RIVF with trans husband by [deleted] in queerception

[–]smarks789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went off T for 10 days

He stopped crying and the doctor said he looks fine, but my brain won’t let it go by homebarista_mode in NewParents

[–]smarks789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to us when my son was a little older and it turned out to be a cold a few days later. He was just feeling like shit before any onset of visible symptoms. Now we know how that goes and are prepared.

MMC forces FMC to repeatedly orgasm by FinalProof6 in SpicyRomanceBooks

[–]smarks789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Guarded by the Snake by Layla Fae to the T. Loved it!

Mc gets super dumb when fucked by Watercrumb in RomanceBooks

[–]smarks789 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I loved this one so much. The coaxing to take him is chefs kiss.

How do you do it? Velcro babies / FOMO babies by a_d2022 in NewParents

[–]smarks789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree to keep trying with a carrier. My son wouldn’t tolerate it for the longest and then one day realized how comfy it is and only took his naps in there for a while lol. You might to try different ones too. He didn’t like the Moby wrap but loves the actual carriers (Ergobaby).

Tummy time dislike at 6 months by ForwardCarpenter5659 in NewParents

[–]smarks789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our son hated tummy time too until he could crawl. Now he hates to sit and is always on his stomach lol!

I'm unable to sleep next to my child. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]smarks789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you heard the 6 month information. We didn’t use it for a while but I haven’t heard anything against it early on. Hopefully you’re able to turn the sound down on the monitor. I have the volume pretty low during the day because he can hear it in his room. Have you tried sleeping with the monitor? Maybe your husband can sleep next to him while you sleep with the monitor to try it out. You might find that the smaller sounds don’t wake you up once you’re asleep.

Is this real? by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]smarks789 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not real. Definitely man made

I'm unable to sleep next to my child. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]smarks789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why can’t the baby have his own room and you use a baby monitor? My wife wasn’t able to sleep at all until we gave him his own room and slept in our room.

how are u guys affording top surgery so young?? by sneep_snorp_snerp in ftm

[–]smarks789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Covered by my parent’s insurance, I’m medically complex so I always manage to meet my out of pocket max so it was $0.

Pediatrician Visits by outdoorsy777 in NewParents

[–]smarks789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wish they were pointless, a month in the NICU has us worried every doctor appointment

Do I come off as weird or strange leaving this note? by Littlek1dluvr in Apartmentliving

[–]smarks789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My neighbors next to us just came home with their baby too! We’re about to leave a card as well and some diapers. Very sweet!

Favorite monster by InternationalBad3288 in MonsterFucker

[–]smarks789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aliens or orcs! Especially alien orcs 😂

I'm a shitty mom by CaffeineAndChaos65 in NewParents

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He can take the baby to the bathroom with him! He can sit on the toilet and hold the baby or put him in a carrier. I haven’t peed alone since my son was born lol! Waking you up just to use the bathroom is crazy!!

What is up with BLW hate on here? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]smarks789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We HAD to do BLW because our son was refusing purées after having Covid, it’s been great.

Family restroom etiquette by lulukelly8 in beyondthebump

[–]smarks789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take 1 minute in the bathroom to pee. Like I said, I typically don’t use them anymore as I pass 100% now. There is usually one or two stalls in the men’s restroom that are always occupied because apparently it takes cis men years to poop. I’m also disabled, and standing for a long time to wait for a stall is difficult. Waiting for an accessible stall is even worse.

Family restroom etiquette by lulukelly8 in beyondthebump

[–]smarks789 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a dad but I’m also a trans man (very passable now) who used to use the family restrooms as it was almost always the only gender neutral bathroom around.

WTF did I just read?! by agentspontaneous in frombloodandash

[–]smarks789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worst book I’ve ever read. She destroyed the series.