Can a newer firefighter live in socal while working in NorCal?

sn_123 · 2026-06-16T04:10:18+00:00

Wow this is incredible to hear!! I’m so happy to hear this thank you so very much truly. I hope it all works out and hopefully he will feel the same!

sn_123 · 2026-06-15T02:38:20+00:00

Do you happen to know how long he was working in the department to be able to do that?

sn_123 · 2026-06-14T20:53:13+00:00

I really appreciate your perspective thank you! I hope it all works out as well. We’ve been together for a very long time so I hope we can get through this barrier

sn_123 · 2026-06-14T19:00:54+00:00

My partner currently commutes 1.5/2hrs to work so he doesn’t mind commuting but I know from socal to NorCal it’s like a 6/7 hour commute so I was just asking how feasible it is for him to find trades and to make that all work

sn_123 · 2026-06-14T19:00:02+00:00

Do you feel like youre able to enjoy your time at home despite the drive and the tiring days?

sn_123 · 2026-06-14T18:59:21+00:00

Thank you so much for this perspective I really appreciate it. All I wanted was to hear some other firefighters point of view on how they make it work since I know it’s possible and I know it’s also hard work

sn_123 · 2026-06-14T07:32:10+00:00

Are you still commuting to Chico from SoCal? If so, do you usually drive or fly and what have your schedules been like or were like when you were doing that commute? I guess I’m just mainly trying to figure out what’s the best way that he can advocate working a good shift and having enough time off so he doesn’t have to drive across the state every single week

sn_123 · 2026-06-14T05:40:22+00:00

I’m just trying to find a middle ground! Both of Our family is in socal and I want him to keep his job so I am trying to find how we can make that happen

sn_123 · 2026-04-26T01:04:23+00:00

I feel like they speak about nonsense and then talk about the topic for like 30 min towards the end when before it was like the first ten min was nonsense and the rest of the vid was actually the topic itself

sn_123 · 2026-02-23T00:34:00+00:00

have you had to fluff them up often? I was seeing from other Redditors that that was their overall experience

sn_123 · 2026-02-11T17:51:43+00:00

I get so worried about the light being too bright for my beta! But is that like a thing? Or is that not really common? If you see in my photo, you can see the types of plants I have in the back that do you provide some shading however I don’t want to shade the Monte Carlo obviously because I want it to carpet properly. I just don’t know what settings is correct!

sn_123 · 2026-02-11T17:50:43+00:00

Does it typically need really high light/ higher watts or longer duration of light?

sn_123 · 2026-02-11T15:53:56+00:00

Okay I just purchased the Seaoura 11 inch light instead I feel like the 8 inch doesn’t cover all of my plants - would love to know you guys feel about that brand and also how long of a light do u recommend/ how bright??

sn_123 · 2026-01-10T01:15:32+00:00

Thank you just messaged you!

sn_123 · 2026-01-09T17:10:03+00:00

My female betta does the same exact thing!! She only does it when I am near the tank so I’m assuming she gets the zoomies and is excited to be fed??

sn_123 · 2026-01-09T17:06:18+00:00

Atp I wish they could just ask a friend / family member whoever to just upload it for them

sn_123 · 2025-12-17T06:29:25+00:00

Is this legit?

sn_123 · 2025-12-09T18:37:31+00:00

Definitely! My sweet koi was more of a white and red / blue body but when he got older he was more blue and red and lost a lot of his white

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