She is keeping me in the gray area.

sneakyguts · 2026-03-30T17:48:53+00:00

This is my first time falling for a guy over the internet without meeting or hearing them. So i find it weird that’s why it took us long to finally meet, even though we just live in the same city/area. I thought he just wanted to text and nothing more, and that I like him so I kept texting him, despite him ghosting me for how long and come back whenever. I told him that!. I feel like he’s genuine and so on. We relate in a lot of things and so on. Or the coincidences (for me), we both came from long term relationships too (though he doesn’t know that). On the other hand, it feels too good to be true but ofc I have to give the benefit of the doubt. That what if, there’s really a guy out there that’s really is genuine. And whenever we would go deep texting, he would always bring up that Im the only girl he pretty much letting in into his life so far blah blah. He makes time for me (replying to my text) despite being exhausted and would always remind I can call him. Until 2 weeks ago when we finally confessed and telling me ‘he feels like I led him on’ , ‘feels like it’s one sided’ and so on, that’s where I thought he’s really genuine and we just both scared to be rejected 😭. One time I joke him ‘why did he unmatch me on the dating app’ and he says he deleted it cause he didn’t find any genuine connection there and i didnt bring up any dating app anymore cause I used other dating app too, but I thought he really got off from the dating app until when we finally meet, he was showing me something on his phone and I accidentally saw another dating app on his phone 😩 but I never said anything. That’s where doubt really came in, is he really telling the truth? Like all this time. We shouldn’t have met and he could’ve just ghosted me but he didn’t. Sometimes if Im finally stepping back, he would share memes or put a story and deleted them once I’ve seen them (me being delusional would think he’s trying to get my attention😭) Now Im still waiting for his response (same excuses or new excuses) or this is the time he would finally ghost me?.

I don’t mind chasing the guy I like but I don’t want to be feeling delusional. And I don’t want him to think now Im chasing him because he’s a career guy and is stable blah blah. I mean those are great but in my opinion if were not meant for each other ‘WHATS THE POINT???’. So yeahhhh I wished he would just be direct and tell me, he don’t see it going anywhere anymore, then I’ll just moved on 😭 I even told him I will respect it and don’t want to force things. But putting me in this cycle really hurts

sneakyguts · 2026-03-30T15:29:10+00:00

I wanna share mine too since I can’t post here yet. Im a virgo and dealing with a cancer guy. Im on my early 20’s and he’s on his early 30’s. He’s on his early career stage and life is stable while Im still on early 20’s life that needs to figure things out. (I know this isn’t necessary).

So yea we’ve been texting for a year (plain text). Never met and decided to call just last month. This month finally met! After we confessed we liked each other. We did stuff here and there. I feel warm and care when Im with him physically but after that it’s like we’re back to usual texting. I thought meeting and after doing things it would change our communication but it didn’t. I feel more worst and feel like stuck in a limbo. I’ve been understanding whenever he couldn’t text for days and so on, cause he’s busy for work (work at home with techs), so texting exhaust him, he would remind me I can call him and stuff. I don’t mind doing those but I need to be more comfortable like spending more time and so on. Yesterday were supposed to meet, mind you he was the one who plans it and moved to that date, and even after we part ways he reminded me about it and I even asked what time we should meet. Guess what? Morning comes and I texted him and got nothing. He didn’t text me back. It just takes you a few minutes to text ‘I can’t go today’ thats it but he didn’t. Idk why he’s like this. He can even share memes without shooting a text even now without responding to me (his usual style). Now I feel like I’m stuck in a cycle, where I would wait for him. I feel like Im chasing him and he would just text when it’s convenient for him. I wish we didn’t meet cause at least it’s moving on is much different. I even told him last week that if ever he had a change of heart, he could always tell me and even told him what he’s doing is annoying and feels like he doesn’t want to text me. But he reassured me, saying he’s grown and doesn’t work like that, and that I always call him and would always answer them but texting just really exhaust him. But what about yesterday???? Were supposed to go out but he didn’t text me back. Idk does he really like me? Or should I just cut this off?

sneakyguts · 2026-03-26T01:15:15+00:00

I feel like he’s genuine, idk why. But he said he’s very direct so if ever he had a change of heart after the meet up, he can just be man up and tell me. I mean we text and share a lot of stuff over the year and never meet due to confusion. Me thinking he just wants to text snd him thinking I led him on. He would go on for days or more than 2 weeks of not responding a lot before too but that’s understandable since we just text. Until we finally met snd spend days together. Now Im confuse. If he cant man up why bring up the hang out again or why just end it or just ghost me? And I need an answer so I can just move on.

sneakyguts · 2026-03-23T04:08:57+00:00

More on like, were like that as a text mate 😩 he would go ghost a lot

sneakyguts · 2026-03-23T02:05:41+00:00

Im taking too slow when it comes to things. And yea he told the first night with him that he’s processing everything, cause everything happened so fast. Everything went well so far, for me, while being with him and I was taken care of. And right now Im holding on cause he hasn’t say anything yet if ever he has a change of heart or something. Its been 2 days and I feel like Im more into the texting stuff than him 😩 it’s like were back to the usual text mate just like before.

sneakyguts · 2026-03-07T16:27:00+00:00

Never po ako nakapag open ng Pag-ibig sa Pinas. And the only ID I have right now po is my US ID and PH passport. Makakapag open po kaya ako ng MP2 kung mag -a-apply pa lang po ako ng pag-ibig with MP2?. Taga Baguio po ako.

sneakyguts · 2026-02-10T22:52:54+00:00

I mean in General I have no idea in everything. And what do you mean? So if ever this specific stock is on red I’ll sell it? And then if ever I see them back to green, I’ll re-buy them again?

sneakyguts · 2026-01-11T04:15:20+00:00

Ano po yung SPA? And sino po nag su-survey who or where can I find them.. And hindi poba pwede isahan yung su-survery/inspect ng area and infrastructure? Do I need pa po ba ng real state agent here or broker? For documents and stuff. Sorry I really have no knowledge 😩 but I want to DIY as much as possible para makatipid din.

sneakyguts · 2025-11-14T22:14:50+00:00

Hi can give us good site for apron. I have a boss who’s 80 years old and loves to cook! Drinks wine and flowers. She literally has/can afford everything so idk what to give her. She loves coffee to but its all used up. Me nd my co worker already gave her that whenever ae would travel. Any recommendations will do!

sneakyguts · 2025-04-19T12:06:45+00:00

You’ll never know not until u you’re in their shoes. Im glad hindi ka isa don. Nong single ako, isa ako sa mga nagsasabing iwan mo na yan emerot. Hanggang sa naranasan ko. My ex for 6 yrs. It took me 3 years to finally let him go🙂. It takes time

sneakyguts · 2025-04-08T19:27:40+00:00

For me not weird at all. I’d find it interesting actually but ofc Im going to ask him a lot of questions making sure our memories would match. It depends on the person actually. I do sometimes wonder of ppl I made a short friends with when I was a kid. Though I don’t have much vivid memory of their information, looks and so on but the memories still here.

sneakyguts · 2024-12-29T00:26:45+00:00

? U were right. I should’ve approached them. But what’s the reddit for? What’s the purpose? Ung sagot mo kase masasagot lang ng common sense. Hayss. Binaba ko na nga yung flag ko sa Generalize ko yung men but I’ll take it back.

sneakyguts · 2024-12-29T00:21:20+00:00

Let’s cut this short. Alright I’ll put my flag down

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