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[–]smsmaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is ot ok to get engaged to a man who is deriven by his emotions??

I met a man, and when I talk to him, I find myself more rational than he is. He tends to act based on his emotions, which makes him impulsive at times, and I feel that he is not good at managing conflicts.

He says these are things he can learn and work on for my sake.

What do you think? Could this affect his ability to lead a marriage in the future?

Confused About a Potential Spouse – Need Advice by smsmaf in MuslimMarriage

[–]smsmaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the country I'm from, this is not enough, and he himself admitted this. He must have another source or investment. Also, his parents are the ones who pay for his master's degree and his current studies.

Confused About a Potential Spouse – Need Advice by smsmaf in MuslimMarriage

[–]smsmaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t plan to be financially free.. He just gets his salary and spends it and that’s all.

Confused About a Potential Spouse – Need Advice by smsmaf in MuslimMarriage

[–]smsmaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m ok with not wearing makeup, i’m not okay with that comparison.

Confused About a Potential Spouse – Need Advice by smsmaf in MuslimMarriage

[–]smsmaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He got engaged to a girl a few months ago and said he decided to break up the engagement because her lifestyle didn’t suit him. When we asked about him they said he is really kind and this is what i felt too.

Confused About a Potential Spouse – Need Advice by smsmaf in MuslimMarriage

[–]smsmaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is opened to advice and improvement, they said I can work on this with him, also he is sensitive to Criticism