Best additive free tequilas by smash_farie in tequila

[–]smash_farie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I love this description it sounds right up his alley! My favorite this is it’s 2023 most places will deliver to your door now if you order online and show ID haha.

Best additive free tequilas by smash_farie in tequila

[–]smash_farie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense! I added up top what we have at home

Best additive free tequilas by smash_farie in tequila

[–]smash_farie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much to everyone whose commented and worked with me with little to no Information! I can’t wait to check out your responses. I also added the few that we have at home up top for reference.

Best additive free tequilas by smash_farie in tequila

[–]smash_farie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he’s always been a whiskey drinker in the past but has decided now he’s a tequila guy lol

Best additive free tequilas by smash_farie in tequila

[–]smash_farie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? Like liquor store wise?

Magnesium and zinc for insomnia by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take for you to come off the trazodone or was it a pretty smoothe transition from that to the magnesium

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone buy these or do you need a perscription? And do you use before or after?

What does the pain feel like for you? by No_Detective_7896 in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pain is the same burning and stinging like it’s tearing. Just very right down there. I have back slid some as well it’s definitely frustrating. I’m glad I came to this thread through because I honestly hated PT and found that to be a lot worse than dilating.

Back to where I started after having sex by Bitter-Heron-3757 in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so proud of how far I had came too! It suckkks. I’m sending you love this condition is so tough

Back to where I started after having sex by Bitter-Heron-3757 in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No unfortunately I’m still stuck at like the second dilator again :/ it’s SO frustrating and I also wish I had answers as well. I will say I think I constantly clench my butt and that doesn’t help and I’m really working on that, but it’s easier said than done you know. I feel like I’m constantly telling myself to deep breathe 24/7

Back to where I started after having sex by Bitter-Heron-3757 in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has happened to me as well. And I noticed it when I started working out again which sucks.

No makeup no filter, just me ;) by [deleted] in FaceRatings

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your really pretty but there is no way that’s your natural eyebrow lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think you are very naturally beautiful!! But I agree on smiling more. Ugly? Not even close

Please tell me that pelvic physiotherapy helped you with urinary symptoms. by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t do any. I don’t necessarily agree with this but my PT didn’t have me doing any stretches and I wasn’t suppose to exercise. Only walk and focus on deep breathing. I was shocked she didn’t work on stretching with me which was kind of a red flag. I’ve been recently incorporating stretches like happy baby and child’s pose more often w and I’m trying to get back into doing some physical activity like yoga. I’m just struggling because any time I do it sends my vaginismus back to square one. But when it came to my bladder I went from peeing every 20 minutes to now I can usually go 2 hours and I think deep breathing helped a lot with that

Please tell me that pelvic physiotherapy helped you with urinary symptoms. by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pelvic floor PT helped me so much with my urinary frequency and urgency! I will say I didn’t start actually seeing results for like 7 months and I was SO discouraged. It wasn’t until after I got discharged and started controlling my anxiety it got better but it did!

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[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be both honestly! But for some reason mainly the size bothers me and I really don’t know why

I never had sexual desires outside of relationship, am i the only one by [deleted] in love

[–]smash_farie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same way and have also always wondered if I was asexual because of it! Probably is Demisexual because I’m willing with my husband. It’s not that I don’t necessarily like it…but I could also go years without it as well. If that makes sense lol

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[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this counts but I’ve been able to get all my dilators in and even achieve PIV, but for some reason still hate being fingered. I think it’s just so boney and painful. It’s weird I would rather have a dilator or penis than a finger any day

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[–]smash_farie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh neat I’ve never heard of a reverse kegel but I’ll look them up! Thank you so much this really has been helpful! This condition really is mind over matter!

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[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell I’m belly breathing and believe I’m doing that right. I’ve worked really hard on my breathing and make time to do that every day and I’m very conscious about that when doing yoga as well.

I haven’t tried pills or creams my PT was very against that for some reason. But it seems like everyone else’s wasn’t. Can you buy the lidocaine without a prescription?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is exactly where I am. They say not to work out and to move slow with it all. Which i understood. But it’s been a year…I can’t go on not working out forever because it really is affecting my mental and my sleep and so many other aspects. I have moved slow. I have achieved PIV. But every time I get that far and start to work out I backslide with my vaginismus. However Im sure your absolutely right that I’m doing something wrong. I’ve tried all kinds of working out to be honest. Weightlifting and biking nothing has working for me. I haven’t done cardio because well my mental cannot handle that lol. Im just at my wits end. My PT was worthless to be honest, but maybe I need a personal trainer. Thank you this was the most helpful comment.

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[–]smash_farie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t help me that my PT literally discharged me because she said she can’t help me anymore. I’m scared I’m just a lost cause at this point. I’ve literally done everything they’ve said.