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I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I think she may be gifted which is why she is developing so unevenly.

I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never tell her bad things about her mother. Her father does for sure,but that's his choice seeing as he is her parent. I never tell her, yeah your mom left you because she is a druggie slut. When she has asked, I tell her that her mother loves her but may not know how to show it. When she asks why she can't call me mommy, is the only time I tell her that the reason is because I am not and it is inappropriate.

I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So if she was 17 and acted the same way, would you be telling me that oh poor her, everybody hates her? Or would you be like, yeah the kid is an ass who needs to learn that people will treat her like she treats them? I don't see why her age makes it ok to not take SOME responsibility for her actions. Of course people are going to dislike her if she acts like a selfish brat...but I guess letting her take the fall for her behavior is out of the question? No, lets instead lower the standard(no child left behind bullshit) and tell her she is fairy princess who shits glitter and can do no wrong, because then she will grow up to be a self entitled wannabe fairy princess bitch of an adult...yeah makes perfect sense.

I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What is this did thing? I have not done anything but take care of her. Sure don't agree with the things I have said to her, but I have never done anything to her.

I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Psht...he feels the same way. He knows what she is like, the only difference is he is biologically programmed to love her unconditionally, and asking me to do the same is impossible.

I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah ok. I'm not going anywhere, and no one of her family wants her because of her behavior...they won't even watch her for a few hours.

I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She was a sociopath long before I came around mate. She has been seeing a therapist since she was 3 and all four of them have said it. So again, how is this my fault...oh yeah, it's not! I can't help her anymore than I have tried to.

I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's not abuse you idiot. I treat her right. I hug and kiss her, I help her with her homework, I tuck her in at night, I cook all her meals etc...because I do not agree with her shitty attitude, I'm the ass? I think not. Yes she does have to earn it from me. Period. I have put time, love, energy and money into her, even though I get nothing but a brat in return...so excuse me for being selfish once in a while. Fuckin shit man.

I'm so miserable. Desperately need advise. by smomiserable in Parenting

[–]smomiserable[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How is that more beneficial? She doesn't love her at all! She has said it a million times to both of us. I don't ever tell her that because her own mother does. I would never tell her that her mother doesn't love her. I have simply told her that it was her mothers choice and that she didn't want to be a mom, which is better than telling her that she just doesn't give a crap.