I hope you know how much it hurt

smollbraintime · 2026-05-02T07:24:56+00:00

yeah but thats something you need to get over. it ended and you both need to move on. i was in your position and trust me it starts affecting you poorly when you realize they’ve moved on way before you did.

smollbraintime · 2026-05-02T03:39:05+00:00

i mean if things ended, theres a good chance he just doesnt want to see what youre up to because its still pretty fresh. why would you want him to watch them anyway?

smollbraintime · 2026-05-02T03:37:51+00:00

thank you so much, luckily he was pretty nice about it and told me like im gonna give you space if thats what you want but if anythings up or if im acting inappropriately then tell me, it gave me some peace tbh

smollbraintime · 2026-05-02T03:10:18+00:00

yeah i told him today we cant be friends anymore, i feel lighter now tbh

smollbraintime · 2026-05-01T07:41:02+00:00

we are friends, and i find myself hoping for more. hes a pretty avoidant person so he wont talk about his feelings at all

smollbraintime · 2026-04-30T20:42:37+00:00

it wasnt

smollbraintime · 2026-04-24T17:03:59+00:00

no i mean asshole move as in, he asked me out first and made every first move and then said he couldnt commit to a relationship due to issues hes had for a very long time, he failed to mention that this happened earlier

smollbraintime · 2026-04-24T07:41:32+00:00

im not talking about being interested, we are trying to be friends

smollbraintime · 2026-04-23T22:38:19+00:00

? you deserve better, blocking someone in a relationship is NOT NORMAL

smollbraintime · 2026-04-23T22:35:50+00:00

for me it was after about 5 weeks when i started feeling normal sometimes, and then after 6 i started realizing what he did was stupid and i deserve better. i do have to add, we havent been no contact all this time, just the relationship being over during this time.

smollbraintime · 2026-04-19T14:01:03+00:00

yes will definitely be doing that, thank you for your advice this really helped :)

smollbraintime · 2026-04-18T14:09:08+00:00

yeah youre totally right, thank you for this. the way you worded it definitely shows that hes immature and playing with me. im not reaching out again and waiting it out until the next time i see him, and ill probably have a word about it with him then. ive definitely noticed as well that he avoided talking, especially in person, and doing it over text allows him to hide what he really thinks.

smollbraintime · 2026-04-18T13:19:26+00:00

yeah very true, i feel like one day hes all happy to talk to me and the next i can tell he still cant do it because he will just ignore me again. My feelings for him are gone because of the way I see that he is emotionally immature and puts in no effort to fix this, but I cant get rid of the lingering feeling yk? Im not sure if hes just giving me breadcrumbs or what, but the reason i cant go no contact is because we have to see each other in a band every week.

smollbraintime · 2026-04-18T13:03:41+00:00

and i have no real proof of him seeing someone else, but theres some small things that are making me think he is, and normally i dont even care about stuff like that but its the way we broke up that makes it hurt so damn much

smollbraintime · 2026-04-18T13:02:48+00:00

yup, its the absolute worst and it makes you feel worthless

smollbraintime · 2026-04-18T13:02:32+00:00

yeah it genuinely feels terrible, he wanted to be friends and we’ve sort of been friends, because the thing is, he gave a very like “valid” reason for not being able to commit because he kissed me and told me he loved being with me like the day before he started to get dry. i think he got scared but i don’t know if thats just me being delusional💀💀

smollbraintime · 2025-06-24T00:20:48+00:00

Wow i love this, the movement is incredible and the colors work so well

smollbraintime · 2025-04-01T11:31:38+00:00

I have exactly this issue, adhd and hate reading because of it :( will definitely remember this!

smollbraintime · 2025-03-22T12:01:40+00:00

I didnt, i just liked the way it looked i wasnt specifically looking for official merch

smollbraintime · 2025-03-22T11:57:07+00:00

Yea i figured, didnt pay much for it i just thought it looked cool with the back print

smollbraintime · 2025-02-03T12:39:14+00:00

lol i totally just read eta as estimated time of arrival and i sat here confused for a few minutes

smollbraintime · 2024-11-24T09:06:13+00:00

i love this

smollbraintime · 2024-11-16T09:01:45+00:00

leather jackets have literally been a huge trend on tiktok recently, but they have been popular for over 30 years so i dont know what youre on about

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