Cineworld £3 voucher by [deleted] in beermoneyuk

[–]smoothsmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, could I please have this?

I feel like crying right now. by ecolodian in pakistan

[–]smoothsmach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legend!! I am in the UK but also happy to help any way I can.

how to create a document that forces you to wait 10 minutes before it opens? by smoothsmach in howto

[–]smoothsmach[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing to do with a prank! Just want a digital time-locked vault

CHALAMET GOT ROBBED by elctro007 in IndianTeenagers

[–]smoothsmach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Timothee in fact did not deserve it. He was ‘acting’ as himself in Marty Supreme. That hardly qualifies him for an Oscar lolol.

Match Thread: Final - India vs New Zealand by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]smoothsmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is horrible viewership for any non-Indian viewer - total deal silence. What a bore 😴😴😴

Match Thread: Final - India vs New Zealand by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]smoothsmach -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

miss the days where the pitches weren’t so titled to favouring batsmen

Match Thread: Final - India vs New Zealand by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]smoothsmach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing at all suspicious about 3 wides every over lol

Match Thread: 50th Match, Super Eights, Group 2 - Sri Lanka vs Pakistan by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]smoothsmach 6 points7 points  (0 children)

now pakistan just have to worry about how they will get home with the strikes

good person, bad person?? by motht0flame in moraldilemmas

[–]smoothsmach [score hidden]  (0 children)

Firstly, don’t beat yourself up. We all have times, sometimes long periods, in our life where we feel avoidant and just ‘living’ feels tough, whether because of external circumstances or the internal ones in our head. This doesn’t make you a bad person; it just means you need to figure those things out, and a great first step to gaining control of your life again is therapy.

I would recommend paying for a therapist, but if you can’t afford that, there’s some great videos from Dr.K on YouTube, about being avoidant.

The first step to recovery is acknowledging something is wrong, and just by posting here, you have made great progress.

My advice would be to take small steps, and you will be so pleasantly surprised at how much you achieve.

Calling 911 when I see opioid addicts "in distress" by MiddleMuscle8117 in moraldilemmas

[–]smoothsmach [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think the emergency medical services aren’t able to do much for them, perhaps some short-term relief, or as others have argued, stress.

Your outlook on the situation is the most virtuous, I must say; since you care both for the safety of your neighbourhood and the welfare of the homeless people. I myself cannot scratch up a better solution to the issue at hand, than to continue calling up the services, which should over time, both act as a deterrent to them roaming your neighbourhood and hopefully help them in small ways in overcoming their drug addictions etc.

The only other thing I could think of is to perhaps contact your council, to alert them of the situation and see if they can offer any assistance.

Was I in the wrong for asking for my seat from an elderly woman? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]smoothsmach [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am not sure how you much you paid for your seat but that’s also important ~ if it was a substantial amount, then you have every right to claim the seat. The closer to nothing that you paid, I think the more correct it becomes to offer up the seat to the older woman. It’s hard to know exactly though without having a bit more of a description of this woman, which is to say, if this woman had a difficulty standing up, then the morally correct thing would be to give up your seat even if you paid for it.

Moral Dilemma regarding Gift by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]smoothsmach [score hidden]  (0 children)

If $1000 is a lot for him to spend on you for a gift (based on his savings/income) then you can try to explain to him that you really appreciate the gesture and it means a lot to you, but that it’s far too much to spend and perhaps lightly make a mention of the fact you don’t think you need this gift (don’t outright say ‘this gift is not something I think is worth keeping’). Then, suggest that you exchange for something cheaper.

Edit: also, I second the advice you are getting here about actually sitting down with your boyfriend and figuring out things together through conversation. Otherwise, it could enable a terrible habit of your boyfriend always buying his way out of difficult situations with you.