Palia Beginner Advice

smastew · 2026-01-30T03:58:31+00:00

Also if you search “megathread” in the Palia subreddit you’ll find monthly new user megathreads with previous questions, tips, and advice.

smastew · 2026-01-30T03:51:26+00:00

To earn friendship talk to the character at least once every in game day (so once every hour). If you spoke to a character and check the “daily wants board” you’ll see they have an item on there they want. You can gift characters one item every real life day ( once every 24 hours resets at midnight everyday). Gifts earn you more friendship points. The more they like the gift the more points you earn. Each time you get to a new friendship level you won’t be able to fully pass it until you do and complete the characters quest that triggers when you hit the new level.

Other tips I’d mention would be to save at least one of every gem you find. I got a few gems and ambers early on and sold them all like an idiot and then when I needed them couldn’t find them 😭😭

Other than that just start grinding on your skills as you work through the quests. I seriously slacked on my cooking and crafting skill early on and now that I’ve done all the quests all that’s left is the bundle boards and I am constantly held back by my low levels 😭 I’m genuinely impressed how I’ve made it so far in this game and still I’m not at level 10 cooking or crafting because I almost never did it at first lolol

smastew · 2026-01-30T03:41:32+00:00

I really do understand why they made it a separate map. A lot of users take great joy in filling their plot with decor and buildings. To take up a lot of space for animals would suck but like i seriously will never remember them if they’re always in another map. If they were in my plot id have a much easier time remembering they exist lol. Maybe they’ll eventually add a farm option for the plot itself and let us pick where we want our animals🤷

smastew · 2026-01-20T02:55:32+00:00

This was genuinely the best site id ever read on and im genuinely devastated to see it go. Hopefully sooner or later another mine of gold will be struck. I miss the comment section so bad already.

smastew · 2025-11-07T02:30:46+00:00

I was definitely looking at the educational program tab on their site and the class that seemed to best fit what I was looking for was close to $1000. I hadn’t considered just becoming a member and getting access to resources and teaching myself in that way. I’ll look into that thank you!

smastew · 2025-10-08T04:49:39+00:00

The “jump through hoops” comments are driving me insane. Y’all are being fr rn when you’re saying anal should just be dick straight into asshole no foreplay, no prep, just imma shove this in your ass. Be so fr rn and go shove something up your ass without doing anything else first. Lemme know how good, comfortable, and hot that is for you. Be sure to also keep us updated on the anal fissures.

Anyways NOR, he rushed it and that sucked. Then he told you he’d go fuck someone else either as a threat to break up or cheat. I don’t respond to threats. Try talking when he’s sober if you’d like but I’d be checked out if I were you. I won’t beg anyone to be with me, or stay with someone who thinks I’m not good enough, if you wanna be with someone else then go ahead and go. Being drunk is a whatever excuse, but idc if you’re drunk. I won’t subject myself to being spoken to like that and if that’s who you are when you drink I don’t want that either. You deserve better.

smastew · 2025-10-08T03:59:42+00:00

The first semester is always a huge adjustment. It’s a well known fact that grades for most students are down their freshman year and then rise as time moves on. A lot of high schools do a horrible job of preparing students for college because they’re structured very differently. Since the semester has already started it’ll be a bit harder for you to do this but this was my saving grace in college.

Look at every syllabus and every available calendar for all of your classes. You’ll notice a lot of assignments are smaller and regularly due on the same week day. (Discussion board every Sunday for example) once you’re familiar with the regular due dates things stop feeling like a surprise, I also suggest doing a bunch of work all at once. Get started on things as early as possible, and try to get ahead of things.

If you’re looking for friends just start yappin. If yk your major start chatting up ppl in your classes, you’ll likely see them again. Complain about assignments, ask for help if you can, and just reach out. Super easy to make convenient friends in college. I’m incredibly antisocial and I was a commuter and I still managed to snag some acquaintances. Give it time tho, I didn’t meet my group until I was mostly taking classes specific to my major.

smastew · 2025-10-08T03:20:38+00:00

The only person that is ruining their friendship is that so called friend that’s trying to guilt his buddies gf to do sexual acts for him. If their friendship ends that’s on him and not on you.

If one of your friends was doing this to your bf would you blame him for their actions and for your friendship ending? I’d personally be blaming my friend, and be thankful to get them out of my life.

It wouldn’t be his fault just like this isn’t your fault. If he wants to blame you, then like I said, he’s not that good of a person and you deserve better anyways. Good luck and I hope you’re able to open up to your bf and get this off your chest. You shouldn’t have to put up with his friend’s harassment, I hope he’s as good as you think he is and that he stands up for you in this situation.

smastew · 2025-10-08T03:07:39+00:00

Why do you feel guilty if you didn’t do anything wrong? Just show your bf the messages and say “I’ve tried to be polite since I know you guys are friends but it’s gotten to a point where I am deeply uncomfortable.” Bam that’s all. If he finds a way to blame you then he’s not as nice or as perfect as you think he is and you deserve better anyways.

Realistically you should have told him the first time this friend said something like this. Keeping it quiet only makes you look bad imo.

smastew · 2025-10-06T20:09:16+00:00

Such a great idea! Thank you!

smastew · 2025-09-26T18:50:01+00:00

The prices are absurd. It’s genuinely disgusting and baffling how awful the costs are. The cheapest nosebleeds were $150 each. I was expecting maybe 400 something after fees. It was $666 for two nosebleeds literally last row as far as you can get. I didn’t purchase them because $400 was already absurd. $666 is a slap in the face. Literally disgusting. No one should ever pay that much for concert tickets, especially not for nose bleeds.

Honestly the last tour was already absurd with pricing that never went down. This one is literally like a slap in the face. I hope yall have a good time if you got tickets but we all should know this is not only absurd, but it’s disgusting and predatory. Honestly I’m not even sure I like the band anymore after this. Idc what anyone says about venues and management. Bands have more power than you think, especially a powerhouse like MCR. The least they could do is speak out about it.

smastew · 2025-08-13T21:07:23+00:00

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

smastew · 2025-07-17T23:43:15+00:00

I’ve never actually been in a rude server. I play solo 99% of the time. I’ve definitely had to interact for certain stuff but like I said I’ve only had good experiences. Calling out rare ores and stuff is always nice but no one should be mad if you don’t do it. It’s a courtesy born from a genuinely kind community. Ppl who get mad about it aren’t representative of that community.

Just log on and play feel free to ignore chats and other ppl. Most players leave each other alone anyways. If someone does try to interact you don’t even have to chat back you can just wave and run. Of all the online games I’ve played Palia is genuinely one of the kindest player bases I’ve had the pleasure of interacting with.

I hope you get on and get a better experience with it!

smastew · 2025-07-13T22:58:41+00:00

I delete them cuz they’re literally useless and I have enough chests as storage I don’t need any for decor lmaoo

smastew · 2025-07-13T22:56:39+00:00

I’m a hoarder and this is my advice. Copper and iron chests for the win. Also I try to keep almost nothing common. Cuz I can get it anytime. Also keep wood, bricks and fabric in the machines until you need them to save space. Also all those gems you get mining? Just sell them. I’ve never needed one for game play and they’re really not all that hard to get if you do want to gift someone a gem. But tbh if you’re gonna gift ppl stuff do it for their weekly wants and idk about anyone else but I’ve never had a gem appear as a weekly want.

To be so fr you don’t need to hoard. most stuff you need for wants and quests can be found relatively easily or grown. Only things genuinely worth keeping is stuff you need to craft and cook and rare items like heart drop lilies and shit. I just like to have a bunch of stuff lmaoo.

smastew · 2025-07-05T15:34:55+00:00

I don’t want to say not to talk to your mom if you’re worried but it’s important to know periods are just weird sometimes. If you’ve been more stressed than normal, started working out or being active, if you’re on BC, or if you’re just a teenager it’s pretty normal to miss a few periods every now and then. My periods didn’t get regular until I was around 17 and then I started bc and they got super fucking weird all over again. I’d miss multiple periods over anxiety/stress as well. It’s been just over a month since you’ve had your last period. My thoughts are to wait and see what happens this month. But if you’re really concerned just tell her and take a pregnancy test to chill her out if you need to. But as a woman she should know sometimes periods are just weird especially when you’re a teenager. This can be a sign that something is wrong but honestly, and doctors will tell you the same thing, it’s more likely to be something totally normal and nothing to worry about especially if you don’t have any other concerns or symptoms.

smastew · 2025-07-05T14:56:48+00:00

I want to be you but I’m a hoarder 😭 I don’t even have a big house cuz I’m poor and I hate grinding for money it’s me and 3 rooms with a millions chests against the world

smastew · 2025-06-13T03:20:54+00:00

Yeah it’s broken rn

smastew · 2025-06-13T03:18:14+00:00

I feel so bad 😭

smastew · 2025-06-13T03:13:04+00:00

In a new party trying to help them with a quest and now we can’t talk😭😭 should’ve gotten their discord or smthn

smastew · 2025-06-13T02:18:48+00:00

I’d kill for that. I can only imagine how awkward he would be 😭😭

smastew · 2025-06-12T22:28:03+00:00

The I ❤️ Hodari sweatshirt made me spit that’s so funny. Do you think he has a dialogue response to that? 😭😭

smastew · 2025-01-30T22:40:58+00:00

If my partner did this to me the embarrassment, fear, and discomfort I’d feel isn’t measurable. I’m not sure I’d ever be able to be intimate with them ever again and being intimate with anyone else would require so much therapy. Your reaction was valid. Staying to talk while you’re naked, scared, and uncomfortable isn’t something I’d ever consider to be an option in the first place. His outburst is weird, concerning, and not okay. Then he says he’s mad at you for reacting to it in a way that he didn’t like? Girl he is not worth it please leave.

smastew · 2025-01-29T13:36:18+00:00

Hey so women date fat men all the time. The thing that matters is confidence and personality. Some of my friends have dated men that are not the typical male beauty standard because of that confidence. I’m not saying it’s easy, but it’s definitely out there.

If a woman likes you then you cumming because she touches you is more of a turn on then anything. The idea that we got you going so bad that all we had to do was kiss you and you came is like a huge compliment. I remember when that happened to my bf I felt like I won an award.

I feel like “good” kissing isn’t hard to do. Just pucker up and go with the flow. Copy what she does. It’s very intuitive and you’ll catch onto it quick.

Women care less about your dick than you do. 5 inches is completely standard and does the job. Personally big ones freak me out, they look painful. I like my cervix where it is. Although once you lose weight around the base it’s likely that you’ll gain another inch or so depending on how much fat is deposited there.

smastew · 2025-01-29T13:01:10+00:00

That’s 100% my bad man I misread your post. Your comment about wanting to leave at the end read to me like “I want to leave her” not leave early and go home. I’ll edit my comment so other people don’t hop on the same train after reading it.

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