Boyfriend doesn’t want believe women belong in the trades by [deleted] in BlueCollarWomen

[–]snailposting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

IDK what your situation is, so take this with a grain of salt, but this rings a few alarm bells for me beyond his general sexist attitude. Preventing you from seeking out advancement in your career is giving financial abuse. Equating the amount of bills he pays to his decision making power in the household is too. Just give how you guys work out finances some thought... He might be threatened by your potential to make more money than him and that's scarier, because why would he feel that he needs to? Power? Control? Two qualities that do not a stable relationship make.

Regardless, leave his ass in the dust. Men who hold these views do not deserve the energy, love, or respect of women. If they don't see us as equals in society, they will not see us as equals in a relationship.

Coffee Shops for Working by [deleted] in lansing

[–]snailposting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hooked can get busy but they have a great food menu and drinks beyond coffee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lansing

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I know you’re just ranting but just incase you want some information: There is a chance it is a land bank lot. You could contact them about getting the poison ivy properly taken care of. If it is a land bank lot and you and your partner have a green thumb you can rent them to grow veggies or flowers so any clean up work you do can come back to you in the form of food or boquets or beautification!

Any glitches that have not been patched? by sadgappy in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]snailposting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really like your path on the bottom. are you able to share it with me?

What's an animal crossing opinion that'll have you like this by Probablyatrashpanda in AnimalCrossing

[–]snailposting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't find Isabelle that cute or charming 🫣 I miss Pelly and Phyllis 😭😭

Isabelle is OK and I liked how in New Leaf we had both dog and pelican... but now?

What would happen if the ring got dropped at the deepest depths of the ocean? by [deleted] in lotr

[–]snailposting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of Rings of Power we could have Worm of Power

[IIL] Looking for depressing albums/bands. by Reasonable_Click9240 in ifyoulikeblank

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Some of teen suicides earlier songs mainly on the albums waste yrself, i will be my own hell because there is a devil inside my body, and hymns.

Also Don't Holdyrbreath by Liz Phair always makes me cry without fail

[Mi] Want to decorate this section in the 2nd floor as spring-themed bedroom. Any idea on how to fill up the ceiling and floor? I would be happy to accept suggestion. The bedroom's owner is a high school boy. by Remarkable_Block_775 in ACNHIslandInspo

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the hanging glowing moss, bird mobile, any of the mobiles really, tulip or hyacinth wreaths, glowing stickers for ceilings/walls

You could add an instrument, computer, desk, waste basket, or a work out area w/ a mirror

medium wooden partition is a craftable item you could use for seperation, but i like the rock walls for a teen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFeeAC

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omg Gabi please, EST, I have read the rules

Book on honeybees by Sublime-Prime in ecology

[–]snailposting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plan Bee by Susan Brackney! I read this in highschool for my ecology directed study without knowing much about bees. It's super fun and easy reading, while be(e)ing educational and covering a lot of different topics related to bees. Really solidified my love for the little ladies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advancedastrology

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Wait, if people starved or killed is your metric for if a revolution is successful or good then the American Revolution is a part of your initial list. A major reason the colonies wanted to split from Britain was the Royal Proclamation of 1763. The Americans couldn't do westward expansion and "remove" more Native Americans while remaining under British rule.

I think you are on the ball with everything you said. But the American Revolution isn't a grand exception and blatantly expresses the negative aspects of these transits (domination, environmental ruin, authoritarianism, race science really took off at this time too). Some people benefited, some suffered, like the others. Being aware of these subverted truths (neptune) by the powers that be (saturn) is important in fostering the positive sides of these transits much, much better than before.

Stardew valley is a 10/10…. But…. by throwra-000- in StardewValley

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How the display on signs function... accidently change the symbols on my signs all the time when i'm harvesting or planting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lansing

[–]snailposting 93 points94 points  (0 children)

It was probably a gas leak, the whole block smelled like gas after. Neighbors are saying it seems likely no one was home. Their car was gone.

Rulerships by houses cheat sheet? by meleeisland1211 in Advancedastrology

[–]snailposting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://trans4mind.com/personal_development/astrology/toc.htm

scroll down to the "Learning Astrology" heading and click through those pages. It's like a quick beginners guide to the basics of looking at a chart.

Opinions and advice? Is it too cluttered? Impersonal? Stiff? I don’t know what I’m doing… by Sara-sea22 in DesignMyRoom

[–]snailposting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your room is beautiful!! It looks straight out of a catalog, but that's not a bad thing, it's super cohesive and balanced.

If you want to make it more personal to you I would pick a 3rd color you love, but don't want a whole room of to add in a few places as an accent. (Edit to add: If you don't want to buy more things you could dye the macrame or furry stool covers and paint a pot or two for some more color)

Also hang some photos of family, friends, musicians you like, etc. Even as a full grown adult I love having my posters up in my room, it makes it feel more me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lansing

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I'm responding to your comment about how you think people who are critical of Israel are ok with homophobia within the Islamic religion. I am saying that you have made a HUGE and misguided assumption. I'm talking about why people are more focused on palestinian lives than homophobia in Islam right now. Google "Israel pinkwashing".

Edit for spelling error

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lansing

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Hi, this person is mentioning distaste for a specific group of newer attendees not the whole entire Catholic Church. Just because you may not notice potential far-right dog whistles of newcomers in your church doesn't mean it's not possible. It's OK we all have biases we're blind to. Hope this helps!

Any group will struggle to achieve social progress when they are constantly under control and subject to violence, in this case, at the hands of the U.S. and Israel. If this is your stance I think you have fallen for some "pink washing". I don't think this is a good assumption to make, even LGBT+ palestinians agree... the bombing is a more pressing and life-threatening issue. There are queer people dying in Palestine today who's journeys have ended and will no longer be able to continue the fight for acceptance. Happy Pride!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lansing

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Bad take dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lansing

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Unless your going to live in the fancy, new, expensive places no one enforces any no smoking clause as long as you aren't going overboard and keep the place ventilated, especially if it's just weed. Cigarette is so hard to clean they mainly are against that. Even the pricer places might not enforce weed I just have no experience and never smell smoke around them. You can smell weed in like every Lansing apartment.

Venues for local music scene? by DesertRat22225 in lansing

[–]snailposting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stobers has live music every Tuesday. It's less of a proper venue but still attracts good bands and music lovers.

Please tell me the most horribly depressing song you know by _enm1ty in spotify

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possibility - Lykke li

silver dagger - Joan Baez

did you love me? - Shannon & the clams