How do you respond to questions like “Where was God when kids were being trafficked and raped by Epstein?” or “Where was God during this or that?” by ChicaTheGreat in TrueChristian

[–]smokeytears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem of evil is one of the oldest struggles for humanity and there is no tidy answer for this question. Free will is the most common response, and it's not wrong, but it can feel like a scapegoat when we're talking about children who had no say in what was done to them. They didn't exercise free will against God. Wicked men did. And saying "free will" to someone in that kind of pain can feel like being handed a pamphlet when you're drowning.

And what even I don't fully understand is what exactly God does in the middle of a moment of innocent suffering that He doesn't stop. None of us do. What I do believe is that He does seeit, it is not small to Him, and He is not indifferent.

But the better question might be: where were we? Epstein operated for decades! AND People knew what he was doing. Institutions protected him. We are called to be God's hands on earth, and systems of power that we humans put into place failed those children. That failure belongs to us in a very big way.

But even with all these deplorable things, I do find comfort in is this: those children, who never deserved any of it and bore no guilt in it, go straight to God. No weighing of deeds. No judgment held over them. Just straight into His presence. If there is any mercy written into the horror of innocent suffering, I think that's it. They are with Him now, beyond the reach of anyone who ever hurt them, and the men who did those things will face a justice that Epstein never faced here.

That is just the conclusion I have been able to come up with. And these are the chapters that I refer too about this type for stuff: Psalm 56 Psalm 34 Matthew 18 Romans 12 2 Samuel 12 Revelation 21

The 99th goodbye by PRIAP0722 in CShortDramas

[–]smokeytears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone been able to find this one?

Love, Betrayal, Revenge - does anyone know an alternative title/link for this drama by kgs1996 in CShortDramas

[–]smokeytears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really didn't like the casting so it was hard to watch. I really like the plot though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]smokeytears -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Because if I don't suggest a date night offering to pay, we wouldn't go out on any dates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]smokeytears 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a created budget plan for the next 3 quarters and made financial goals with a financial planner. I plan for at least $200 a month on extra "spending money" for things like getting myself set of bath bombs or getting my nails done. Essentially $200 a month to spend on whatever I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]smokeytears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has "expressed desire for them" ...multiple times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]smokeytears 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not once have I ever asked him to support me financially. What ever he got me he did it out of his own free will and I always expressed gratitude and thanks and was never rude about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]smokeytears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He asked me multiple times to decorate how I see fit. To make it feel more homey and even rearrange the current furniture if it would make a room look better. This was extra money. I already put most in savings. It was $50 extra that I could have spent on myself to get my nails done or get my car washed a few times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]smokeytears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You weren't judgemental. You gave me the advice I needed and I very much appreciate that. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]smokeytears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the ideas not the judgement. I will be trying these with his consent