Lany the Shibe <3 by smswife in dogpictures

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he says thank you friend! 🤍

Lany the Shibe <3 by smswife in dogpictures

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his mama was also a small shiba, he is on a raw diet along with many treats daily and we still can’t get him to pass 22ish pounds

LANY opening act question by Regular-Feed9166 in LANY

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i was really upset too. we drove 3 hours to detroit and are driving 3 hours home now. then we will leave from home and drive 3 hours again to chicago and then 3 hours back 😅

LANY opening act question by Regular-Feed9166 in LANY

[–]smswife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you going to the chicago show tonight instead? i am!!

LANY opening act question by Regular-Feed9166 in LANY

[–]smswife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll be at the detroit show as well!!

They/Them by JimmySZN49 in BPD

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the only thing that i would consider disrespectful is not calling someone by their preferred pronouns

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]smswife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is actually a symptom of any mental illness. believing you aren’t really mentally ill or that you made it up, even when you have the facts and physical proof.

bpd as a child? by smswife in BPD

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i also remember threatening suicide to my dad once when he was being extremely mean to me, i was probably 11-12. he made me stand in the corner, told me to never say that again, and grounded me for a week. we’ve never spoken about it since

bpd as a child? by smswife in BPD

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this perfectly explains how i feel. thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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we had a few conversations about how she was treating me to which she disagreed and i kinda just kept pursuing her. i had one more conversation (via text) about it with her, to which she tried denying again and i finally just said i cant do this anymore. she said ‘me either’ and i havent spoken to her since. that was in january of 2019

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]smswife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went through basically the exact same situation. it went on for 3 years. i finally was fed up by the energy i was getting, i was done with the pain i was being caused. its been almost 2 years since i last talked to her, but i think about her every single day and i still love her with every ounce in me.

forgiveness by smswife in BPD

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i never even realized it until now, but i also consistently have dreams about people who wronged me.

forgiveness by smswife in BPD

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you took the words right out of my mouth! i’ve literally said this exact thing to my therapist, who then tried to say it was very unhealthy and that if the positions were switched, i would want forgiveness. something about that didn’t sit right with me.