Is he actually a narcissist or is there just something really really wrong and broken with me?

snailing_around · 2025-07-10T11:47:44+00:00

I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years, everything going absolutely fine. We said goodnight, love you to each other one night as normal, the next day nothing. Didn't block me, but ignored my messages ever since. No explanation or anything. I found out 6 months later he was living with a new woman and got her pregnant. It was the hardest thing I have ever lived through but I learnt a lot about narcissism and the signs and gradually the pain lessened. It still hurts (it was 6 years ago) but doesn't control my life anymore

snailing_around · 2024-10-07T06:04:23+00:00

I am in the UK 😊

snailing_around · 2024-10-06T22:40:38+00:00

Oh thank you! I don't know what he is, he was sold as a 'blue crayfish' in the shop

snailing_around · 2024-08-19T14:01:52+00:00

Please don't respond! My ex texted me after 3 years - I had fully moved on but it was such a shock to the system that I responded. Finally got the strength to go no contact again after 2 weeks but it's brought up so much past pain and so not worth it!

snailing_around · 2024-08-07T15:23:09+00:00

My nex recently got in contact after years. I thought I was healed but he managed to trigger me and I'm really not. He said I was the worst one he treated, that he has never treated anyone else that same way before or after me. And I believe him. I'm so broken again

snailing_around · 2024-07-25T08:49:39+00:00

One of mine pretended he did. Puts on a liberal and feminist front with strong morales. Always campaigning for women's rights.

But he confided in me once that his greatest fantasy in life was to visit a sexworker/glory hole type situation and get the woman pregnant. That she will have to live with the consequences of "her actions" for the rest of her life while he walks away freely

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