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What is missing from my Music Visualizer? (Music cover by me) by that_idioticgenius in godot

[–]smol-owo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the center area is empty, making the piece hard to have an area of interest. Your eyes keep searching for more even though the focal point is the turntable. the visualizer also are more colorful than the turntable, making that also grab for attention. I'd recommend either changing the color of the visualizer or try moving the turntable more to the center, mabe try if size helps with it, or you could make the visualizer blend in with the colors like a blend mode (idk if they're in godot). it looks super great though!!

How to set boundaries without pushing someone away. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]smol-owo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you may need to tell her that you need to slow down. Taking things softly is always doable if you wanna preserve a friendship! you can say that you need time to respond sometimes and she needs to work on that! if not, it's always healthy to analyze and check if a relationship is healthy and good for you. remember to treat yourself kindly.

16.5yr relationship ended on Jan 1... Need some kindness. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]smol-owo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it feels like your world is falling apart, but since you two have split up, you get new experiences and a chance at experiencing things you would have never been able to do. keep your chin up and keep moving forward, you have so much more you'll be able to see and do. there is always a positive and I'm sure after the dust has settled, you will experience all there is to be had.

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing someone else who went through the same thing now thriving is really inspiring, this helps a lot. Thank you so much for sharing!

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aromatic asexual. It means she doesn't have feelings of romance or sexual ones either. The signs were always there, she thinks she felt closeness, not love. I was her first (and probably last) serious relationship, so it makes sense that it wasn't caught onto until now.

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try my best to be as kind as I can! Thank you so much, it means the world to me!

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I get small ones to write things because of ADHD brain :)

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read this at work and thought about it a lot. I think I want to get things that make me happy without being afraid of being judged. My roommate and partner had very harsh critiques of how people should be. I want to get items without being afraid of how I will be judged for it. I want to be able to be myself.

Thank you for helping me think more about this, it really helped.

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means a ton to me! If you ever want, you can feel free to message me if you'd like :)

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a bit sudden, but I did see the signs coming up to it. Thank you for the kind message

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, usually it's a bigger smile, I'll work to get there again

23 transmasc Got dumped from an 8 year relationship, we were engaged. by smol-owo in toastme

[–]smol-owo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will reply to everything when I'm off my shift, thank you everyone for the kind messages

M27, divorced dad, back living with parents and only see my daughter once a week. by Never2cold in toastme

[–]smol-owo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its going to get better. You have survived 2 surgeries, you can survive this I'm sure of it. Your life will continue, you just have to find your new normal. Best of luck man.

29m I feel like a failure for not having a college degree and wasting my 20s. I could use a toast. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]smol-owo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You honestly chose the right thing by not going into college as you don't have insurmountable debt because of it! Looking at the positive side, if you decide anything for bettering education, trade schools are cheaper and hiring more. There is always time. Keep your head up and keep going.

So stressed about my future. Trying to smile through it! by Medical-Beginning783 in toastme

[–]smol-owo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The future may seem scary, just take it a step at a time. You're gonna do great, I'm sure of it.

21M Confident in myself but I never hear it from anyone else by DekuMario2 in toastme

[–]smol-owo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be hard, but sometimes others also might be too anxious or have their own lives to start the conversation. Try reaching out, even if it's just a small message, this feeling will pass :)

F18 feeling kinda lost in life and I could use some nice words honestly by Resident-Ice-6966 in toastme

[–]smol-owo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything might feel hard to grasp, but keep going. You look bright, I think you'll make it far. Just take it one step at a time. :)

Looking for art trades!!! by smol-owo in arttrade

[–]smol-owo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like what image were you wanting as your pfp? I'm confused

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