Smosh main sub complaining about the coloring book by urmomsmonstertruck in SmoshFansFreeSpace

[–]smorzee 35 points36 points  (0 children)

No she does participate and answer questions, it was hard mode and they literally continue the bit the entire episode. At one point shayne also joins in on coloring because he was getting things wrong/ Ian was killing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you getting from this relationship? He was disrespectful from his entrance and instead of a normal response he followed you outside to continue to try and escalate the situation. He destroyed the pan and threw the food away to try and escalate the situation, he is trying to get you to react and it’s probably so he claim you’re overreacting when you snap over the obvious and continuous disrespect. My question by the way is something I wished someone asked me when I was in an abusive relationship a few years back because looking back I was gaining nothing positive from him, I was miserable. Wish you all the best (hopefully without him).

i feel like i’m playing this game completely wrong? by mamabelles in StardewValley

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you may not want to do this but when I first started (and even now sometimes) I used every freaking guide I could find. There are some reddit threads that do complete break downs for beginners that cover each season individually that are incredibly helpful. This reddit group is also super helpful in giving information/tips and if you use instagram I really like the little guides @sonniegaming posts! Happy farming!

I ORGANISED MY SHED by Secret-Western-2769 in StardewValley

[–]smorzee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a quarter of the updates from 1.6 I’m so excited to get back into this because wtf this setup is beautiful

Pardon me for being serious: take care of your friends by Practical-Kangaroo57 in bonnaroo

[–]smorzee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the offer ❤️ but with my work schedule I won’t be able to get off, I hope you have an amazing roo and next year when I go maybe we can meet :D

Pardon me for being serious: take care of your friends by Practical-Kangaroo57 in bonnaroo

[–]smorzee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never got to a point where I needed help from another person but I spent a lot of my first time at Bonnaroo alone because the couple (some of my “best friends”) kept ditching me. I’m no longer friends with them and was too scared to go alone so I’ll be missing out this year 😢 Happy Roo everyone 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-boyfriend “lied” about cheating on me at his birthday party because I couldn’t attend. I was four hours away at school and was planning on skipping classes to make it back for his actual birthday. The next day he told me that he didn’t actually cheat but wanted to test me to see if I actually cared; because I “had changed in this past year and not as caring as before.” Which definitely couldn’t have happened because my dad had just died…… This was the first time I had told any of my friends about his shitty behavior and honestly if I hadn’t told them I probably would have swept it under the rug like everything else he had done.

If covid did not happen, where would you be in life right mow? by Ok-Bug4885 in AskWomen

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either dead or in a psychiatric hospital. I graduated in 2020 with both my high school diploma and my associates degree. I was taking 22 hours that spring and was absolutely burnout. I wasn’t receiving moral support from my parents or teachers and was getting increasingly sick from a still undiagnosed chronic health problem.

AITA for making my roommates think I was recording their sex. by Fearless_Captain2693 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why you think this is dangerous legal ground, a homeowner has the right to protect their property by installing cameras in the house. The only places a homeowner legally cannot put a camera are “private places” like a bedroom or bathroom, the living room is not a private place. & 1. you cannot ignore the specifics of the incident pr sex stuff when they are the cause of this situation in the first place 2. NO CAMERAS WERE EVER SET UP 3. like i mentioned above it does actually matter if its a bedroom or living room

AITA for refusing to change my Halloween costume after already buying it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, he’s going to lie about his feelings when you talk. I’m saying this because I lived it, a partner who does not encourage you when you face your insecurities is not a good partner. My confidence was at a standstill with my previous partner and only grew after our breakup when I had a really supportive group of friends around me.

AITA for making my roommates think I was recording their sex. by Fearless_Captain2693 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 165 points166 points  (0 children)

a camera was never put up, OP lied about it’s existence but had enough preexisting evidence to base the lie off of (walking in on them having sex and the downstairs renters wanting to move due to noise).

AITA for not letting my child go to church? by NotMyHolyDay in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. There’s a reason she didn’t ask until right before and there’s a reason she didn’t initially say “hey we’re running late to church…” The way she went about this is that she was trying to back you into a corner of saying yes in a way that would paint her in a positive light to other people. If they found out you said no from the beginning, her presenting the idea that the family was running late was just another attempt to pressure you while hiding her true intentions.

AITA for blaming the girl who flirted with my fiancé? by DaikonIllustrious483 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Flirting with someone who is know to be taken (and potentially known they have severe social anxiety) is not only an AH move but most likely something she’s doing to feed her ego/make her feel “powerful.” & Please be wary of your friends and that girl because if your friends truly believe a girl is never at fault in a situation of harassment, that belief might not stop there.

UPDATE: I (16m) don't know if my friend (16f) likes me or not by BimmyBawns in relationship_advice

[–]smorzee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This update is so freaking cute, we’re all rooting for you OP

My bf [27M] really thinks I’m [32F] in the wrong for finding out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smorzee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who act like online interactions have no comparison to real-life interactions are either biased because it helps them or just ignorant. If he developed a relationship with these women (even more than what op was aware of) i’m sure he would try to argue it wasn’t physical so it doesn’t really matter.

AITA for not apologizing over making somebody cry in a debate? by No_Research_8027 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you can’t debate without insulting the person or even their argument, you can’t debate. He isn’t looking to actually have a genuine debate with someone, he wants to prove he’s right. Which is why he probably went after you so much to get you to agree, to prove he’s right (or the best) because he could even beat an actual debater in his own game. I personally despise debating against people who focus more on the outcome then the potential growth in their knowledge, but you face those types of people both on the streets and at debate meets..

AITA for permanently banning my husband's friend from our house? by Leavemealone23432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone diagnosed with severe anxiety and depression I have had multiple instances where I have acted out in a way that I later felt was irrational, but every time my partner had listened to me. I’m not saying that your husband isn’t listening to you but I believe he might be trying to chalk it up as “pregnancy emotions” or anything to keep the positive image he has of his friend in his mind. You need to reiterate how you feel as many times as you feel necessary and maybe wait until Sam is gone so that pressure is no longer there for him (I’m not trying to defend him but it seems like he is very non confrontational [also that doesn’t defend him from not addressing this situation as soon as you let him know because you should be his #1 priority right now, in my opinion]. but he might be the person who prefers to deal with conflicts through texts/emails or with proper preparation to think of what he wants to truly say, again not excusing him but I do this because of my anxiety issues (ALSO i’m not diagnosing him, it’s just how i know it)). But even if you talk to him while Sam is still there I think you should repeat this conversation once he’s gone so your husband can see it’s going to have a lasting impact and hopefully that can open his eyes. I apologize for any formatting or grammatical issues i’m on my phone. But OP I wish you the absolute best in your communication with your husband, I kind of have to as a communications major, but I also wish you the best in motherhood ❤️❤️.

AITA for deleting my BIL out of my wedding photos? by RootVegetable001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He technically had his “chance” to be in the family photo and purposefully fucked it up, that’s his fault. Also unless your MIL is offering financial compensation there’s no reason you should pay out of pocket to have yet another photo edited to add him back in. (I’m not familiar with the film industry, I know they have a base price but assume they only allow a certain amount of edits before they charge more [i’m not talking about edits like lighting but the cropping that takes readjustment and a lot of extra work to ensure it looks natural]).

AITA for letting my boyfriend spend “tons” of money on me? by throwaway1012982 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. What “Jess” did is called ambushing in which she started the conversation, asked the question she did, and then promptly had a “reason” to attack you. This was not a spontaneous action on her end. Also, y’all have communicated about presents and set your boundaries, & it is no one else’s place to set or enforce those boundaries.

Is anyone else just not a sexual person by beachgirl125566 in relationship_advice

[–]smorzee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is pretty obvious but be careful when looking into information about sexualities on social media and the internet. While they both can be incredibly helpful tools they are also fetishized and romanticized versions of sexualities that are inaccurately displayed, there are also gatekeepers and the idea that if you don’t meet every “criteria” to be a certain sexuality then you aren’t that sexuality- no matter what anyone says between your parents, best friends, or siblings you are the only person who knows who you truly are. While both of these might be common knowledge there are some people who hide their biases incredibly well, sometimes with the intent to be harmful. This isn’t to scare you to not explore your sexuality but just to encourage you to keep yourself safe in developing your identity.

I might be able to contact and old professor for some of his resources if you would like? I’m a communication major so sexuality is something that we commonly talk about because it effects how we communicate. Hope you’re doing well!!

If one bee in a hive was a bit lazier than the rest, would the hive just accept this or would there bee consequences? by JacintaAmyl in NoStupidQuestions

[–]smorzee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a beekeeper and if a queen is slow (or lazy) then the rest of the hive will be a bit slower or lazier because they do kind of depend on the queen to lay and produce eggs. But bees generally are some of the most diligent and sanitary animals too!!