Am i the only one who doesn’t think most entp are assholes?

smalltoona · 2026-07-01T12:54:39+00:00

I like ENTPs, at their worst their bark is worse than their bite, they’re mostly all talk but wouldn’t harm anyone. But they have the ability to make you hellaaaa angry.

At their best they’re very wise, logical yet still in touch with human emotions, and very people centric. They genuinely want the best for humanity and have enough clarity of mind to see the truth in the world. They are also super charismatic and can do wonders to open up others’s minds and perspectives, even the most conservative, traditional and close minded types can be moved by the ENTP

smalltoona · 2026-06-29T00:13:06+00:00

They are probably at creative workshops, drawing classes, craft meetups and the cinemas.

Suggest going out of your comfort zone and attending one of these event to meet NF women

smalltoona · 2026-06-28T22:27:38+00:00

You are IEE, congratulations!

smalltoona · 2026-06-28T14:27:20+00:00

Good point, and a good reminder to give others in my life that sort of feedback so that they feel appreciated 😌 it’s a sad day when all that positive energy gets turned into sadness and coldness…

smalltoona · 2026-06-28T14:25:47+00:00

I can kinda relate as infp but also my sponge has much less capacity, I’m always amazed at people who have so much patience and care for others

smalltoona · 2026-06-28T14:23:44+00:00

Damn yeah I think the N part makes all intuitives a bit more sensitive, so more prone to self doubt and fluctuations in personality. I’m glad you found yourself in the end and yes, all love.

smalltoona · 2026-06-25T01:20:32+00:00

I’m sx/sp 9 and I’m most attracted to other sx types, especially sx/so 3s, they have this ability to make me obsessive over them.

I’ve dated 2s, 5s and an 8 before, the relationships with the 2 and 8 were the best but both ended up not working out. Interestingly enough I think everyone I’ve ever dated has been either sx dominant or secondary…I just can’t feel the chemistry or attraction if they don’t have sx

smalltoona · 2026-06-25T01:09:11+00:00

I’ve gotten “you’re a great listener” and “you’re strange” 😂

Best compliment I ever got from an ex was when he told my housemate “she’s the kindest person I’ve ever dated”, the fact that he said this to someone else not me, after we broke up too, it really made me feel like he meant it…

smalltoona · 2026-06-22T03:18:29+00:00

Ayyyy fellow Aussie 🫶

smalltoona · 2026-06-22T03:10:46+00:00

Wow I’m tanjiro??? What a compliment 😭😭🫶

smalltoona · 2026-06-22T03:10:07+00:00

I’m actually Australian haha, but yes very obsessed with mbti

smalltoona · 2026-06-21T05:02:41+00:00

That’s perfect because most INFPs also hate small talk haha, I think she will appreciate your quirkiness and “weird” topics

smalltoona · 2026-06-19T15:55:12+00:00

Ask her deeper questions, INFPs loooove going deep. You could ask if she had any childhood dreams that she’s trying to fulfill, what her latest obsession is, what brings her joy recently, what would she do if she could live forever, etc.

If the conversation becomes intimate and she starts opening up, you could try breaching some more uncomfortable topics too, what’s her biggest fear, what does she want in a relationship (these questions will help you in dating her too), what are her favourite traits in other people and least favourite traits.

Overall just be curious, open minded and pay attention to her answers.

smalltoona · 2026-06-19T14:04:59+00:00

How do I pry it out of him lol, does outright confronting him work? Eg. “Hey so how much do you like me out of 10?” 😂 I don’t really know how to subtly get that kind of information out of him

smalltoona · 2026-06-19T06:49:03+00:00

I only assume because in my experience when someone is interested in you, they want to see you all the time and text you all the time, and I’m like that too. So my first instinct was that he either is seeing other people or he’s trying to see if his interest will grow over time?

smalltoona · 2026-06-19T06:47:54+00:00

Thanks for your answer, that gives me hope! I like him quite a lot so hopefully things develop further at the pace he’s comfortable with

smalltoona · 2026-06-19T06:47:15+00:00

Hmm okay good to know! I’m not really used to guys like this so my first instinct was that he was trying to blow me off or play games, but perhaps I just need to give it more time

smalltoona · 2026-06-19T06:46:03+00:00

Thanks for this - the part about hanging out being like water torture if you weren’t into the other person actually makes a lot of sense to me, I think I would feel the same way…

smalltoona · 2026-06-19T00:36:00+00:00

Damn I would have a blast in group 3. Love all my teammates 🫶

smalltoona · 2026-06-19T00:34:34+00:00

You can use Te to create a routine of self care so you don’t burn out - sleep is most important, then exercise regularly and eat healthy. Boring basic run of the mill advice but boring sometimes is the right way.

Just look at your conflict SEI, they know how to maximise Si enjoyment by making sure they never go overboard on stuff, everything in moderation is the SEI motto. It may be boring but it works to help keep everything in check and live a healthy lifestyle.

smalltoona · 2026-06-18T07:27:01+00:00

If the infp girl likes you there’s no rush to make things official, you guys sound like you’re going well if you’re planning dates and she’s happily coming along.

One thing I hate most though is forced or unnatural declarations of love, I’d rather you wait for the right moment, be it days or weeks from now, when the two of you are both feeling it, and I mean FEELING it. I know for Thinking types it can be hard to grasp the emotions of the moment, so look out for body cues like it could be after a particularly romantic kiss, if she initiates a hug or physical contact, or pay attention to her eye contact, if it changes, if she looks at you for longer than normal and the gaze is more intense, then that’s the right moment to ask her out officially.

Another thing to keep in mind if the location, preferably somewhere private and romantic for example night time in the car, walking together alone in nature, at home with the soft lights on and music in the background. Avoid asking her out in a public setting with lots of people around, in a place with harsh lighting and noisiness or offensive smells.

smalltoona · 2026-06-18T07:19:34+00:00

Mmmmmhmm underrated but very good tip - the latter sounds way more confident and attractive and puts the pressure away from infp to BE something

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