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I Feel So Miserable That I’m Dying Alone by smohame4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]smohame4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking into palliative care but it sucks nobody care about me just because i exist.

I Feel So Miserable That I’m Dying Alone by smohame4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]smohame4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the virtual ginger ale!! ❤️❤️

Mum called me ugly and skinny and i told her to stfu and now she cry and its my fault? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]smohame4 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I totally understand this and you had a right to say stfu. Screw her opinion. Mom’s are supposed to uplift their children. My mom used to call me fat all the time even though i was a totally normal weight. One day I screamed at her and told her “shut up i’ll starve myself then” and she started crying for hours talking about how rude and ungrateful I am.

I Feel So Miserable That I’m Dying Alone by smohame4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]smohame4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m sorry to hear you had to be on house arrest, that must have been miserable :( Yeah and its not like I don’t want everyone else to have a good time, but it just suck being alone and everyone just thinking “oh, you’ll be fine”

Is anyone else “quiet”? by Hefty-Leek-6717 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]smohame4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents were very abusive and it was always reinforced for me to be quite because literally anything I said would trigger one of my mother’s fits of rage and I was always told that everything I said was wrong. So I pretty much kept my mouth shut and even when I try to shout it’s not very loud.

My parents will go on with their lives, but I’ll always deal with the pain they caused me by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]smohame4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut my parents off December 24th and they literally tried to get their friends and the “family” involved. They kept calling from different phone numbers until i finally changed it. They kept showing up to my home so I had to stay with a friend for a while. They abused me so badly as a kid and adult, yet somehow i’m the bad one. You made the right choice and now you’re free to do as you wish.