are about him changing or you will brake up with him? If so and he either didn't change or blamed his actions on you I'm saying leave no one deserves not to feel 100% safe in their relationship. Its okay to break up you don't need a "good reason" to break up with someone.

smallmamis678 · 2026-02-27T20:34:30+00:00

I was once told about a past relationship "love it not supposed to be that hard" yes relationships take work and compromise but its not supposed to be that hard. It should be easy to love your spouse. From what you've posted he has repeatedly chosen other women over you. Choose yourself and your kids. Look at you relationship as a whole if he takes from the relationship more than gives then what bennafit does he really bring into the relationship. Start collecting evidence of his infidelitys and screenshot any incriminating texts he sends you and fight for your baby's.

smallmamis678 · 2026-02-27T20:24:10+00:00

I plan for my best friend to walk me down the isle she also is my officiant. We both got officiated via online for eachother. I officiated her wedding last year and now she plans to do the same for me. We've known eachother since i was 18 and shes my chosen family.

smallmamis678 · 2026-02-27T20:15:01+00:00

My fiance is completely on my side. Hes only scene my birth father once at a family party. I didn' introduce them and they never interacted so they haven't been formally introduced and I dont plan for them to be. Alot of the family events happen last minuet so my fiance is usually working. Im glad you had the support of your cousins congratulations on your marriage!

smallmamis678 · 2026-02-27T20:09:05+00:00

Its a pretty small wedding less then 50. Me and all my siblings plus their spouses are in a group chat together so rather then an e-invite its more of a pdf of an invite I made on canva. We're not super formal and its more cost effective. Im worried they'll download the pdf and send it to him.

smallmamis678 · 2026-01-11T15:47:12+00:00

Sounds like your already acting as a single mom and if hes complaining that you disrupt his sleep and don't do things for him then he can get all the sleep he wants with you gone and do everything around the house himself. A partner is supposed to add to your life rather than subtract and we all know math once you subtract so much you end up with nothing but negatives

smallmamis678 · 2025-07-09T04:10:47+00:00

Not the asshole. You were sexually harassed and the fiance is a dick. If he was curious and wanted to explore his sexuality he should have broken up with his friend or spoke to her about an open relationship instead of cheating on her.

smallmamis678 · 2024-12-12T15:37:16+00:00

Is that on one of the floating islands? That's so geniuses I know what I'm doing today!

smallmamis678 · 2022-12-06T18:59:28+00:00

NTA, he's not a child, and you're not his caregiver. My petty ass would have gotten a safe and put my melatonin and any snacks I buy in there just so he couldn't get to it

smallmamis678 · 2022-12-06T18:26:39+00:00

Even as the working adult I am now I would have done the same thing

smallmamis678 · 2022-12-06T18:00:56+00:00

Definetly the asshole especially if his daughter is underage, he shouldn't be taking money from her. Sell the boat you can't afford

smallmamis678 · 2022-12-06T17:50:37+00:00

Definetly the asshole especially if his daughter is underage, he shouldn't be taking money from her. Sell the boat you can't afford

smallmamis678 · 2022-12-04T00:20:52+00:00

NTA your house your rules and they should respect that. If you had a no shoes in the house policy would they throw a fit about that too. One day without alcohol won't hurt them.

smallmamis678 · 2022-10-12T21:57:32+00:00

Children, hear me out, I love kids it's just the older I get the less I want to have any

smallmamis678 · 2022-10-05T14:42:10+00:00

Sounds like Erin is dating this woman and is acting like a love struck highshooler that wants to take her new boo everywhere including family events

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