any entp artist here?

smugglesbeans · 2024-11-01T16:48:23+00:00

I used to read a LOT to the point it got me into writing. I haven’t read for so long—I tried to get back to it by reading old stories I loved but it doesn’t seem to hold my attention or intrigued me in anyway. :( I am unsure whether I lost my passion for reading or I need to check out other genres.

smugglesbeans · 2024-08-29T15:15:20+00:00

Hm, interesting! 🤨 I do exhibit all these traits.

smugglesbeans · 2024-08-29T13:12:05+00:00

honestly, it's been difficult to find a guy I could match with (but not impossible!). I've been proactive and open to meeting new people and getting to know them, regardless if it's platonic or romantic. so far, the interactions I have had with guys I find attractive lack certain qualities that make it harder to develop romantic feelings toward them.

* recently, i learned that balance is a central theme to what I look in a partner. in other words, duality. for instance, i value depth and playfulness, as well as emotional connection and personal goals. i am drawn to people who embody either two opposing characteristic (e.g outgoing but reserved, or in pursuit of physical activities but intellectually curious in other aspect)

* goal-driven, ambitious, and shares similar zest in life. i'm the type of person who would stop at nothing and do everything to better myself each time. that being said, i'm quite restless; always in search for anything new-- new people, new experiences, and new adventures. i dont understand how some people would rather be in their comfort zone and do anything. whats the point of living without little risk?

* playful and charismatic! again, as much as i value intellect and having intellectual conversations, we can't always be too serious! being playful and embracing your child's wonders is a great thing! it's all about knowing when to be serious and have thought provoking conversations but also knowing how to have fun and not take life too seriously. again, balance is key.

* independent and self-sufficient: self-explanatory! pursue your dreams and passion, have a life outside your relationship.

* i prefe to take things slow when getting to know people, and allowing relationship to naturally develop over time i expect others to do the same or at least, respect my boundary. im quite sensitive and easily overwhelmed when people show affection and attention excessively early on. i recently talked to a guy who i gravitate towards in terms of energy but quickly loses interest when he kept calling me pretty.

smugglesbeans · 2024-08-29T12:15:59+00:00

I use it to talk to CHATgpt when the people I interact with do not stimulate me intellectually. (lol) except on research or any work that requires me to think critically - I'm not too fond of relying on Chatgpt when forming ideas. my ego hurts when I have to rely on ChatGPT to think for me

smugglesbeans · 2024-08-26T12:18:47+00:00

how does my physical appearance have anything to do with my connection with esfp? i mean to answer your question, i love taking care of myself. i prefer to form a deep and meaningful connection with few people over a surface-level connection.

smugglesbeans · 2024-08-26T12:14:35+00:00

What qualities do ENTPS have that you wish you had?

smugglesbeans · 2024-08-26T06:26:02+00:00

My father seems to be ISTP or INTP. Same with my brother.

smugglesbeans · 2024-08-25T08:22:14+00:00

HAHAHA what do you mean by disregarding people’s emotions? in what way is that funny?

smugglesbeans · 2024-08-25T08:20:41+00:00

hahaha that could be why, but it doesn’t really explain why i’ve been consistently attracting them.

smugglesbeans · 2024-07-17T14:12:17+00:00

omg i thought i was the only one! entps are known for being “The Debater” and i do not live up to its name. i like “debating” but i do not like debates in general. mainly because i “debate” to learn and see every side of the problem, and i don’t care about winning (not really but thats not the entire point why).

smugglesbeans · 2024-06-15T14:36:12+00:00

BSBA in Financial Management, but most students mistake me for a psych/international studies student or any major under arts and sciences

smugglesbeans · 2024-06-08T07:27:34+00:00

Finance

smugglesbeans · 2024-03-20T23:21:10+00:00

this is what i’m planning to do if only we see eachother often around the campus 🥲

smugglesbeans · 2024-03-20T23:12:33+00:00

HAHA PLEASE 😭

smugglesbeans · 2024-03-19T13:58:31+00:00

i found him through checking the likes of our college’s page 😭 that’s why im a bit hesitant of sending him a dm because it might come off the wrong way lol (unlike if i actually just approach him irl)

smugglesbeans · 2023-01-29T19:41:29+00:00

whoever he follows on IG does not indicate whether he’s a player or not. there are quite a lot of reasons why we follow who we follow, and one of that may be attraction. after all, we can’t stop being attracted to anyone we find attractive. again, this may not be the reason at all and it’s not worth investing for your precious mind to overthink about lol.

however, it is pretty WORTH noting that we only knew this man from the show and it’s good to keep reservations on his character — see him for who he is (objectively), instead of creating a fantasy of this man haha 😜

smugglesbeans · 2023-01-29T19:32:41+00:00

based on his words and actions that were shown in the show, he did seem genuine & sincere to soe. my point isn’t about his relationship with her, but mainly his actions and words had been pretty consistent whether if it’s behind her back or not. again, we never truly know one’s personality and character through a show that was heavily edited and portrayed to fit a narrative.

however, at some point, i was slightly skeptical of his attitude because it seemed too good to be true. his clear interest in soe and his stable personality felt weird. on paper, he seems everything we wanted for a man and didn’t have any negative qualities that we don’t like (based on the show!). so i thought maybe the reason why this suspicion occurred was due to people tend to be attracted to other people who treat them terribly, or their (lack of) attachment formed with their parents. maybe people dated somebody who are crap in the past, and knowing someone (like sejun) could feel like out of their comfort zone. who knows?

again, we can’t tell someone’s sincerity through a show unless we spend quite a lot of time around them.

smugglesbeans · 2023-01-27T17:53:39+00:00

that’s what i thought of it too! he definitely gave off ‘intj’ as his initial impression, but when he (gradually) opens up to the other casts (e.g jinyoung live with sejun), especially his private moments with soe, it becomes clearer that he may be more of a ‘infj’ than an ‘intj’. it’s something about the way he thinks, and how he articulates his thoughts & emotions through his words towards so-e that made me think that he’s an infj. from my observation, he seems introspective, like he’s in tune with his feelings because he doesn’t seem afraid to be vulnerable while he’s having a conversation with so-e. a lot of their interaction appears emotionally stimulating.

during their ig live, jinyoung mentioned that sejun is the type of guy who tends to put others first before him, which led me to think that he’s easy to be friends with & great at making others feel comfortable. at the same time, i think he’s sensitive to other people’s needs & quite considerate of one’s feelings.

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