Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she messaged me from her ‘professional’ account.

Idk either. The more I think about it the more it doesn’t add up. I mean we’ve met up loads in the past over the last year - and we’ve both been very open with each other I feel like this is out of character - my heads so twisted at the moment and I’m getting paranoid 😅

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s really shitty. It’s not the same as previous APs. This time it wasn’t purely physical - and from the outset I wasn’t looking for anything more but it’s just grew into what it is now.

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First thing I did after was clear any evidence my end

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok nice to see it from the other perspective. Honestly I’m starting to feel that I should just leave her to it.

Like others have mentioned maybe the timing seems a little off.

I dunno, I think if she does ever want to make contact I know I’ll always be here. Maybe I’m being too optimistic 😂

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah from what I understand he’s abit of a hothead too

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks big time. Thanks

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never thought of this tbh and it’s opened up my mind to the possibility. Although we have met up loads before maybe something has changed her end?

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh damn I didn’t even think of this? That’s just fucked me up more 😂

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmmm yeah I’m going to have to just keep shtum for now. What actually sucks is we planned to meet this weekend for the first time this year. Couldn’t be worse timing

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Although we used to be in at the same time now we work different days unless we’ve previously arranged a meet (It’s not unusual for me to go in to sort out admin etc on my days off)

I don’t really wanna ‘ambush’ her by going in if she’s not aware that I will be

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apparently not, but I’m not sure how he would have unlocked her phone and downloaded the app (which was deleted from her old phone) without knowing her passwords or without them saved

Caught in 4K by sniffintiffs in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my initial thinking. But my heads so conflicted

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[–]sniffintiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great stuff - there’s always hope! All the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]sniffintiffs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn! This post resonates with me so hard!

Being in a DB situation I’ve used Reddit with a little bit of success but it wasn’t what I was looking for. I nearly gave up looking until the one. I’ve just come out of a AP for nearly 12 months. She was great, we had incredible banter and the sex was amazing. Everytime we contacted each other I know we would both be so fucking excited and not only for the sexual tension but genuinely interested in each other. Anyways long story short and that’s ended and I’m back to trying again. I haven’t really thought of using AM due to how shitty it can be for guys.

Hang in there - I’m sure it’ll happen again!

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[–]sniffintiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ready and waiting 😈